When it comes to online dating, I dont really know who has it harder between men and women. Women have to deal with inbox messages from douchebags saying foul stuff to them while guys like me have only 1 shot to not look like one of those douchebags. Im sure its hard for you women out there to take some men seriously on here but Im gonna go out on a limb and say that I pride myself on not being one of them. Then again, thats something that a jerk of a guy would say in order to conceal that. haha. ;) Welp, here we go.....
My name is BJ. I am originally from Orange County but moved out here for work 5 years ago and so far I am absolutely loving it. I am very fortunate to have the opportunity to live here but I feel like I am not taking full advantage of everything that CA has to offer. Scuba diving, hiking, fishing, camping....i want to experience it all so I suppose it would only make sense to have a partner in crime right? =) I am a very laid back yet sarcastic guy who loves to laugh and have fun.
What I’m doing with my life
Right now, I am doing what I love. I moved down here initially
because I got hired as a Trainer at Sea World. Animals have always
been a big part of my life and Its great to wake up every morning
actually looking forward to going to work to do what you love.
I’m really good at
finding something funny out of every single situation, good or bad.
I have always lived my life never saying "too soon" when it comes
to making jokes and I love the sound of laughter.
The first things people usually notice about me
Um...my eyes I guess? theyre blue.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
FOR TV: Dexter, Breaking Bad, the Walking Dead, Law &
Order:SVU, Sons of Anarchy, Family Guy, Arrested Development, SNL,
MUSIC: Right now I am really into country music but also still love
I spend a lot of time thinking about
what the next great adventure in my life will be! Im always ready
for one. I want a woman that I can experience new things with. I
havent been able to travel much in life and I would really like to
start if i meet the right girl. Ideally, my top 3 choices are
Australia, Africa and Ireland but i definitely wouldnt be upset if
I ended up on a beautiful beach somewhere relaxing for a week or
On a typical Friday night I am
Hanging out with friends at a dive bar doing Karaoke, going to a
baseball game, board game nights, watching a movie..... I
definitely like to go out but I have moved on from my “going out 5
nights a week” phase. I want someone who can have fun going out AND
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Ive slept with the entire cast of "Threes Company" Even Mr. Furley.
You should message me if
You are a truly genuine, funny, driven, positive and happy person.
I dont have a desire to surround myself with negativity and people
who can never find joy out of life.
I have worked hard to get to where Im at and would like to meet
someone who has ambition and goals. Nothing is sexier than a woman
who is determined to become the best version of someone she has
always wanted to be.......so, if youre interested, drop me a line
and say hello! =)