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Anj510

47 M Oakland, CA

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Construction
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
...goes like this:
Smart, kind, warm, thoughtful, a good listener.
Cynical and idealistic, earnest and sarcastic, depending on the day and company.
A romantic.
In a recent conversation with a friend, she suggested "sensitive and tender-hearted".
Physically fit and enjoy being active (the gym, hiking, riding my bike, tennis).
Believe in the importance of balance—taking care of mind, body, and spirit.
Politically liberal on most issues.
Serious and ambitious about my work, but try to have balance and not be a workaholic.
An environmentalist and lover of the outdoors.
Learning to express myself a bit through music—singing and guitar.
A lover of good books and movies.
An enthusiastic cook and trier of new recipes.
A transplanted Midwesterner, with stops on the East Coast and the Rocky Mountains in between.
What I’m doing with my life
Learning...to be a better architect; more about cooking, baking, painting, art; to play tennis and my guitar better; to trust my instincts; to be vulnerable and take risks; to be a better friend; to just be.
Lately I've started to explore Buddhist ideas--just the simple things like taking a bit of time to meditate every day, and being as present and kind as I can be, to myself and others.
I’m really good at
expressing myself; drawing; keeping promises; being on time; making smoothies; thinking (sometimes to a fault)
The first things people usually notice about me
"wow, he's tall for an Asian guy" (I'm 6'-2")
he's got a nice smile
he's quiet
he's got thick hair
my friend says, "he's an open and gentle guy, doesn't have hard edges, he's tender-hearted"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
ahh, here's where i could go on and on. but in short:
Books: The Corrections, Plainsong, Eventide, Watership Down, The Amazing Adventures of Kavalier and Clay
Movies: Ordinary People, The Sixth Sense, It's a Wonderful Life, The Sound of Music, The Verdict, Sense and Sensibility, Shadowlands, The Remains of the Day, Children of Men, many more...
Music: Wilco, Neil Finn, Elliott Smith, Dan Bern, Greg Brown, Springsteen, Aimee Mann, Keane, lots of other Americana, folk-rock, and bluegrass...
Food: good bread; deep-dish pizza (the Chicagoan in me); the double-corn muffin at Arizmendi; stone fruit in the summer, kale and celery in my smoothie; Mexico-city style tacos; Thai basil chicken; granola; ...
The six things I could never do without
besides the necessities like contact lenses:
orange juice
good bread/butter/marmalade
good books (i know this is cheating, but don't make me pick one book)
my bike (maybe)
pizza
pens and paper
I spend a lot of time thinking about
the environment and "living lightly"
my work, design, how to always be growing as an architect
friendship and (i have to confess) finding HER
food, cooking, eating in a healthy way (with the occasional lapse in the form of a good burger and fries or a cake donut)
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 34–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're kind and open-hearted, and ready for a relationship that's real, honest, vulnerable, and attitude-free...
You long for that feeling of looking into someone's eyes and feeling safe, known, and accepted.
You know that relationships aren't always easy or fun and you're willing to ride through the rough patches, because the good parts are that good.
You're aware of your own issues, are accepting of them and feel good about who you are in spite of them.
...and you're willing to take a chance!