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51 Elk Grove Village, IL Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 41-55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 8:11pm
4' 11" (1.50m)
Body Type
Special Diet
Christianity but it’s not important
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
Has dogs
English (Fluently), German (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm very active. I like to do a lot of things including working out, jogging, biking, skiing, gardening, painting. I will try just about anything once. I do value my life and I'm not a big risk taker. I love the outdoors. Prefer the summer weather but love to ski so I adore snow but hate bitter cold. I love a great conversation but I'm not looking to be in the midst of a constant debate. I'm a liberal politically.

I'm very crafty and handy. My father was killed when I was very young and my mother never remarried. There wasn't a ton of extra money so I learned how to do things for myself. As such I'm very independent. I'm a great partner but if you're looking for a damsel in distress or someone who needs saving it's not me. If you're not easily intimidated by an independent woman, who doesn't need saving but would certainly liked to be saved - all the while saving you too, perhaps we're a good match.

I'm a bit of a neat freak. I'm easy going and easy to laugh. I'm looking for my best friend, a man who's manly but also kind, funny and easy going.

We all have baggage. I have mine but I'm not angry and I don't want to be around someone who is. You also must love dogs and kids. I have one of each. Update: added two more puppies to my clan.

For me it's all about the little moments because that's mostly what life is made of.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Making sure I'm taking enough time to enjoy it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Surviving, adapting and accomplishing what I set my mind to while making a house a home and a great place to be.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm shorter than I seem. Sounds strange but I'm always amused at how often people are surprised to learn my height or stand right next to me and realize I'm short. It seems fairly obvious to me. I guess it's the smoke and mirrors I bring with me wherever I go.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Jane Eyre, Ghost stories, Turn of the Shrew, Sherlock Holmes, James Bond movies, British movies, Phineaus & Ferb, Modern Family, The Mentalist, Once upon a time, Country music, British bands, new wave, too much to list. Desserts and pasta!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My (family - includes my dogs), friends, planner, working out, my garden, A SENSE OF HUMOR.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Renovation projects I have to complete. Paintings I have to start and finish.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I'm out doing something fun. Or hangin in doing something fun.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
It wouldn't be private if I posted it here.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You like what you've read and think there's a chance for a connection. Please don't contact me if you're looking for a discreet relationship. I'm looking for one to shout about. Also If you're in your 20s or 30s please don't contact me. I prefer someone more age appropriate.

And one more thing to all the gentlemen taking your photos with your phones as Dolly Parton once said "Smile -- it increases your face value". 😎