43 Fairfax, CA
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My self-summary
This above all: to thine own self be true,
And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man.

I am *more introverted* and *less into exercise* than my OKC peers. If you're okay with that, read on!

I have a bit of a blue collar fetish. John Goodman on Roseanne, anyone? UNF.
What I’m doing with my life
Keeping it real, like old Shakespeare up there

By OKC standards, I'm pretty unaccomplished. I haven't seen much of this world (but I do have a passport, and I'm not afraid to use it!). My future plans are kind of up in the air right now. I don't spend a lot of time outdoors. I haven't sampled nearly as much ethnic food as I would like. Nope, I haven't even gotten around to Thai yet. I operate on my own timeframe, I guess.

I am an empty-nester at 43! How does that happen! Oh yeah, I guess we know how that happens. My amazing daughter is 23 years old and lives on her own. I couldn't be more proud of her.
I’m really good at
There are oodles of women on here who seem to have conquered the world, and I can't really compete with that. But I'm pretty cool to hang out with, if you want to rent a movie or lay out a blanket and do some stargazing. I'm a great kisser, and I'm pretty good at brainstorming silly ideas all day and doing absolutely nothing with them.
The first things people usually notice about me
blue eyes, touchable hair, resting bitchface, junk in the trunk
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Read The Stranger
See The Matrix
Watch The Knick
Listen to The Knife
The six things I could never do without
lip balm
hair ties
mild weather
Diet Coke (my only vice)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
American outdoorsiness versus Swedish outdoorsiness. Americans like mountain bikes and running and expending lots of energy. Swedes like picnics and weekend cabins and dangling their feet off the sides of boats and piers. I like the Swedes' attitude on this.
On a typical Friday night I am
Answering questions on OKCupid. Two thousand isn't enough!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
OKC already outed me as a big old slob! THAT is the thing I try to keep secret!
I have a crush on Ron Swanson.
I've lived in the bay area most of my life and have never been to Yosemite.
You should message me if
You're a smart, funny, couch potato.
You're an INTJ. INFP here.
You want to take me out for Thai food. Or shawarma. I like meat.
You're willing to play Settlers of Catan with me.
You scored "The Real Deal" on the OKCupid Kissing Test. *nod nod*
You like looking at cloud patterns in the sky.
You'd rather watch Netflix than go for a run/hike/bike ride/workout