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47 London, UK Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 40–53
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 27
5′ 3″ (1.61m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Politics / Government
Doesn’t have kids

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Firstly, I must confess to feeling reluctant to get involved in this self-reflective and self-promotional exercise maybe because I don't take myself or this site too seriously. I was terribly tempted to describe myself in the manner that might be perceived as socially or morally abhorrent but intriguingly interesting (as case studies go) and see what happened next. My common sense prevailed however and I resorted to offering a more conventional and and a less subversive description of myself.

So... here it goes. I would like to describe myself as open-minded and tolerant (there is a number of caveats to consider here), generous (mostly with my time), attentive (when in good company), able to empathise (mainly in a professional capacity), agreeable and playful (when required) and to summarise my life philosophy: doubting everything and denying nothing (as Lord Byron liked to say)

I hope to meet a similarly minded man.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
That is what I am constantly wondering. Any existentialists, amongst you, please step forward.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Appreciating good things in life, working hard and learning my lessons.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
You might be able to help me with this one
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books/Authors: J. Fowles, S. Faulks, l. Shriver, H. James, Ishiguro, M. Amis, W. Faulkner, Kundera, J. Joyce, Brookner, Nabokov, I. Andric, D. H. Lawrence, S. Bellow, N. Mailer.... The list is by no means exhaustive.

Movies/Film directors: T. Ford, F.F. Coppola, The Coen brothers, Scorsese, L. Visconti, Fellini, Polanski, Lynch, Forman, Almodovar, Soderbergh, Cronenberg.

Music: Classical: Schubert, Beethoven, Chopin, Liszt, Mozart, Scarlatti, Bach... Yes I do listen to other kinds of music, namely rock, indie and R&B (not to be confused with contemporary R&B)

Art: From S. Lucas, T. Emin E. Price to Caravaggio, Velasquez, Renoir, Vermeer and Bosch to L. Freud, Klimt, Miro, Titian and Chaggall, no art makes me feel indifferent.

Food: All kinds when prepared with passion, skill and flair.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Please refer to the Maslow's hiearchy of needs. A lazy answer using a discredited theory... should try harder.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
If I said myself, would that make me self-absorbed? I thought so.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing typical Friday night activities. We just need to establish what typical is.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I will make an attempt at extracting some indiscretions from you first. Remember, I am a good listener and like to hear your story.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
My words or my looks resonate with you.