Ok first to get the important things out of the way I am completely and totally asexual which means I don't experience sexual attraction or basically I don't feel lust towards anyone male or female...Basically I have no need or desire for sex...Not that I have hormonal problems cuz I have a fairly active libido unfortunately but its basically like being hungry but having no appetite...I have no appetite for anyone's body in that way in fact I think the human body especially genitalia is very weird looking and I prefer people clothed...So in other words no intercourse K?
I do feel SOME physical attraction and LOVE to cuddle if I get to know someone and trust them...I even don't mind people "petting" me and nibbling on me it can be sorta nice but I HAVE NO NEED WHAT-SO-EVER to take it any farther...Also understand while I don't mind you doing semi-sexual stuff to me I have NO DESIRE to reciprocate so unless you are ace like me or a non-libidoist you might be a bit sexually frustrated...as far as I am concerned you can take care of it yourself and if you don't like being in that situation then leave me alone in the first place as I have given you fair warning!
I AM MORE THEN OK WITH AN OPEN RELATIONSHIP AS LONG AS WE COMMUNCATE AND ARE HONEST WITH ONE ANOTHER! I already have a "cuddle buddy" although VERY sexual is OK with this...so I know guys like that exist...But he is only part-time and I am looking for a boyfriend who will be full-time!
EDIT just found a good site that explains some of this stuff on asexuality better then I can... :) http://www.bbc.co.uk/dna/h2g2/A4455263
I also don't want kids...I have no desire to be pregnant...Now if you have kids that's not a dealbreaker I don't hate kids far from it I just have no motherly instincts at all! Otherwise then that I am just a simple small-town girl very laid back and easy going...Fairly open-minded so if you aren't don't bother messaging me!
I want someone who has a weird sense of humor like me though bit more outgoing as I am an introvert and need some-one to drag me out of my shell once in awhile lol...someone that will respect my privacy and not get offended when I say I need time to myself because I often find people overwhelming...A gentleman with a bit of a naughty side :) Some-one that has a passion or zest for life that I seem to lack at times...I find myself drawn to confident guys but not confidence to the point of arrogance though...
I also seem to like artistic guys...and smart ones though it doesn't have to be "school' smarts though just someone who is witty and can converse about various subjects even if they are not experts on it...and won't put you down if you don't know anything abut that subject or make you feel like a silly child!
I also should mention I have issues with chronic fatigue so its hard for me to summon much energy to go out and do things especially after work...I like doing stuff where I can just sit and relax nothing to strenuous...So I guess a good first date would be just sitting at a coffee shop or something just talking and getting to know one another or taking a light walk...A movie but after we chat for awhile because its hard to talk during a movie(well without other patrons throwing things at you!) Gong to the Zoo possibly for a later date if the weather is nice may also be fun...