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42 F New York, NY

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Last Online
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5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Christianity, but not too serious about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I am an escapee from the Fashion Industry and I now work as an Entertainment Industry publicist by day and am (trying) to write a book at night. Ironically, however, when faced with the prospect of describing myself here, I find that I am at a loss for words. I value humor above almost all other traits and would have to say that witty bantering and verbal sparring are my favorite pastimes.

I'm not super athletic but for some reason I look it, in both my build (long and lean) and posture (faking the confident athlete's stance). I've been told that I wear exercise clothes well and with gravitas but that being said, I got a new bike last summer and I love riding in Central Park, up and down the West Side Highway and doing errands in my neighborhood.

One last thing, I am a single mom to two children ages 5 and 6 and they are the most important part of my life. I am not looking for a new daddy for them because they already have one but instead to fill the free time that sharing custody has left me. Anything further hasn't yet entered my mind but I am finally open to it for the first time.
What I’m doing with my life
I am currently writing my first book during found pockets of free time and I spend much of it procrastinating with random bursts of creativity. I think most writers know where I'm coming from.
I’m really good at
I am a great listener (my sister just saw this and says that I am, in fact, an awful listener but a good interrupter, so you will have to be the judge and we'll get back to her.) I think I just get so involved when people are talking that I want to jump in and get my take on the situation out there, but I generally offer pretty good advice but I am good at keeping my sage wisdom to myself when I should. I am compassionate and feel accutely the suffering and pain of others and try to do what I can, within reason.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Their Eyes Were Watching God, The Best of Everything, Valley of the Dolls, East of Eden, I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings, My Dark Places
Movies: Untamed Heart, Jungle Book, The Outsiders, Thelma and Louise, Ice Castles, The Way We Were, All About Eve
Music: Dave Matthews Band, Edwin McCain, Randy Travis, Mark Chesnutt, Phish, Willie Nelson
Food: sushi, Italian, kale
The six things I could never do without
iPad, contact lenses, Moleskine notebooks, fountain pens from Muji, hair elastics and my Kindle app.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
My book. But when I'm supposed to be writing I spend a lot of time thinking about anything else, like bed time. It's a procrastination cycle.
On a typical Friday night I am
Out to dinner with friends. Ok, that's a lie. That's an atypical Friday night. I am just as likely at home reading a book and playing on the internet (thank you, Al Gore!).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Wouldn't that make it something public...?
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 38–60
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You're feelin my vibe and it feels good!