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42 F New York, NY

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 38–60
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:42am
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Entertainment / Media
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I am a public relations and marketing executive by day and am (trying) to write a book at night. Ironically, however, when faced with the prospect of describing myself here, I find that I am at a loss for words. I value humor above nearly all other traits and I would have to say that witty bantering and verbal sparring are my favorite pastimes.

I'm not super athletic but for some reason I look it, in both my build (long and lean) and posture (faking the confident athlete's stance). I've been told that I wear exercise clothes well and with gravitas and I would estimate that I wear SoulCycle gear about 85% more often than I actually SoulCycle.

I am a single mom of two hilarious, smart and spirited children ages 6 and 7, whom I am training in the nuances of sarcasm and humor. They have made a difficult chapter worthwhile and kept me grounded, focused and together at a time during which it would have been very easy not to be. They currently live with me half of the time so I'm now in possession of newfound free time to spare. That's where you would come in. I've yet to introduce a man I've dated to my children and while I'm not opposed to it, per se, it would have to be the right thing for all involved; it's not something I take lightly nor would I do casually.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am currently writing my first book during found pockets of free time and I spend much of it procrastinating with random bursts of creativity. I think most writers know where I'm coming from.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I am a great listener (my sister just saw this and says that I am, in fact, an awful listener but a good interrupter, so you will have to be the judge and we'll get back to her...). I just find that I get so involved when people are talking that I want to jump in and add my thoughts to the conversation (before I forget, as I am approaching senior status, you know) but sometimes a bit before my cue. I like to think that I offer pretty good advice (which I usually neglect to follow in my own life) but I also know how to keep my sage wisdom to myself when appropriate. I am very compassionate and feel accutely the suffering and pain of others (sometimes to a fault) and I try to do what I can to help, within reason.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My quick and, too often acerbic, wit
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Their Eyes Were Watching God, The Best of Everything, Valley of the Dolls, East of Eden, I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings, My Dark Places
Movies: Untamed Heart, Jungle Book, The Outsiders, Thelma and Louise, Ice Castles, The Way We Were, All About Eve
Music: Dave Matthews Band, Edwin McCain, Randy Travis, Mark Chesnutt, Phish, Willie Nelson
Food: sushi, Italian, kale
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my always entertaining offspring
clever sarcasm
contact lenses
matching bras and panties (even if no one knows *I* know!)
a lightening fast internet connection
a microwave and/or toaster oven (sorry, boys, I don't cook; I "prepare" and I reheat)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My book. But when I'm supposed to be writing I spend a lot of time thinking about anything else, like bed time. It's a procrastination cycle.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out to dinner with friends. Ok, that's a lie. That's an atypical Friday night. I am just as likely at home reading a book and playing on the internet (thank you, Al Gore!).
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm on OK Cupid (but maybe you already knew that?)
You should message me if
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You're feelin my vibe and it feels good!