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55 Middletown, CT Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 50–62
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Dec 2, 2014
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Full figured
Mostly vegetarian
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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Hi. I'm a little bit of everything rolled up into one. How about that for a start off? ;) Mostly, I'm contemplative, but can be opinionated at times; stubborn, but easily swayed (if your argument has merit) ;) An intellectual with a carefree bent. Knows what love, and being loved looks, and feels, like. Grateful to have had that experience <3 R.I.P Al, and thanks for the memories, babe <3 That was a "once in a lifetime" event, but I do believe in a " twice in a lifetime" event, otherwise I wouldn't be here writing all of this, now would I? ;) Can be edgy at times, but NEVER mean- spirited. Knows where the boundaries are and respects them, AND YOU SHOULD, TOO Raymour & Flanegan guy!!! Grrrr! That was so very NOT cool!!! You are SO Blocked!!! Likes to be intrigued. Ooo, wow me with your intellect, just don't get too obnoxious and snarky with it. Ok, maybe just a little ;) Can engage in impromptu creative humor. In fact, you might see glimpses of it spattered throughout this profile. You don't??? Then please don't message me, K? Nothing personal, but it's obvious we aren't traveling along the same laser light beam (I just made that up. Pretty good, huh? IT'S NOT??? Then what analogous descriptor would you put in there, brainiac??? ;) Likes this site because it's free. Pay $237. a year for a membership on a dating site??? R u freakin' kidding me??? You got that kind of money to throw away? Fool! I use my $$$ far more wisely. Peeps on OKC are the way more smarter ones, aren't we? ;) Family, especially children, are high priorities - yours, as well as mine. Because of my past relational experiences, am a Blended-Family Guru. How about you being able to confidently list THAT skill on YOUR profile page??? ;) Sorry, NOT willing to relocate from my CT. Would prefer someone close-by, but will also consider someone further away if the circumstances were right. Getting back . . . Life will go on and I will make it a party for myself, irregardless. It will just be more interesting, and way more fun, if the right one was along on the journey ;)
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm busy learning something new everyday. The world is an interesting place and I'm a curious sort, so yeah. Hey, @ least I'm never bored ;) Yup, at 50+ , I've acquired me some textin' skills. Impressive, right? But cha still not gettin' my cell# THAT easily, heh! ;)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
My profession. Trained long and hard at it. Spent a lot of money and time learning what I needed to know, and now that the tough slog is almost over, perhaps some lucky guy will get to reap the benefits of all of that with me ;)
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile, and that I'm full-figured. "Strategically upholstered", is the proper way to describe it ;) Not ashamed of it, either. Actually, I've been told by many I "wear it well". Common on now, that's just weird! So I make it a point to navigate away from 'those types'. Weirdo's! Anyways, am keenly aware that there is a healthier way and actively involved in working to correct that issue for my own personal reasons. Want to be as healthy as possible going into my later decades.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'm a practical reader - read for knowledge and learning. Hey, what cha expect??? Been in school for the past 5 years. Real adept at reading a 800 page Med/Surg text. Now THAT takes focus and determination! ;)

Food is all health-based. A late night snack might be carrot sticks, or broccoli florets and a low-cal dressing. Morning breakfast consists of a power-up smoothie. I grow my own wheat grass and bean sprouts, and enjoy my deck garden in the summer months. Chinese is my fav food to take out, and a well made eggplant parm sub is nice on rare occasions. HATE, HATE, HATE (did I say, "HATE"? :o) pizza!!! Ok, perhaps a garlic clam is doable, but we'd both have to have some, lol ;)

I enjoy/savor partaking of the local talent in the form of live theater. In fact, I prefer to support local businesses in the town in which I live. Helps build community.

Also into volunteering. Whether it be ones time, talent, or skills, I believe all of us has something positive to contribute in helping make this world a better place. Just putting that out there . . . ;)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) My faith in God. He takes care of the stuff in my life that's in the out-of-my-control category, so I don't have to worry about it anymore. Phew! THAT'S a relief!!!

2) My 4 children. They are all awesome people and turned out well, despite what their dads and I stupidly put them through.

3) My black lab, Emma. Her and I have a history that goes way back. She's living in her forever-fam and that's just how it's going to be ;)

4) My vehicle. Need it to get to work, pick up the kids, get grocery's, go to the vet. Lose my ride and everything we're connected to shuts down.

5) Air conditioning. Promised this to myself as a child I'd have this everywhere I went as an adult, and have kept that promise.

6) An outdoor space. Whether it be a deck off of an apt, condo, or house, my being requires some sort of viable outdoor space to just, "be".
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to better grow my consulting business. It's my, "other baby". Needs to be nurtured so it can prosper. That's just the way it is if I want to be able to live somewhere decent and eat, lol ;)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Doing whatever I feel like doing, heh.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Ah, no . . . Not going there. Not ever! Can't live with that? Sorry, ain't happenin'
You should message me if
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you've been amazed, entertained, oooo'd, awe'd, intrigued (and you don't even have to be all five of those qualifiers to message me, either. Even if only one applies, you're good ;) Or, you are high needs for some intellectual banter, as am I, and want to shoot the breeze about current events, the quantum theory, or whatever else along these lines, would also be interested in hearin' from ya ;) Oh! Just please don't refer to me as, 'dear', K? Although I appreciate and understand you're trying to be respectful, and thank you for this, it just sounds SO elderly to me, and I am anything but! Thanks ;)