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31 广州, China Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 25–45
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:05am
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Not at all
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from Ph.D program
Seeing Someone
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Italian (Okay), German (Poorly), Chinese (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I am extremely animated and love to talk (many times about inappropriate things!). I love people and the way I show them is usually by teasing them. I love witty banter and sarcasm. I can be serious when the situation calls for it because I have had some darkness in my life, but at this point I have never been happier! I LOVE traveling and having new adventures! I'm also incredibly laid-back and openminded, and love to be around people who are as well!

I don't consider myself super "girly" but I definitely have my moments. :) I love getting all dressed up, but my absolute favorite thing to wear is jeans and a black tank top. I would wear it every day if I could get away with it. I also hate accessorizing and buying purses.
What I’m doing with my life
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Just spent the last 11 years of my life getting a Bachelors, Masters, and Doctorate of Musical Arts in Opera Performance. I love performing both musical theater and opera. I love studying languages, characters, and my voice.

I also love traveling the world!!!! I am currently living in China teaching English because I'm basically getting paid to travel!

My favorite activity to do is to SCUBA dive. I'm also having a great time learning Mandarin and Chinese characters. :)

What all this means? I'm not sure. It seems like I'd be pretty happy if I lived anywhere with a Mediterranean climate, taught voice at a university, became fluent in the language, and sang professionally on the side, while being close enough to the ocean to go SCUBA diving all the time! (I'm thinking Italy or southern France would do the trick!)

However....I'm having a heck of a lot of fun in China right now, so I'm staying put for awhile!
I’m really good at
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Singing. Talking. Playing the piano. Procrastinating. Being sarcastic.
Having philosophical discussions. Being honest. Loving.
The first things people usually notice about me
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An old man told me once that I could get anything I wanted with my smile. :)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Music-- Michael Buble, Frank Sinatra, Puccini, Billy Joel
Books-- Historical Fiction, Harry Potter Series, Augusten Burroughs

Movies-- The Incredibles, Sense and Sensibility, A Time to Kill, Dirty Dancing, Walk the Line, Major League, What Dreams May Come, The American President, Shawshank Redemption, Ray, Harry Potter, Disney movies

TV-- Criminal Minds, Law & Order: SVU, Charmed, Friends, Family Guy, Archer, Grey's Anatomy, PACKER football!

Food-- Sushi, Mexican, Thai (anything with curry), a really tasty sandwich, and any smelly cheese from France.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
On the vitally important list:
God, a Higher Power, my spirituality...whatever you want to call it... Has to be the most important thing in my life, or everything else loses its meaning.

The reeeeeeally important list:
Singing & Music
Family (biological and not)
That one person who gets me
New experiences
The warmth of the sun
the sounds and sights of the Ocean
Beautiful, scenic views in nature
My health and athletic abilities

The surface list:
Espresso (from starbucks preferably)
My MacBook
SCUBA diving
That song that fits my mood perfectly
My idealism
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Personal goals- Self-improvement: spiritually, mentally, physically.

Being more active and pursuing things I want to do.

Career goals- how can my gifts be of service to humanity?


People I love- Family and Friends and their walks of life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Grabbing dinner and staying in. I have a 12-hr day on Saturdays. :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm a grateful recovering alcoholic, sober since 2008, and I have never been happier. I'm not opposed to someone having a different lifestyle than mine, but I'm not interested in hanging out with anyone who takes any drugs, or who makes getting drunk a priority. I know we are all at different phases of our journey, but I'm interested in moving forward in mine!

Oh yeah, and after proclaiming hatred for the sport of soccer/football for years, I am now addicted to the World Cup!
You should message me if
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You're healthy, happy, and motivated and want to hang out with someone who is the same!