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49 M Manchester, UK

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 28–55
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Very often
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I'm a 5'8", slim, friendly male who is very intelligent and caring. I'm down-to-earth and I can be very playful and affectionate.

I'm mostly looking to get to know a female with an interest in the arts and culture; I enjoy things that are mainstream and alternative, classic and more contemporary. I'd especially love to meet someone with a similar interest in music and films, who also enjoys good food and wine, intelligent and fun conversation, the outdoors and walking.

I've been told I'm an interesting person, and I like to think I'm a good person to know in being inspirational. Love to hear from anyone who thinks they might be in some way like-minded.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I've a 2:1 psychology degree and I've done a transpersonal psychology post-grad. Been offered a post-grad which I might do at some point. I'm currently working for the NHS.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Learning, being open and adventurous. Not taking myself seriously in seeing a wider context.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Who knows, but I've often been told I'm young-looking for my age. Like to think I'm modern and up-to-date, but I also like things with a timeless soulful quality.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favourite authors include Ian McEwan, Iris Murdoch, Oscar Wilde, Gustave Flaubert, Jean- Paul Sartre, Simone de Beauvoir, F. Scott Fitzgerald, Hermann Hesse, Patricia Highsmith, Richard Yates, C.S. Lewis, T.S. Eliot, Erich Fromm, Rollo May, M. Scott Peck, and Ken Wilber.

Some music likes: The Beatles, Bob Dylan, The Supremes, Neil Young, Simon & Garfunkel, Joni Mitchell, Yes, Miles Davis, Bruce Springsteen, Patti Smith, Peter Gabriel, Al Green, Dusty Springfield, Scott Walker, Abba, The Bee Gees, REM, The Smiths, New Order, Pet Shop Boys, The Triffids, The Go-Betweens, Prefab Sprout, Crowded House, Saint Etienne, Tindersticks, Jeff Buckley, Belle and Sebastian, Pulp, Aimee Mann, Matthew Sweet, Lucinda Williams, Fleet Foxes, Joan As Police Woman, The National, Cat Power, Cherry Ghost, Angel Olsen, etc.

Some film favourites: To Kill A Mockingbird, Dr Zhivago, Some Like It Hot, Kes, Billy Liar, Rebecca, Strangers On a Train, It's a Wonderful Life, Black Narcissus, A Matter of Life and Death, Bicycle Thieves, Breathless, Roxanne, L.A. Story, Hannah and Her Sisters, Crimes and Misdemeanors, Jean de Florette, Manon Des Sources, The Vanishing, The Match Factory Girl, Delicatessen, Secrets & Lies, Office Space, All About My Mother, Talk To Her, Sideways, Before Sunrise, Before Sunset, Ghost World, Magnolia, Pan's Labyrinth, Atonement, An Education, A Single Man, Fish Tank, The Artist, The Place Beyond the Pines, etc.

Enjoy musicals and the theatre. Also like good food and wine in quiet pubs and restaurants.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A favourite CD, a good film, an engrossing read, wine, decent food, fresh air and exercise.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
People I care about and what's going on in the world.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Enjoying wine, music, a good film. Would like someone to share such occasions with.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Prefer to discuss private things in knowing the other person.
You should message me if
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You're intelligent, open and friendly.