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38 Cape Town, South Africa Woman


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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 32-47
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Mar 12
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
A little extra
Christianity and laughing about it
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
Has dogs
English (Fluently), Afrikaans (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Meh. I'm pretty chilled, really. Not into the party scene, a braai and beer is more my thing. I've been accused of having a dark/twisted sense of humour which is better than none at all, I reckon. Love my job - I work in the construction industry and am on site all day. Not a gym bunny at all but I enjoy hiking and swimming.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Not taking it too seriously.

I think I must name my next dog "Life," and then when I get asked this question I can be all like "taking it for a walk," or "my life just got its nuts chopped off, thanks for asking."
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Avoiding photographs which is why I don't have one up yet. Will get to it.

UPDATE: Finally got to it. Yes, it's a selfie. Don't judge.

I'm also good at sarcasm and selective hearing.

And I'm actually really good at being a nice person.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm tall. And maybe that I have blue eyes? I don't know, it's not really a question I ask people.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I read a lot: Cormac McCarthy, Louise Penny, George R R Martin, Justin Cronin and about a hundred others. I'm running out of space to put bookshelves.

I'll pretty much watch any movie as longs as it's good. Shows: Game of Thrones, Penny Dreadful, Banshee, Hannibal, The Walking Dead (not even ironically) Friday Night Lights (best show that no-one has ever watched), that sort of thing. Working my way through The Wire and Justified.

Music: I like most everything but probably slant more to the indy-rock/old school alternative side of things. No doof doof or Justin Bieber-esque stuff in my ipod, though.

Food: yes.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My dogs, my friends/family, lip-ice, my car, whiskey and swearing.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The universe and all sorts of deep and meaningful ooh look squirrel! Wait. What?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At a friend's house or at home on the couch with a movie and my dogs, Lily and Tom.

Tom is so seriously dumb. Bless him, but for serious, so fecken stupid.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I find showers boring. But I do them anyway because, you know, I'm not gross.
You should message me if
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You like grammatically correct replies. And have a sense of humour; any type will do.