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35 M Denver, CO

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 25–40
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  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:53pm
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Atheism, and laughing about it
Pisces, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Has dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.

What I can say about myself? I love what I do, do my best to stay active in the lives of those I care about, and, like every other schmuck around here, I prize lifestyle over most everything else. Originally from Chicago, educated in Iowa, I've been happy to call my self a Coloradan for the last decade or so.

(Fair warning: I've lived here this long without ever learning to ski. Perhaps that should change.)

I've tested as an INTJ, for those of you who care about that kind of stuff. I like my cocktails with rye and my martini with gin. Tough to imagine life without my coffee and beer (I enjoy the first black, the latter as varied as they come). My humor leans towards dry and acerbic (a trait I inherited from my mother); despite all that, I take a pretty honest, light-hearted, and sincere approach to life. And I'm far less serious than photos of me suggest. (I hang with notorious non-photo takers; what's the deal with that, yo?)

To be honest, I've got it pretty good, I figure it's time to be serious and find someone to share my life with. I'm not here shopping for a wife but am looking to develop something meaningful with someone who'll kick my ass and make me a better who-I-am.

What else do you want to know?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm just getting to a place where I might have stopped trying to be cool. So right now I'm figuring out what it's like to be comfortable with myself and enjoying the perks that go with that.

For a living I make software, geeky stuff. I've made most of my career decisions based on how often I'm required to iron a shirt — which is never. I work from home and yes, it is as awesome as it sounds.

When I get sick of all that I'll grow out my beard and raise goats, or become a butcher, or maybe a lighthouse keeper.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I've been told I'm a Pac Man ninja.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Good question — I worry that it's that I swear too much or have something on my face. I've had new friends describe me as calming, and meant it as a compliment. Not so sure what that's all about.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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In reverse order, because I'm a rebel like that:

Food: A year or so back I did a six-month stint as a vegetarian, and while it was a great experiment, I'm a meatatarian again, at least on occasion. I adore cooking, I find it calming, love making things from scratch, and am working on doing it more often. I heart sushi and have a weak spot for Chicago street food.

Music: As far as music goes, you name it, although I tend to stay away from the top 40. I considered myself a musician in a former life; now my career consists of dinking out tunes on my guitar and singing to my dog (I swear I'll get back on stage one of these days). I've found that down-tempo electronica is perfect when I work; the latest album on repeat is Jason Isbell's Southeastern. We'll probably get along if your guilty pleasures include They Might Be Giants, Fountains of Wayne, Tears for Fears, or Rush.

Movies: I like classic movies, anything that involves Grace Kelly or Cary Grant and a lot of smoking. Although I'm a cable-cutter, I've got a healthy obsession with documentaries and your usual Mad Men, Game of Thrones, AMC/HBO dramatic TV fare. For me, Carl Sagan's Cosmos is still the closest thing I get to religious programming (and I think the NDT revival did a great job). Guilty pleasures: The Big Lebowski, Jaws, Charade, The Conversation, Kojak, MST3K, Adventure Time, How It's Made.

Books: I read a bit of non-fiction (politics, economics, history, stuff like that), but I've been working to rediscover a love for novels — I'm currently reading Edward St. Aubyn's Patrick Melrose series (trying to find 21st-century novelists; suggestions?). Never too far away from a long-read.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
In no particular order: music, my friends and family, my dog Matilda, whiskey and/or beer and/or coffee, my bike, and a guitar.

I am also addicted to Orbit sweet mint gum. I could probably do without it, but it feels good to admit I have a problem.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The last email where I accidentally misspelled a word or made a grammar mistake. Manhood and what that means to me and to society. My place in this world and what I can do to improve myself and it. Economics, urbanism, privacy.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
...on a long bike ride, spending a quiet evening in with the dog, or out with friends contemplating Saturday's hangover.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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In high school, on a lark, I attended a barbershop quartet camp with a bunch of friends because it was free. Run by an organization called SPEBSQUA. Look it up.
You should message me if
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You dig a good intellectual conversation, think OKCupid (and dating) is a little ridiculous, and are game for a coffee or a beer or somethin'.