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AnssetMikal

33 Summerville, SC Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–38
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 7:41am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.82m)
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Status
Open relationship
Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Finnish (Okay), C++ (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a bit odd.
I feel this is a good thing.

More often than not, I come across as being more than a little dorky, but I'm by no means that nerdiest kid on the block.

I can switch between being introverted and extroverted fairly well, and I need to spend time doing both in equal amounts. As a result, you will often find me reading in public; it's the best of both worlds. Come talk, and I'll quickly set down the book or iPad to converse. I may live in my head a little more that is strictly recommended, but I'm more than willing to come out and play.

I already had a degree is in psychology, but I recently went back for another in global software development. The change in gears has been an interesting one, though I'm still not sure where it will take me. For right now, I'm working as a consultant, helping design solutions to help other companies improve their task flow and product/systems usability. It is a nice combination of my two degrees, but I hope to shift into working for a real firm.

I'm happily married, but don't let that scare you off. If you know nothing about open relationships and/or polyamory, ask. I'm not looking for a secondary, but rather another equal. Hierarchy is for businesses, not relationships.

I'm not a fan of gender norms. Everyone can do everything.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm still trying to figure this part out.
I hope to have it at least half solved by the time I die.

Until recently, I'd been living life in Oulu, Finland. I was there as a result of a long series of complicated events, which I don't think I'd've ever gone there without. Given this, I'm glad I had my time in Finland, as I've learned a lot and grown as a person due to my time there.

I'm now back in the US and looking to re-establish some roots. I have no clue where I'll end up, but I'm looking forward to the journey.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
A number of different things, but none of them have any real-world applications.

If I'm forced to think about it, I'd say I have fairly good people-reading skills. I'd also like to think that I multitask well.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a face?

I'm not Finnish. Yet, I've most recently lived in Oulu, Finland.

Aside from that, I don't think I'm all that much of an open book. I don't try to hide much, but I just don't wear my personality on my sleeve.

To be honest, I'd really like to know the answer to this question, since I'm not one of the people doing the noticing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Hard science-fiction
Far reaching, cold, vacuum of space, polymer and metal, space operas. I venture away from this as often as not though. I almost always have something to read with me.

Movies: Tragic
If the hero died, I probably liked it. If the villain was glorified, more of the same. Really though, I'll watch almost anything. Please note that I reserve the rights to utilizing the "almost" in the previous sentence.

Music: Loud & synthetic
I was briefly an industrial/synth-pop DJ for a small club in Portland, Maine. I miss music greatly, since Oulu was not on the tour routes for anything but poorly aging metal bands. I hope to find my scene here.

Food: Worldly and meatless
I last intentionally ate meat some time in 1998, yet I still consider myself to be a foodie. It can be done. Asian influence is a plus, but not required.

Do note that I'm not vegan; I'm NEVER going to give up cheese, as it is a gift from the gods.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Good people
Dark chocolate
A serviceable pair of shoes
Sunshine
Trees
A good, or at least entertaining, book
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Rules, laws, mores, societal expectations and how to get around them. Culture shock and how assumptions shape our lives.

One would think that coming back to the US would put an end to this, but I was gone for too long. Therefore, As a recent ex-immigrant, I'm in the possition of having to start this proccess all over again. Still, I think knowing is worth the effort.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Trying to be awesome.

"Trying" may, rather unfortunately, be the operative word, but I'll get there sooner or later.

I spend most Fridays in, but I'm happy to tag along if anyone has any brilliant ideas.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm sure this is unoriginal, but doesn't it stop being private if I admit to it on OK Cupid?

If you really want to know something about me, why don't you ask? There are very few things I won't tell someone if asked directly.
You should message me if
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1) There is something you want to know.
2) You have something you want me to know.
3) You have read this far.