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Anteater84

29 M Irvine, CA

My Details

Last Online
Jul 21
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White, Other
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Politics / Government
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I think I'm a pretty decent, fun-loving guy. I'm here looking for new friends I can go out and have a good time with. I'm also open to meeting someone special too, but looking for friends first.

I've been told I'm pretty smart and funny, though my sense of humor is a bit on the smart-ass side of things. I'm kind of a private person- but not an antisocial one. I enjoy meeting and talking with new people and while I enjoy large crowds or parties, I tend prefer smaller, more intimate gatherings. I'm more of a logical/ analytical thinking although I can become very passionate about certain things and people. I'm a huge nerd by most people's standards but not so much of a techno-nerd (my iPhone gets under-utilized) - love the sci-fi and fantasy genre. I also enjoy getting out when I can- traveling to new places, hiking, camping, going to the beach, hitting up a bowling alley, road trips, shooting range and more when time and fortunes allow.

I'm a UC Irvine grad (hence the username) and served in the Army for a few years. If you ever spend time with me, you'll see the influence of both types of education on my life.
What I’m doing with my life
I work for the government in a front-line management position in Orange County. Not really my dream job, but it's easy enough and it pays decent. Don't worry, I'm not complacent. Still shooting for the stars.
I’m really good at
Making people laugh and feel at ease around me. I'm a pretty laid-back guy most of the time open to trying new things with new people.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm not entirely sure. Everyone is different, of course, but I've been told by a few people that I come off as being very intelligent and funny.

If we ever hang out, you'll have to tell me what you noticed first.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Generally, I read and watch movies a lot. Especially movies based on books (although the movie is almost always disappointing compared to the book).

Sci-fi / fantasy geek here and that influences my book and movie selections, although I have a wide variety of interests ranging from non-fiction, historical works to horror and crime / cop type books and shows.

Music is pretty diverse. Not really into EDM or hardcore rap. Enjoy most of the other genre's though, from Top 40 to Rock. I have a particular liking for Country music as well.

Food? I'm open to almost anything, as long as it's dead by the time it gets to my table. Worth a special mention though is Italian food, BBQ and sushi.
The six things I could never do without
Besides the basic elements?

Books, for sure. A good book is like watching the best movie ever one the big-screen of the mind.

Probably my technological means of communication (computer, iphone) and entertainment (TV and xBox).

I would also be hard pressed to survive without my kitchen. I'm not Emril, but I enjoy whipping up something special now and then.

Give me some time to work on the rest of the list..
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The past and the future, and how the two don't have to be mutually exclusive.

I also spend quite a bit of time thinking about how to balance what I want to do, with what I need to do.
On a typical Friday night I am
Not a whole lot recently- hence looking for new friends and activities.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've been in some great non-monogamous / polyamorous relationships before. Definitely OK with those.

And just because it says "casual sex" below doesn't mean that's all I'm looking for, just something I'm willing to consider.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–33
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You're at all interested in learning more about me or I sent you a message first. I know ladies get bombarded with messages on here, but if a guy takes the time to write more than a sentence or two, please be kind enough to respond.