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AnthonyOnOKC

31 M Baltimore, MD

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:14am
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
Height
5′ 7″ (1.71m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I've described myself elsewhere as a Californian expat living in Baltimore, although that becomes less true every year.

I don't think that I'm a hipster, but I've been told otherwise from time to time. I believe that love of local food, craft beer, bicycling and indie rock contributes to this label, but who can tell any more.
What I’m doing with my life
I just wrapped up an MFA in creative writing, and I'm sustaining myself by working at a university.

Before that it was a big LGBT nonprofit, which was great, but not right for me at that point in my life.
I’m really good at
I think I am good at avoiding or containing knee-jerk reactions to new or challenging ideas until I can give them an appropriate amount of reflection.

I'm also pretty proud of the writing I do; I have a few stories and poems published, and I'm hoping that my book-length manuscript gets picked up soon. (But then, aren't we all?)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm a read-every-day sort of person. I could give you a list of my favorite books from the Western, I-went-high-school-and-college canon, but a better sense of my taste comes from my favorite books in the last year or so. Right now, those books are: When the Only Light is Fire by Saeed Jones and The Empathy Exams by Leslie Jamison.

Previous mentions include: About a Mountain by John D'Agata and The Captain Asks for a Show of Hands by Nick Flynn.

Music: I can't really say any more. I grew up on skate- and poly-sci- punk, but nowadays my taste is pretty broad. At some point I stopped trying to keep on top of new bands and started visiting music that I missed because it was before my time.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Narrative identity
Status anxiety
Writing
Gender
Social justice
Tomorrow
On a typical Friday night I am
Out with friends, feeling guilty that I am not at home with my nose in a book.

Or

At home with my nose in book, feeling guilty that I'm not out with friends.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 23–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating
You should message me if
You want to chat, flirt or connect.

I'm pansexual, and I am in a long-term, polyamorous relationship; it would make the most sense if you were comfortable with those traits before messaging me.

Don't message me if you're sexist, racist, homophobic, transphobic or generally an unwelcoming person.