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31 • Santa Cruz, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 23–50
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, short-term dating
- Last Online
- Today – 9:57pm
- 5′ 7″ (1.71m)
- Body Type
- Graduated from masters program
- Art / Music / Writing
- Relationship Status
- Open relationship
- Relationship Type
- Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Before this, I was in Baltimore and DC, for a higher-ed staff job and an LGBT nonprofit before that. Both jobs had their shining moments, but an offer to come teach and study poetry near the beach was a hard one to turn down.
I'm also pretty proud of the writing I do; I have a few stories and poems published, and I'm hoping that my book-length manuscript gets picked up soon. (But then, aren't we all?)
Previous mentions include: About a Mountain by John D'Agata and The Captain Asks for a Show of Hands by Nick Flynn.
Music: I can't really say any more. I grew up on skate- and polisci- punk, but nowadays my taste is pretty broad. At some point I stopped trying to keep on top of new bands and started visiting music that I missed because it was before my time.
I am queer (I date and flirt with people of all genders), and I am in a long-term, polyamorous relationship; it would make the most sense if you were comfortable with those traits before messaging me.
Don't message me if you're sexist, racist, homophobic, transphobic or generally an unwelcoming person.
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