[A note on polyamory: I am poly identified, not just currently but always, and am repulsed by the idea that my relationship with one person would limit my relationship with another. In that vein, my partners and I practice polyamory independently of each other, and strive for a non-hierarchical approach to relationships.]
[PS. I'm engaged to the voraciously intelligent and devastatingly handsome elfGigoloGod, who I cohabitate with.] Gaze upon my poly, ye monogamous, and despair!
Being the center of attention comes naturally to me, so if you see me at a party, I'm usually telling some story fairly loudly. If you've got children with you, might wanna cover their ears.
On the flipside, I often suffer from hella social anxiety, so if you see me outside smoking weed and looking terrified, it's because I'm having a panic attack and am trying not to break down in tears in front of everyone.
Words are important to me, and I try to pick mine out with the utmost thought. Oftentimes this leads to me sacrificing brevity for the sake of precision.
While I have enough self-restraint not to constantly "correct" people's speech, sex-negativity, racism, misogyny, heteronormativity, cis-supremacy, ableism, and fat-hate bother me, even if the speaker isn't trying to express any such sentiment in earnest. I call this kind of thing out, though I promise I'm nice about it.
Consent is important to me, which is why I ask people before touching them. People trend to assume from this that I dislike physical contact, which could not be further from the truth; I'm a cuddly motherfucker. I do, however, try to also be respectful of boundaries.
My best friend and arch-nemesis, Hydracula can probably drink you under the table. You should check her out; she's an amazing talented artist, and for sure the coolest person you'll find on here.
I've realized that I have, not entirely consciously, started to use OKC more like a networking opportunity than a dating site; I haven't had much interest in dating as of late, but I still love meeting people. As a result, my messages have shifted away from "would you like to grab a drink?" and toward "would you like to collaborate on my Idea with me?"
This isn't to say that I have no interest in ever sexing a new person again, but I ain't looking, per se. This is something to keep in mind while you peruse the rest of my profile.
Hablo muy poquito espanol, pero yo quiero aprender mas. Quieres ayudarme?
Меня зовут Анастасия. Я только что подключила русскую раскладку на компе, но еще не научилась ею пользоваться. Привет!
I am bohemian, adorkable, and hippie-go-lucky.