[A note on polyamory: I am poly identified, not just currently but always, and am repulsed by the idea that my relationship with one person would limit my relationship with another. In that vein, my partners and I practice polyamory independently of each other, and strive for a non-hierarchical approach to relationships.]
[PS. My partners are both on here, so check them out, because they're amazing. I'm engaged to and cohabitating with the voraciously intelligent and devastatingly handsome elfGigoloGod, and I also have an incredibly wonderful and staggeringly gorgeous girlfriend, ZoeFreshcut.] Gaze upon my poly, ye monogamous, and despair!
Being the center of attention comes naturally to me, so if you see me at a party, I'm usually telling some story fairly loudly. If you've got children with you, might wanna cover their ears.
On the flipside, I often suffer from crippling social anxiety, so if you see me outside smoking weed and looking terrified, it's because I'm having a panic attack and am trying not to break down in tears in front of everyone.
Words are important to me, and I pick mine out with the utmost thought. Oftentimes this leads to me sacrificing brevity for the sake of precision, and occasionally people are put off by the amount of questions I ask when I am seeking clarity in regards to something they've said.
While I have enough self-restraint not to constantly "correct" people's speech, sex-negativity, racism, misogyny, heteronormativity, cis-supremacy, ableism, and fat-hate really bother me, even if the speaker isn't trying to express any such sentiment in earnest. I will call this kind of thing out, though I promise I'll be nice about it.
Consent is also important to me, which is why I ask people before touching them. If you touch me without permission, I will judge you to be rude. People trend to assume from this that I dislike physical contact, which could not be further from the truth; I'm a cuddly motherfucker. I am, however, also very respectful of boundaries.
My best friend and arch-nemesis, Hydracula can probably drink you under the table. She and I both see things that most of you don't. You should check her out; she's an amazing talented artist, and for sure the coolest person you'll find on here.
I just [17Feb'13] realized that I have, not entirely consciously, started to use OKC more like a networking opportunity than a dating site; I haven't had much interest in dating as of late, but I still love meeting people. As a result, my messages have shifted away from "would you like to grab a drink?" and toward "would you like to collaborate on my Idea with me?"
This isn't to say that I have no interest in ever sexing a new person again, but I ain't looking, per se. This is something to keep in mind while you peruse the rest of my profile.
Hablo muy poquito espanol, pero yo quiero aprender mas. Quieres ayudarme?
Меня зовут Анастасия. Я только что подключила русскую раскладку на компе, но еще не научилась ею пользоваться. Привет!
I am bohemian, adorkable, and hippie-go-lucky.