Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a solitary person, but my life is filled with students and
with the people and characters I have met in real life, in books -
and in my imagination. I am seeking my Dark Lady, my muse, the
place I will call home - the starting point of our many travels,
both literal and imaginative.
I am a deconstructor, an artist and a reader. I love beautiful and
What I’m doing with my life
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I teach English lit. at a university, and my passion is reading and
being with people who are 'Mental Travellers' like me.
I’m really good at
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Being myself, being alone, dreaming, teaching things that I love...
reading. And my especial delight ... listening to people and
understanding them on their own terms.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My silence, most probably!!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love the classics - from Old English to Chaucer and Dante, to
Shakespeare - and then a big leap across the centuries (via Sterne
and Blake) to the Victorians (Dickens especially), and the Moderns.
I am particulalry fond of Yeats, Wallace Stevens, and other
Modernist poets and novelists. I don't really like reading stuff
written after WWII except Sci-Fi and Fantasy literature (espcially
Phillip K. Dick). So much contemporary fiction is simply
reinventing the wheel, saying the same thing in ways that I do not
find challenging or enlightening. I love Haldor Laxness,
Dostoievsky, Jaroslav Hasek - so many - too many. One of my
favourite books is the Oxford English Dictionary - the full
version, with all the etymologies. Also read a lot of history -
especially biography. Am tending more towards non-fiction as I grow
up - though I always go back to story at the end of the day.
The movie that haunts me is Tarkovsky's 'Stalker'.
I listen to 'classical' music (Bach, Mozart, etc., though I dislike
opera - except in very forgiving moods!). I am into piano concertos
- especially the Russians (Rachmaninov, Shostakovitch...). As for
pop music, I like mostly Indy and folk music, anything from Dylan
onwards. Also groove to bluegrass, heavy metal, some New Age, and
electronica, in certain moods. Jazz is also cool - but in managed
I love simple, whole food - especially if it comes from my own
garden - a la Jamie Oliver. I go for Indian, Mediterranean, and
Thai food, and am not really into 'sophisticated' dining. I love
wine, but am not consciously 'connoisseurish' about it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Going on the assumption that ideas have concrete effects - result
The kindness of strangers;
The forbearance of friends;
The understanding of close ones;
The knowledge that I can change;
The clear-sightedness of enlightened beings;
The joy of knowing that the future and past contain infinite
My Macbook (that's seven things, or one!)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
History, why things are as they are now, where they come from - and
how long they have been in our collective consciousness. I also
think about nature, about simplicity, about what makes people happy
- and what makes them unhappy. Finally - these are my dark,
despairing thoughts - I think a lot about what this planet will be
like when we have destroyed it: what it will be like when the sun
is our enemy, and not the source of our life and our energy - the
time when the dark, cold places of the earth will be the new
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Unwinding after a hectic week, generally home alone.
You should message me if
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You are a traveller and a reader. You are filled with a gentle
darkness, a silence resonant with voices of other worlds, and other
possibilites for life and living (the imagination relies on
quietness, on darkness). You are interested in nature - and human
nature. You want to explore, but you also want to create a paradise
to go home to, a place where you and yours can live in peace with
themselves and others, fulfilling their whole potential.
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