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38 M Oakland, CA

My Details

Last Online
Apr 7
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Other
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I have always been a down to earth, go with the flow, it takes a lot to get me riled up type of individual. I have dreams and ambitions and I'm currently exploring some of them, but I tend not to force the square peg into a round hole. Instead, I let them travel where they should, leading me on a necessary journey every time.

In my current iteration I know what I like and what I don't like. I'm pretty set in my ways and my instincts very rarely steer me wrong. It's always the second guessing that does me in. That being said I am still an open book. I am constantly learning and growing and people that I think have nothing to offer can surprise me on occasion. My confidence comes from a lifetime of trying, succeeding and failing.

I like doing most things but there is always the rare exception. I appear quiet on the outside but once you get to know me you will see there is a lot more there. What you see is NOT what you get.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm currently working at PG&E as an Analyst. I moonlight with my Entertainment/Mobile DJ company and all this plus saving up so I can travel the world while I'm still young and mobile. By the time I'm 50 I want to have explored half of this planet we call Earth.
I’m really good at
Having fun, going with the flow, performing, listening, giving advice, celebrating, laughing, smiling, excel spreadsheets and dreaming.
The first things people usually notice about me
My Laugh. It can take a room by storm.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I don't read much anymore since my free time has dwindled practically down to nothing. I've read a lot of Patricia Cromwell and Laurell K. Hamilton books (The Vampire Hunter series) in the past. I stick mainly to fiction to escape and I have the Dali Lama, The Art of War and others when I need a bit of self reflection. I like most musical genres with the exception of some Country and most Thrash and I despise commercial rap.

My mood usually dictates the type of music I am listening to at any given point in time and it makes me feel relaxed.
The six things I could never do without
Life

Love

Food

Friends

Communication

Happiness
I spend a lot of time thinking about
EVERYTHING!

Seriously, I need to put a stop to this.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You want to hang out with a quality person.
Like having stimulating conversation.
You don't take yourself too seriously.