I am a very caring person who is constantly growing and learning. Im looking for a relationship where I could feel chemistry, trust, friendship and love. I am independent, my work is very important to me and at the same time I feel it is important to relax into being a Woman and allow myself to be courted by a man and treated like a lady. I would like someone who stands strong in his Masculine while supporting me in being in my Feminine. Someone who wants elements of that traditional play of masculine/feminine to be present in a relationship. I believe it is through that male/female polarity that great passion is ignited and, I am a very deep passionate Woman! Emotional, mental, spiritual and physical health is something that I strive to balance... I love for things to be beautiful around me. I am a hard worker and I won't stop until something is the way I feel it should be. Im also not afraid to speak my mind or let the waitress know in a respectful way that my dinner was cold or overcooked. I received the "most outspoken" award in High School and have a strong sense of justice if I feel something is unjustified or out of integrity. This is a strength of mine but it can inimidate the "shy types" so...just a heads up on that. Im tiny, but mighty! lol :o)

A healthy sense of humor and a desire to be adventurous and fun is hands down an absolute must for me! I am pretty silly and have been known to break out the "Elaine" dance a time or two on the dance floor to get a few laughs in the crowd around me ;o) I also enjoy good food and wine and love to cook and nurture others. I love to be nurtured back in ways that come from the heart. I also enjoy travel and exploring new terrain. Take me into the city or camping/hiking in the forest and Im loving it all. Life has so much to offer and I want to taste as much as I can. I am looking very forward to finding a compatible partner and growing deeper and deeper with him. Love is very important to me and I beleive that right match is out there. Thank you much for reading. (please do not contact me if you consider yourself a player or a "serial monogamist" as that is not my speed. I am looking for someone monogamous and who is looking for a long lasting one woman relationship. :)

I am self employed and work as a Family Therapist/Hypnotherapist, Workshop Facilitator, Womens Temple Dance Instructor (empowerment path for Women that has roots in Belly dance). I love what I do as it gives me the opportunity to travel, meet interesting people and assist people with positive transformations in their Life which is very rewarding and nourishing to my heart and soul.

I feel that I am really good at communication. I am very honest and open and feel that is the foundation of a great relationship. I also have a natural gift for music as I sing and write (guitar) and have recently started gigging some with a local band. My friends often tell me how "hilarious" I am so I suppose I can say... I am funny. I know that humor is very important to me. I also know that I am a great nurturing caring mom of my two older teenage children as well as my toy poodle whom I adore (she doesn't have the silly poodle cut, she looks like a little bear. SO CUTE!)

What i've been told is eyes and smile.

Books- Mists of Avalon, Marion Zimmer Bradley, Acknowledging What Is, Bert Hellinger, David Deida, Wild Attraction, Healing Love, etc., etc.

Music/Entertainment- I love most entertainment, plays, movies, shows of all kinds and all music genres with the exception of "twangy" country and blue grass and "lets go smoke a blunt and rob a bank cuz thats how we roll" crap...ooops...I mean rap ;) I do enjoy less lyrically invasive hip hop beats and club music, etc. and LOVE TO DANCE so I hope you're into that too!!!

Here is a link to one of the songs I wrote :
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=B4q9B8zAL48
(My friend who is like my second dad played on it and recorded it and made the video which is a bit corny so just focus on the tune..lol)

Here is a Jewel cover:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DIzq0uLpj9U

Obviously a man created this question ;) Im a woman with.. Yes. 5,963 pairs of shoes so there is no way to limit this to six. Here is my best attempt...

My children, my toothbrush, my girlfriends, my life's work/drive, singing/playing music, chocolate, LAUGHING, dancing/moving my body/exercise, coconut or vanilla lotion and pure sandalwood oil.

Creating music, my work, education, my next tropical vacation, fashion and.. how can I create comedy skits and get a billion hits on youtube...

Out dancing, socializing, connecting with others.

I process outloud with my dog often about things happening in my life (hey, she's a really good listener!) and I know this may be a deal breaker here but...I am a Bachelor/Bachelorette (on ABC) fiend so get ready to cuddle and watch it with me...this season is great!!! ;o)

You're not creepy and actually read what it is I am looking for rather than just peruse my pics. :)