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39 F San Francisco, CA

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5′ 1″ (1.55m)
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Working on university
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Has kids, and might want more
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My self-summary
Life is short, break the rules, forgive quickly, kiss slowly, love truely, laugh uncontrollably, and never regret anything that made you smile. ~ Ritu Ghatourey

I am a very caring person who is constantly growing and learning. Im looking for a relationship where I could feel chemistry, trust, friendship and love. I am independent, my work is very important to me and at the same time I feel it is important to relax into being a Woman and allow myself to be courted by a man and treated like a lady. I would like someone who wants certain elements of a traditional play of masculine/feminine to be present in a relationship. I believe it is through that male/female polarity that great passion is ignited and, I am a very deep passionate Woman! Emotional, mental, spiritual and physical health is something that I strive to balance... Im also not afraid to speak my mind or let the waitress know in a respectful way that my dinner was cold or overcooked. I received the "most outspoken" award in High School. Speaking my mind is a strength of mine but it can inimidate the "shy types" so...just a heads up... Im tiny, but mighty! lol

A healthy sense of humor and a desire to be adventurous and fun is hands down an absolute must for me! I am pretty silly and have been known to break out the "Elaine" dance a time or two on the dance floor to get a few laughs in the crowd around me ;o) I also enjoy good food and wine and love to cook and nurture others. I love to be nurtured back in ways that come from the heart. I also enjoy travel and exploring new terrain. Take me into the city or camping/hiking in the forest and Im loving it all. My travels through US Hawaii, Bermuda, England, France, Scotland, Wales and most recently Brazil has instilled in me a real love and passion for travel. Life has so much to offer and I want to taste as much as I can! I am looking very forward to finding a compatible partner and growing deeper and deeper with him. Love is very important to me and I beleive that right match is out there. Thank you much for reading. (please do not contact me if you consider yourself a player. I'm interested in getting to know someone for the possibility of a long term relationship.)
What I’m doing with my life
I am self employed and work as a Family Constellation Therapist/Hypnotherapist, Workshop Facilitator, Womens Temple Dance Instructor (empowerment path for Women that has roots in Belly dance). I love what I do as it gives me the opportunity to travel, meet interesting people and assist people with positive transformations in their Life which is very rewarding and nourishing to my heart and soul.
I’m really good at
I feel that I am really good at communication. I am very honest and open and feel that is the foundation of a great relationship. I also have a natural gift for music as I sing and write (guitar) and have recently started gigging some with a local band. My friends often tell me how funny I am so I suppose I can say so.. I know that humor is very important to me. I also am a nurturing caring mom of my two older teenage children (both out of the house now) as well as my toy poodle whom I adore (she doesn't have the silly poodle cut, she looks like a little bear. SO CUTE!)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Music/Entertainment- I love most entertainment, plays, movies, shows of all kinds and all music genres with the exception for "lets go smoke a blunt and rob a bank cuz thats how we roll" crap. Please don't take this as a prejudicial comment, just know If someone is singing about glorifying crime and demeaning Women...I won't like it. I do enjoy less lyrically invasive hip hop beats and dance music, etc. and LOVE TO DANCE so I hope you're into that too!!!
The six things I could never do without
Obviously a man created this question ;) Im a woman with.. Yes. 5,963 pairs of shoes so there is no way to limit this to six. Here is my best attempt...

My children, my doggie, my toothbrush, my girlfriends, my life's work/drive, singing/playing music, chocolate, LAUGHING, dancing/exercise, coconut or vanilla lotion and pure sandalwood oil.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Creating music, my work, continued study and learning, my next tropical vacation, fashion and.. how can I create comedy skits and get a billion hits on youtube !
On a typical Friday night I am
Out dancing, socializing, connecting with others or possibly home reading a book and cuddling with my pooch.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I process outloud with my dog often about things happening in my life (hey, she's a really good listener!) and I know this may be a deal breaker here but...I do not watch much TV at all but I do happen to be a Bachelor/Bachelorette (on ABC) fiend so get ready to cuddle and watch it with me!
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 33–44
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating
You should message me if
You're not creepy and actually read what it is I am looking for rather than just peruse my pics. :)