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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–48
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Aug 28
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
A little extra
Strictly anything
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Might want kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Funny, nerdy, poetic, weird, sweet, strong, soft, never lost my boyish wonder and excitement about life but also have gained wisdom and patience from living this long. That said, people always think I'm 28 years old. Lived many lives in this life. Grew up amongst alligators and swamps, cut my teeth as a teen running around subway tunnels and tower tops, held hands with my little girl running through the prairy grass, planted every seed left from each fruit into lava surrounded by ocean and watched it grow above me as my little girl grew into a women beside me, and then turned 40 riding to college on a bike in a city that once upon a time was a land of oaks. Happy bike commuter and Oakland resident. I think I'm steering towards only dating in Oakland but not totally set on that yet. I don't have or want to have a car even though I'm driving in my profile pic (I just get an hourly rental through Getaround to leave town sometimes). Going to college to become a nurse for my next adulthood. Usually I'm too busy with school work to give too much time to OKC but I'll write eventually. Sooner maybe if you 'like' me back on here. Once we aren't basically just strangers anymore I promise I will take much more time out of my day for just you:D
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Going to school to become an RN. Focusing on school, work, dreaming, writing and trying to be healthy while still having fun being not healthy sometimes. Loving the Bay Area especially Oakland. Riding my bike a lot🚴 Working at a bakery in West Oakland for the summer. Volunteering at the children's hospital. And doing an internship at a glass shop learning the trade.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking. Massage (professionally). Learning. Gardening. Creative thinking and spontaneity. Growing hair out of my face. Making people laugh or tell me "that's enough good sir with your silly songs and general weirdness."
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Kind eyes (I've been told and liked it)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Here's a few off the top of my head.

The Amber Chronicle
Still Life with Woodpecker
The Prophet
100 Years of Solitude
Dune (Frank Herbert's 6 not his son's horrible others)

Djengo Unchained
The Great Gatsby (both)
American Beauty
White Christmas (actually all Christmas movies during December🎅🏿⛄️)
The Matrix

TV and web Shows:
Rick and Morty
Bob's Burgers
Parks and Recreation
Game of Thrones
The Leftovers
Orange is the New Black
Arrested Development

Amy Winehouse
Delta Blues style (I'm from the south)
Lake Street Dive
Billy Holiday
jam bands (live)

NPR: TED Radio Hour
Stuff You Missed in History Class
The Naked Scientist
Writers Block
The Daily Show

Vietnamese (this should be first on the list)
Breakfast any time of the day and night
Dinner for breakfast
Cultured crafted cured fermented everything
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I like to think I can do without most material things but I do need immaterial things like love, affection, conversation, time in nature, humor, the internet and pho. Okay okay I guess the last two are more magically ethereal than immaterial.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.

screenplay ideas

future inventions like bacterial sunblock that lives on you and invisible jelly shields for bikers

the distance between the sub atomic and the multiverses and all the stuff in between

Emojis that should exist like butterfly, taco, washing machine, yoga pose, frowning poo, indifferent poo (why's that guys so happy all the time anyway?), spider, spider web, etc...

If we'll run out of water

Will Millennial's (my daughter included) be the first humans to live for a whole millennium?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having a fire and bbqing in my back yard, going out to live shows or DJ's, joining friend's amazing parties and dinners, chilling at home alone, seeing what my friends with kids are up to, cooking with the roommates (we are like a family), watching the sunset then reading or watching stuff on the internet till I pass out late, doing homework, unicorn spotting, washing my hair... You know, the usual typical stuff
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Last earthquake I thought my friends were having wild hard sex upstairs that was shaking the whole house, until I figured it out😂
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Reasons include but are not limited to: You want to. You have a hammock and are into hammock naps. You're just now starting to become your mother (the hot youthful brilliant and fun lady that she used to be before you ruined her by being a teenager). You want to meet in real life to see if things click. You don't "act your age" (much) because you are ageless and it's just a number. You want to find love or at least have fun getting lost looking for it. And most importantly, after viewing my profile, you think I'm a stone cold fox🌑❄️🐺.

Don't message me if:
You don't like tattoos, because I have a few. One of the small ones is on my hand.
You answered the evolution/creation question on here with "students should learn both sides" unless you meant in mythology class. Creationism isn't a "side" of scientific understanding! Deal breaker.
You literally (proper use of the word) HATE one side of the bay or the other (I'm into local pride but come on already!) I do love living in Oakland the most though so maybe that says something? But I like SF too to visit.