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Aqua-Rabbit

40 Oakland, CA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–48
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 7:27am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
A little extra
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on university
Job
Medicine
Income
Status
Single
Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Wants kids
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Let's go ride bikes together to a taco truck. I love being outside as much as I like being home. Funny, weird, sweet, strong, soft, never lost my boyish wonder and excitement about life but also have gained wisdom and patience from living this long. Happy bike commuter and Oakland resident. I think I'm steering towards only dating in the East Bay but not totally set on that yet. Going to college to become a nurse for my second adulthood. If I "like" you on here but don't write anything right away it's okay. Usually I'm too busy with school work to give too much time to okc but I'll write eventually. Sooner if you like me back;) Once we aren't basically just strangers anymore I will take much more time out of each day for just you:)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Going to school to become an RN. Focusing on school, work, dreaming, writing and trying to be healthy while still having fun being not healthy sometimes. Loving the Bay Area. Ride my bike a lot🚴
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking. Massage (professionally). Learning. Gardening. Creative thinking and spontaneity. Growing hair out of my face. Making people laugh or tell me that's enough good sir with my silly songs and general weirdness.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Kind eyes (I've been told and liked it)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Here's a few off the top of my head.

Books:
The Amber Chronicle
Still Life with Woodpecker
The Prophet
100 Years of Solitude
Dune (Frank Herbert's 6 not his son's horrible others)

Movies:
Interstellar
Chappie
Djengo Unchained
The Great Gatsby (both)
American Beauty
White Christmas (actually all Christmas movies during December🎅🏿⛄️)
The Matrix

TV and web Shows:
H+
MyMusic
Parks and Recreation
Game of Thrones
The Leftovers
Scandal
Portlandia
Orange is the New Black
Arrested Development

Music:
Amy Winehouse
Delta Blues style (I'm from the south)
XX
Lake Street Dive
JGB
Billy Holiday
Rebelution
jam bands (live)

Podcasts:
NPR: TED Radio Hour
Stuff You Missed in History Class
The Naked Scientist
Vice
Writers Block
Criminal
The Daily Show

Food:
Sushi
Vietnamese (this should be first on the list)
Thai
Burritos
Breakfast any time of the day and night
Dinner for breakfast
Smoothies
Cultured crafted cured fermented everything
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I can do without most material things but I do need love, affection, conversation, time in nature, humor, and pho.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
time/space

my screenplay idea

the distance between the sub atomic and the multiverses and all the stuff in between

Emojis that should exist like taco, washing machine, yoga pose, frowning poo, indifferent poo (why's that guys so happy all the time anyway?), etc...

If we'll run out of water
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having a fire and bbqing in my back yard, going out to live shows or DJ's, joining friend's amazing parties and dinners, chilling at home alone, seeing what my friends with kids are up to, cooking with the roommates (we are like a family), watching the sunset then reading or watching stuff on the internet till I pass out late, doing homework, unicorn spotting, washing my hair... You know, the usual typical stuff
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Last earthquake I thought my friends were having wild hard sex upstairs until I figured it out
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Reasons include but are not limited to: You want to. You have a hammock and are into hammock naps. You're just now starting to become your mother (the hot youthful brilliant and fun lady that she used to be before we ruined her by being teenagers once). You want to meet in real life to see if things click. You don't "act your age" (much) because you are ageless and it's just a number. You want to find love or at least have fun getting lost looking for it. And most importantly, after viewing my profile, you think I'm a stone cold fox🌑❄️🐺.

Don't message me if:
You don't like tattoos, because I have a few.
You literally (proper use of the word) HATE one side of the bay or the other (I'm into local pride but come on already!) I do love Oakland the most though so maybe that says something? But I like SF too to visit and if I had to move to Berkeley I wouldn't be that upset about it.