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39 Oakland, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–48
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 12:28pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
A little extra
Strictly anything
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Wants kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I want us to be one of those cute couples shopping together at Berkeley Bowl. I want to stop ordering Spoon Rocket or riding alone to the taco truck when I have a full fridge; basically I want someone to cook for. Young for my age but wise beyond my years or so I'm told. Love gardening and science. Love being outside and seeing live music as much as I like being home watching Netflix and chilling. Way more of an "in person" kind of person than an "online" kind of one so let's meet for real. Fairly busy but I am willing to put in the work because you might be great and a lot of fun🎉 Funny, weird, sweet, nice balance between masculine and feminine, strong, soft, never lost my boyish wonder and excitement about life but also have gained wisdom and patience from living this long. Usually come off as a man in their late twenties by looks and sometimes actions so if you're looking in my age range for an older business type man then move along; I'm a lot more fun than that and haven't started greying yet anyway. Happy bike commuter and Oakland resident. Going to college to become a nurse for my second adulthood. Looking for a long term relationship and want kids sometime in the future.
What I’m doing with my life
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Going to school to become a scientist and an RN. Focusing on school, work, dreaming, writing and trying to be healthy while still having fun. Loving everything about the Bay Area and NorCal. I ride my bike a lot🚴
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Cooking. Massage (professionally actually). Learning. Gardening. Creative thinking and spontaneity. Growing hair out of my face. Making people laugh.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Kind eyes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Here's a few off the top of my head.

Still Life with Woodpecker
The Prophet
100 Years of Solitude

Djengo Unchained
The Great Gatsby (old one)
American Beauty
White Christmas

TV Shows:
Parks and Recreation
Game of Thrones
The Leftovers
Orange is the New Black
Arrested Development

Lake Street Dive
Billy Holiday

NPR: TED Radio Hour
Stuff You Missed in History Class
The Naked Scientist
Vice Media
Writers Block

Breakfast any time
Dinner for breakfast
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I can do without most material things but I do need love, affection, conversation, time in nature, humor, and pho.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.

screenplay ideas

the distance between the sub atomic and the multiverses and all the stuff in between

Emojis that should exist like a taco, washing machine, yoga pose, frowning poo, etc...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Really like live shows and amazing parties but I mostly like chilling at home or watching the sunset then reading or watching stuff on the internet till I pass out late.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Actually a little upset with Mama June right now.
You should message me if
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You have a hammock and are into hammock naps. You're just now starting to become your mother but the hot youthful brilliant and fun lady that she used to be before you ruined her by being a teenager once. You want to meet in real life to see if things click. You don't "act your age" (much) because you are ageless and it's just a number. You want to find love or at least have fun getting lost looking for it. And most importantly, after viewing my profile, you think I'm a stone cold fox.

Don't message me if:
You literally HATE one side of the bay or the other (I'm into local pride but come on already!)