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43 M New York, NY

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 10:21am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from law school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs
English, Sign Language

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My self-summary
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I enjoy dancing, afternoons in Central Park, evenings drinking red wine, and Yankees games. I've taken a lot of time to explore the world, living abroad, sightseeing in foreign cities, mountain climbing in the Cascades and Andes, and scuba diving at the Great Barrier Reef, The Philippines, or in the Caribbean. I enjoy learning languages, which have included American Sign Language, Hebrew, and Spanish. I'm physically active, and exercise most every day. I'm an ENTJ, so I'm intellectually curious and hard working at my career, but I'm not overly serious. I explore my interests with passion and intensity. By vocation, I'm not in a creative field, but I am very imaginative. Like many youngest of three children, I'm sociable, enjoy meeting new people, and a good listener. I've learned that life sometimes leads you to unexpected places, but with perseverance you can get to where you want to go too. I'm an optimist, and hope you are too.
What I’m doing with my life
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I moved to Brooklyn after college. I spent five years living in Park Slope, while working in finance. My wilderness period started when I moved to Ann Arbor to attend business school, and included time working on Capitol Hill, interviewing with the CIA, living in New Jersey, and finally law school in D.C. Happily, I've been back in Manhattan for five years now. Professionally, I practice law at a firm. In my free time, I study dance, which has included Argentine tango, salsa, and bachata. I am also certified divemaster, and spend some weekends teaching students how to scuba dive.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Remembering song lyrics and movie dialogue.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have a nice smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Ethan Frome, Animal Farm, The Grapes of Wrath, All Quiet on the Western Front, Shogun, and The Lord of the Rings

Movies: Gandhi, Chariots of Fire, Amadeus, The Godfather, L.A. Confidential, Good Will Hunting, The Natural, Star Wars, The Matrix, Close Encounters, Moonstruck, and Monty Python and the Holy Grail

Shows: The West Wing, Game of Thrones, Sex and the City, The Wire, The Daily Show, and Taxi

Old Music: REM, U2, Hole, Steely Dan, The Cure, Bruce Springsteen, Bob Dylan, Madonna, Eric Clapton, Fleetwood Mac, Led Zepplin.

New Music: Coldplay, Regina Spektor, Rhye, The Postal Service, Tegan and Sara, Foster the People, Angus & Julia Stone

Podcast: Dan Savage's Lovecasts

Food: Italian, Chinese, Tapas, and Indian
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Contacts, lip balm, a toothbrush, hazelnut coffee, The New York Times, and a water filter.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
New York City real estate and traveling.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I also enjoy drinking wine and eating cheese with a friend, seeing a movie, dancing at a tango lounge, or having a beer at a local karaoke bar.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I enjoy getting a pedicure and foot massage every month or so.
You should message me if
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You're adventurous, independent, smart, and down-to-earth. You think we can create magic.

You believe a romantic kiss involves more than just the feel of your partner's lips against yours.

You are GGG and have a proclivity for non-vanilla.

I'm not religious, not looking to be, and open to dating non-Jewish women, but if we have a child(ren), you should be willing to raising them with a Jewish identity.

I am not open to dating women with children, or women whose ideas on chivalry preclude them from buying us drinks on a second or third date.

Please note, I am not interested in a long exchange e-mails, so once we've written each other, let's meet and see if we have good chemistry. I only e-mail women with whom I sense potential, and so don't send or expect thanks, but no thanks replies.