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43 M Oxnard, CA

My Details

Last Online
May 19
White, Other
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Not at all
Other, and very serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of space camp
Politics / Government
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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Good morning Sunshine! Don't be shy! On a climb up some mountain's trail (Mt. Whitney, Mt. Shasta, Mt. Jacinto ) recently (step, step, breathe - step, step, breathe...), I again found the addictive rhythm that I love so much about exercise. My mind opens up, there is a lightness about me, a crisp clarity to my senses, and the smile that will surely stretch my already chapped lips to their structural limit can't be contained. Are you with me?

In my life I've gone from baseball, football, and wrestling in my early days... to a helicopter rescue swimmer, volunteer firefighter, and hard hat diver... and now a budding triathlete and mountaineer for fun. I put hard time in the gym so I can play the same way!

What's your thing? I need a good partner! Wanna join me?

I'm looking for a healthly relationship with someone, and I'd really rather stay away from playing games.

Everything else on these things are just blah, blah, blah... So lets go get a drink, a coffee, a tea, or a teeth-staining shot of wheatgrass together. The rest we'll find out as we go.

So what happens now? Now is when you email me. ; )
What I’m doing with my life
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Enjoying it one moment at a time...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Fixing stuff.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My genuinely warm smile, my dry-cool wit, and my humbleness....

That was a joke... you may need a glass of aqua juice to get it down. ;-)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I tend to have very open tastes, and they vary from time to time...
But generally positive messages, cleverness, life lessons, funky beats, and art/actions that showcases the triumph of the amazing and beautiful human spirit in all of us.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
And some resembleness of a sex life!!!

Who's with me?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.

Carrying a positive resonance with those I encounter through each day.

Being a better man than I was yesterday.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Seeking laughter, entertainment of some kind, studying, or rest.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 27–47
  • Near me
  • For new friends
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