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38 F Windsor, Ontario, CA

My Details

Last Online
Jun 25, 2007
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Other, but not too serious about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids
Has dogs
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
We're a married couple - male half (F) and the female half (M). We have two young children and lives beyond swinging. Swinging is definitely a discreet enjoyment to be thoroughly persued with the right couple/female.

F plays video games, board games, and programs games as well. He is 6'1", about 170 lbs, shaved head, skinnier side of average frame. He wears black, including his tall black boots.

M is 5'6", about 170 lbs, curvy frame - 36C, 34 waist, 46 hips. She has black hair dyed a deep red and loves to wear corsets and her tall black boots.

I am an exhibitionist, quite sarcastic, and geek-friendly
What I’m doing with my life
On the outside, we have a fairly complete, normal life. We have two young children, a home, family, and friends. He is a programmer and a musician, she is a stay-at-home-Mom at present and attending university part-time (accounting) for another year. We're owned by two dogs, a husky and an American Eskimo.

In our private life, few know that we've become swingers. We attend a few dances at Wild Walker's in Dearborn, MI. We're both very shy people and have trouble moving forward where our minds already are...

The first things people usually notice about me
1) our intelligence... People are often intimidated by F's intelligence. 2) our shyness. M tends to blend into the background until she makes herself noticed (i.e. dancing erotically) 3) our eyes - yes, both of ours. His are a deep brown and hers are blue.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
A) M's Fav Authors - Morgan Lewellyn, Shakespeare, Melanie Rawn, Anne Rice (not the best author, but M loves vampires), Anne McCaffery (again, not the best author but M loves dragons), Guy Gavriel Kay, Charles de Lint, Jean M. Auel, C.J. Cherryh, Isaac Asimov, Orson Scott Card, Phillipa Gregory, Michael Moore, and of course Tolkien!! Interested in many hard and soft sci-fi.

F's Fav Authors - Terry Brooks, David Drake, Stephen R. Donaldson, Michael Moore. Interested in hard sci-fi mainly.

B) Both of us are into sci-fi movies especially. We love movies where you have to think during and after. At the same time, we thoroughly enjoy satirical comedies as well as certain other comedies... Life of Brian, Monty Python and the Holy Grail, Clerks, ANY other movie by Kevin Smith, especially his documentary!

Serenity, Firefly, Buffy the Vampire Slayer, The Lord of the Rings trilogy, Underworld, Underworld: Evolution, The Corporation, An Inconvenient Truth... Just to name a few.

C) Both of us enjoy Nine Inch Nails, Delerium, and Depeche Mode.
On a typical Friday night I am
F is playing music every Friday night. M spends Friday night in front of the computer looking for potential friends with benefits.

Preferably, M would love to spend every Friday night with a girlfriend she could lavish attention on, mentally and physically!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
that we are swingers and are looking for our friends with benefits.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 26–62
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, casual sex
You should message me if
you are between 25 and 45, part of a swinging couple or a single bi-female. If you are a female and have red hair, are curvy (he enjoys hips and an obvious waist), love corsets and tall black boots, and definitely enjoy the touch and feel of a woman, please message us!

If you're the male part of an open couple and are considered attractive, a bit geeky, definitely intelligent, and know how to please a woman, this lady is waiting for you to talk!! She likes dark-haired men with slight muscles, a beautiful smile and intelligent eyes.

It helps if either of you know massage, as the lady turns into a quivering, moaning lady at that perfect touch!

Both of us require a couple/single lady who can hold conversations, are discreet, D/D free (we are), and enjoy relaxing over dinner, board games, or dancing.