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44 Quincy, MA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 28–47
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Jun 28
5′ 11″ (1.81m)
Body Type
Other, but not too serious about it
Aquarius, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from two-year college
Seeing Someone
Strictly monogamous
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm much better at conversing so here goes with the written intro ;) I don't wish to give the wrong impression off the bat , so I am casually dating , I've got a tough work schedule , and I'm looking to be friends first .
.... I notice in almost all profiles people say they are easy going or/and laid back I'm neither what I am however is adaptable to most situations , and I maybe in the 1% that could care less about camping ;)
I'm quiet happy to be in my forties and it truly has been a bit of an awakening ; I must admit that my thirties was not my best decade . I've tried to balance my busy life and realize that one more day in the week -that we don't have to work ;) would be very handy. I spend as much time as I can with my children and I work quiet a bit , so I'm very upfront about the lack of time I'm around .
I'm really into music , I was in a band for several years. I'm currently working on a few project and doing a little producing and arranging for friends , just finished my first play co-written with a friend of mine from Dublin living in New York I love movies and I'm a bit of a history geek,I read a lot ,
I work out a couple of times a week and love playing soccer ( as you folks call it) although I don't get to play all that often.
I enjoy new places and experiences , cities, galleries museums, and music venues.
I love the Boston sports teams but rarely attend games ,
I'm open minded , well travelled , well read, and love great conversation.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm enjoying my forties , it was a relief to see my thirties limping off into the sunset. I don't care how cliched it sounds but there's a freedom in being in your forties that's hard to describe .
I've been working at the same place for a long time and enjoy it.
I left the band I was in over two years ago , as much as I loved it ;the constant gigging and touring while working full time got to me.
Still play the odd show and started taking guitar lessons (slow going let me tell you -glacier slow ) but I enjoy it and I'm trying to keep the frustrations in check ;))
I'm enjoying life as best I can , and trying to fit a little fun and traveling in which can be tough

I'm content with myself who I am and where I've come from , and most importantly what I'm looking to get out of life ,and the freedom and confidence that comes with maturity and knowing oneself realizing it's not selfish to know you're not going to change who you are or compromise your happiness to fit neatly into someone else's version of who you should be and what 'should' make you happy.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being a no drama zone !
Having friends ask me for advice,trusting me with incredibly personal stuff
Telling the reality of situations which may or may not be what you want to hear (if I care about you , I care enough not to lie to you.)
Remembering useless information and some useful ( maybe )
I'm a good drummer (Bodhran- Celtic frame drums)
Talking a lot lol ;)) about a variety of subjects :)
I've got a great sense of humor , I'm a guy You want around for trivial pursuit or the Kevin Bacon game . I'm a great listener too . I'm good at going with the flow and understanding that life gets in the way sometimes.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My accent is still "straight off the boat " although I've been in the States for almost twenty years.
I'm told my eyes are like the colors of the Irish flag green with a touch of orange in the middle .
I'm very approachable and easy to talk to.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I've spent the last three months reading nothing but books on Irish history and rebellions for a project and lived then but now reading ' conversations with God' it's fascinating
( I read a lot so this is off the top of my head )
Shadow of the wind, Wuthering Heights,
A star called Henry, Out stealing horses ,The Poetry of Ireland ( WB Yeats , Patrick Kavanagh, Thomas McDonagh,Seamus Heaney ,Patrick Pearse)
The Angels Game, Rebels, Great Expectations, The Picture of Dorian Gray.The Reader, Michael Collins, Schindlers List, Cleopatra, The Girl with the dragon tattoo, The life of pi , How the Irish saved civilization ,ten men dead , The women of the mountain the life and times of Liam Clancy, Balzac and the little Chinese seamstress.
Devil in the white city, The Historian
Once, Snatch ,The Departed, The Bourne Trilogy, In Brugge , Love actually , True Grit , The usual suspects , Gladiator,
The Shawshank Redemption,Crash,
The Professional,Mystic River,Bond Movies
LA confidential,The Town,True Romance,
Great Expectations, Last of the Mohicans
Braveheart , lock stock and two smoking barrels , four weddings and a funeral , traffic, traitor , Hunger, The Boxer , Taken , and many more ....

U2, The Chieftains , Lunasa, Solas ,
Luka Bloom , Howie Day, Christy Moore,
Paul Brady,The Beatles,The Rolling Stones ,Glen Hansard, John Denver,Andre Boccelli,The Three Tenors,,The Clancys, Aslan, Drake, Oasis , Eva Cassidy, Ronan Tynan, John Doyle, Sharon Shannon, Finbar Furey, Andy Irvine, Coldplay,Snow Patrol ,The Eagles
The Hothouse Flowers, Noelie McDonell
Katie McD , Colm O'Brien , Devri,
Patsy Whelan ,Suzanne McNeil, the Lombard brothers, Emmylou Harris,Bonnie Raitt,Sinead O'Connor, Rory Gallagher,
Dave Foley, Tom Petty,The Dubliners
Lori McKenna, Mumford & Son,Ray LaMontagne,Leonard Cohen,
John Spillane,Damien Rice,Andy Galdins Jnr

Tv shows
I don't watch all that much tv but when I do I really like
Criminal Minds , law and order ( all the shows and branch off shows) Without a trace , SNL, game of thrones
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My children , family and friends are their own category that make life beautiful and amazing

Great conversation
My independence
My phone
Great books to read
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why people don't think more like me (self indulgent disclaimer)
this is basically in relation how people treat each other
I work with the public , I have for over two decades that is a lot of time to gather a plethora of gripes .
Would it kill people people to put themselves in others shoes for a moment.

Why people want to stay in relationships that have clearly run their course.
When something is over its over you are never entitled to be vindictive with someone over something thats beyond their control . I know the empty feeling when a relationship which had promise dies , but the emptiness of staying in a relationship that's going nowhere is far worse.
Love is a fickle and quixotic emotion and has no timeline or agenda when it's gone it's gone, I'm hoping to find that rare love that transcends all that , but aren't we all :)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Seldom available work life etc
Was I really in a hurry to grow up :/
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Have you seen some of the questions asked!!!
Lots of usually private stuff revealed ! ;)
Love and relationships are something to be cherished , attraction and chemistry are hard wired not choices we consciously make.
The chemistry for great friendship and great sex have to be present , life is too short to settle for less than that .
If you read my profile thank you, I always try to respond to all my messages , but If I haven't I'm sorry .
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are interesting , you have opinions , you see the world as something to explore .
You consider yourself to be deep , you're not disconnected from the world around you , you're mentally and sexually liberated . You have a busy life and want to spend at least some time having fun . You want to meet with no expectations and lets see where things go. You are not looking for a serious committed relationship right away.The future isn't written and in relationships one can never tell if the journey will be long or short , I tend to enjoy what I have while I have it for "this too shall pass" the added pressure of the future makes you less alive in the moment , just be ...... If you would like great conversation and are open minded lets meet for a drink or coffee and chat or a walk in the city or a park. I'm not into a long email relationships. I'm much more into meeting and seeing if there's a spark between us, it's hard to convey your personality and humor through email.I don't wish to waste anyones time , if you're looking for someone to have children with or co-habitat with we may not be a match, I'm ultimately looking for a long term monogamous relationship full love, support and fun.
Thanks for visting my profile, good luck to you in your search. please read my entire profile before contacting me , I know time is precious thank you , I only say this because of past experiences here . I only respond to profiles with photos thanks ;))