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28 Cologne, Germany Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23-34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 9:02pm
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
6' 1" (1.86m)
Body Type
Special Diet
Atheism and it’s important
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
English (Fluently), German (Fluently), C++ (Fluently), Other (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I label myself an anarcho-dandyist. I lead a fun life with a professional attitude.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
During daylight I develop software. In my spare time I may work on a video game, or make music, or try to make the world a weirder place in some other way.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening. Observing. Making absurd, interesting or inappropriate comments. Not being polite. Seeing both sides of an argument.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The tin-foil hat I wear to prevent Them from reading my thoughts. My wandering eyes, sweaty forehead and deranged grin; all giving the impression of paranoia and/or an acute cocaine shock.

OK, for real: it really depends on my mood. I may seem very outspoken, or quite, or silly.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books by Terry Pratchett, Hunter Thompson, Stanislaw Lem and some of Nietzsche's work. Movies by Woody Allen and Pixar. Music from many different artists. I am genre-agnostic and like media that is clearly pop but also artsy stuff. As for TV shows I prefer the tragic and absurd ones: Breaking Bad, Adventure Time, The Americans, Robot Chicken.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I am inclined to say that there is nothing that I could not live without, if I absolutely had to.

If we substitute 'could never do without' by 'would rather not do without' then my answer changes to: music, a subset of my friends, a computer, mangos, coffee, and love.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The future. The Meaning of Life or lack thereof. This does not mean I am nihilistic or similar. I think we have the freedom to choose or create meaning in life for ourselves. This sounds nonsensical and it may be. But so what?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either visiting friends or at home. I am not that much into excessive partying but there are exceptions of course. Concerts are great and very occasionally also the theater. When I am at home I may, if I can bring myself to it, do something creative like drawing, making music, programming, or writing. With friends almost anything goes. You will (almost) never find me on a party with Goa music, or playing a tabletop RPG game.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Private things do stay private. But how about some random facts about myself? I like rabbits very much and frogs and any other animal with the ability to hop. Occasionally I go to concerts alone, if I cannot find someone I know who shares my fascination for a band or an artist. I don't watch television except for Tatort and Die Sendung mit der Maus.
You should message me if
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You do not treat this as a chat room, and you think we might get along.

You are a drummer and can picture yourself playing in a dark indie/pop group.

You have a sufficiently weird & interesting video game in the making, and are looking for an artist/programmer/musician to join you.

You are looking for a concert buddy.