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29 New Haven, CT Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21-40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Today – 12:28pm
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Atheism and laughing about it
Working on Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
English (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a Nerd. And a Jock. I am consistently amazed and awestruck by the beauty and complexity of life and our universe. I am looking for other people to share with on this cosmic journey.

I am an extreme extrovert - I get a kick out of socializing, and meeting new people excites me. I am a ball of energy and I am looking for people to keep up with me (yes that is a challenge).

I invented the portmanteau "sunbrella", which is unfortunately less elegant than the already existing term (parasol).

Damn you, parasol!!!

I am currently married to the love of my life. We are madly in love with each other and happily nonmonogamous. We like new friends and dates!!

I am sex-positive - I defend and celebrate the rights of all consenting adults to do whatever makes them happy with their bodies, no matter what that looks like. No guilt for being a slut and no shame for being a prude. I'm also GGG - my partners' pleasure is extremely important to me, and I love to experiment. Different people, different things, and different teach me something new :)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I spend a lot of time at school learning about the science and art of healing. If things go as planned, I will be a physician!

In my free time, I fence competitively, sing my heart out, practice Spanish with anyone who's willing, bicycle as much as possible, and generally look for fun adventures.

Other things I love include beer and bourbon, board games, hiking, listening, finding patterns.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Long, slow, face-melding makeout sessions.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My distinctive deep voice really stands out. People always tell me I should go into radio. I often wonder if that's a nice way of saying I'm ugly.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Kurt Vonnegut (RIP) is my favorite author. Now reading: More Than Two (poly book).

My favorite movie is The Princess Bride.
Now watching: every best picture winner from most recent backwards.

Six Feet Under is my favorite show.
Now watching: None.

Favorite band is The Smashing Pumpkins.
Now listening to: Woodkid.

Indian food is my favorite!
Now eating: pizza and salads.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Instead of answering this question, I am going to answer the opposite. Here are six things that I wish would disappear from my life:

1. Bad music
2. Shitty concrete built-environments taking over our planet
3. Miscommunication (except ones that end up in hilarity)
4. Traffic
5. Willful ignorance
6. The inevitable slow, cold death of the universe due to ever-increasing entropy and expansion
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Sex, relationships, and communication
Substance use, abuse, and addictions.
Athletics, exercise, and fencing.
Medicine, physiology, and bodies.
Feminism, culture, and social justice.
Fun, adventure, and experience.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are smarter than me, funnier than me, and bursting with active energy.

If you are absolutely sure non monogamy is not for you, you're probably right. If you are already poly/open, interested in exploring different relationship styles, or simply curious/adventurous - please send me a message!