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Ara_Kaytsua

29 M Wadsworth, OH

My Details

Last Online
Jul 4
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Libra
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Being that I'm often quite blunt in my wording, it might be best not to take me ~too~ seriously... That being said... I've come to a hypothesis after my years on this site... basically consisting that no matter how much I write, erase, add in, etc... and no matter how much you do or don't read... you likely won't actually know much of anything about me.

I'm the kind of guy who will text you just to say goodnight and good morning. One of my favorite facial things is a sincere smile, though I also like eyes. I'm not a "bad boy" type, nor am I total saint... But I am an artistic healer who will delight in actually getting to know someone for who they are.

To put into basic summary what "I'm looking for" in a relationship... honestly... I'd have to say intimate companionship. If you stop reading there, fine... if you've continued, then I shall explain briefly that I do not mean "I want lots of sex" when I say that. Then again, you may already have figured that out (which is definitely qualifying points) I want someone I can talk with, someone I can walk in the park with, or even just walk back to look over the garden with and help with weeding, someone who I can banter with while are at the store shopping. I'd much love to find someone to enjoy the large, small and in between medium things of life. I want a lover who is one of my best friends. Someone gentle enough to forgive me (or at the least bypass) for my mistakes and for not being a perfect being. But stern (and sassy) enough to give me a hard time when needed.

I prefer the natural beauty of women, from the cute just-woken-up, to the down-to-earth, to the "long day, don't care" look. If you're looking to be treated like a piece of meat or like crap, then look elsewhere. There are plenty of swagger losers on this site, but I'm not one of them. If you want to be appreciated for you, then let's talk.

It has been brought to my attention (probably because of my work) that I seem to have a knack for being able to up and talk to just about anyone.. if I start talking in a familiar manner with you, it's kind of how I normally am, it would seem.

Gifts - Love to give them, love to get them... but am a bit difficult to get them for sometimes.

On an interesting note, I own my own small business "Silverfox Massage & Crafts" which can be found on facebook and etsy. My work load varies a bit here and there... however, I will still find time for the right people in my life.

I have goals and ambitions, though sometimes I get a little lapsed in thought.

So things that I love:
Crystals, leather, silver and copper, wood, massage (giving, actually, I am an LMT), FOOD, tea of various types (loose leaf is my preference, I guess you could say I've taken my love of tea to an art?)

To name a few more things, I love to laugh, I love to cook (I can manage on the cleaning thing, not a favorite, but useful) and I absolutely love plants and gardening. I've really come in the recent years to reawaken and deepen my love of herbalism and the power of plants. I've also been looking into bow hunting as a source of food, and would like to eventually venture to a more off-grid lifestyle.

I am Pagan/eclectic/spiritual, and I don't really care what deity one follows as long as they do right by others and respect that different beliefs exist. This being said, I would much prefer a Pagan or Wiccan girl. Or a down to earth geek/nerd/otaku girl might be cool too, I'm a bit open to suggestions.

I'm myself, I won't apologize for being myself. I may apologize if I offend you in some way, but I will not apologize for being myself

I realize of course any relationship requires work, equally on both parts, to make it work... so I'm not expecting someone to be perfect from the start.

You know.. I hear over in Japan (I think it was there, or China perhaps?) When a tea pot or similar stoneware item cracks, there is a practice and theory of fixing the crack by filling it with gold, with the concept that the damage actually makes the item more beautiful?
What I’m doing with my life
Enjoying it, of course.
Trying to grow my business and usually end up trying to help other artists as well.
Hanging out with friends, trying to make new friends, searching for more events to sell my wares and services at.
I’m really good at
Hugs, from what I've been told. I like to give big hugs. I also rather like to give compliments.

I can't cook a buffet's spread of dishes, but what I do cook, I seem to do pretty well at.

I like making\repairing/re-purposing things.
The first things people usually notice about me
Usually my hair (the most complimented thing at least), or my eyes (second most it would seem)... or that I don't look like your average guy you see walking around maybe?

Oh, and I love dusters. I have a black leather one that I wear fairly often. plenty of pockets, and I like when it moves in the wind. Since I have plenty of leather upcycled from old coats, I might try adding a hood to it some day.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books:
Dresden Files (I love this series! ... until "Changes" came out... that was a total bullcrap flop.... however, "Ghost Story" and Jim has been picking up the slack since... Cold Days, and I'm a fan again.)
The Mercedies Thompson series by Patrica Briggs
Dragon Quartet series
Subtle Knife
Amber Spyglass
Count of the Monte Cristo
The "Otherworld" series by Yasmine

Music:
Lindsey Sterling
^i cannot emphasize enough just how much I love this woman's work
Ayumi Hamasaki
T.M. Revolution
Nightwish
Three Days Grace
My Chemical Romance
Disturbed
Blackmore's Night
Within Temptation
Brunuhville (small artist, google them, you won't regret it!)
Delain
And more that I can't recall right off hand

Kale has quickly become my best friend for salads and soups.
Sushi is quite delicious
Almonds are epic. Period.
More foods than that to list, but if you spend any time around me, you'll find them out quickly enough.

Actually, I'm trying to move towards a much healthier diet... so needless to say, I'd like for someone who is/does/wants to as well :p
The six things I could never do without
Sustenance - my trades/skills - Friends - Intimacy - Transportation - Humor - and anime/manga. Yes, I did 7, seven is a lucky number, so meh :P
I spend a lot of time thinking about
--Designs and projects I want to do.

-- which item to make next, or when/where is another event or store I can vend at :P
On a typical Friday night I am
At work, packing for an event, or otherwise usually I'm with friends, or in my 'office' working on more designs. Company in such endeavors is quite welcomed if you're of the artistic persuasion :P

Also, I'm generally up for company even if it's not work related :P
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Well, perhaps I'll answer if you ask me yourself :P There is a vast difference between the weights of what one has handed to them, and what one acquires with their own hands.

... one could also argue that I just don't know what to say here, so I quoted a manga.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–33
  • Near me
  • For new friends
You should message me if
Let's further exemplify my like of bullet lists, shall we?
~ You think we'll get along, and can appreciate each others senses of humor
~ You have questions regarding my work
~ You're artistic and like cooking, gardening, etc.
~ The idea of walks in the park, treks through the forest, moonlight night adventures, or even just sitting in cozy setting with a good drink (like tea :P ) sounds like fun.
~ you preferably have a job and can drive.
~ you have some goals and dreams for your life, be they simple or extravagant, and you have the determination to pursue them.
~ you are not married and not looking for an "open" relationship.

Note, that not ALL of the above are required, but are preferred :P