I would most love to find a fellow artist and Pagan with whom to share my passion for creativity, design, quality, and many other aspect of my work.
When I want you, I will work and try my hardest to make that clear. “I will move mountains” is cliché, and involves too much explosives and heavy construction equipment, but the basic notion is there. However, this does not mean that if I’m not working my tail off that I don’t care, sometimes I get pulled in multiple directions and can’t fully focus on everything… but if you’re important to me, I’ll find some way to show it. I’m the kind of guy who will text you good morning and good night, and text you just randomly because I want to interact with you. However, I must make this critical note: you have to give effort as well. I’m very tired of working and trying with little return effort if any.
I’ll state this next part clearly:
Yes, I like Children just fine. They can be adorable and amusing as hell… However.
I do NOT want any Children (I further clarify, ANY, mine or anyone else’s, as apparently this part is not clear as per past experience.)
I have several reasons ranging from genetics to I simply do not have any desire to see little clones of me running around. This is something I am 200% certain of; you will not change my mind. Point of fact, I am current investigating options for Vasectomy to ensure no little foxes from this den.
In today’s society, I believe that women are not given anywhere near the proper respect or appreciation. So I make it a point at least once a day to say something positive, even if it’s just as simple as “your hair looks pretty today” or “you have pretty eyes”… as I go throughout my day. If we’re talking context of a girlfriend, you will likely receive at least one compliment, or reminder that you’re beautiful, per day as long as I’m not turned in multiple directions with work.
I prefer the natural beauty of women, from the cute just-woken-up, to the down-to-earth, to the "long day, don't care" look. If you're looking to be treated like a piece of meat or like crap, then look elsewhere. There are plenty of swagger losers on this site, but I'm not one of them. If you want to be appreciated for you, then let's talk.
I’m a total sucker for long hair and pretty eyes, I admit it is one of my weaknesses.
To put into basic summary what "I'm looking for" in a relationship... honestly... I'd have to say intimate companionship. If you stop reading there, fine... if you've continued, then I shall explain briefly that I do not mean "I want lots of sex" when I say that. Then again, you may already have figured that out (which is definitely qualifying points) I want someone I can talk with, someone I can walk in the park with, or even just walk back to look over the garden with and help with weeding, someone who I can banter with while are at the store shopping. I'd much love to find someone to enjoy the large, small and in between medium things of life. I want a lover who is one of my best friends. Someone gentle enough to forgive me (or at the least bypass) for my mistakes and for not being a perfect being. But stern (and sassy) enough to give me a hard time when needed.
On an interesting note, I own my own small business "Silverfox Massage & Crafts" which can be found on facebook and etsy. My work load varies a bit here and there... however, I will still find time for the right people in my life.
I have goals and ambitions, though sometimes I get a little lapsed in thought.
So things that I love:
Crystals, leather, silver and copper, wood, massage (giving, actually, I am an LMT), FOOD, tea of various types (loose leaf is my preference, I guess you could say I've taken my love of tea to an art?)
To name a few more things, I love to laugh, I love to cook (I can manage on the cleaning thing, not a favorite, but useful) and I absolutely love plants and gardening. I've really come in the recent years to reawaken and deepen my love of herbalism and the power of plants. I've also been looking into bow hunting as a source of food, and would like to eventually venture to a more off-grid lifestyle. More specifically… I need to refine my archery technique (I have 2 compounds now), and would much like to one day live in a tiny house trailer… with a small plot of land for a workshop and garden.
I am Pagan/eclectic/spiritual, and I don't really care what deity one follows as long as they do right by others and respect that different beliefs exist. This being said, I would much prefer a Pagan or Wiccan girl. Or a down to earth geek/nerd/otaku girl might be cool too, I'm a bit open to suggestions.
I'm myself, I won't apologize for being myself. I may apologize if I offend you in some way, but I will not apologize for being myself
I realize of course any relationship requires work, equally on both parts, to make it work... so I'm not expecting someone to be perfect from the start.