So let's get something right up front and out if the way. I do not have children, and while I like children well enough, I do NOT want any children. If this stops your read right here, I wish you luck in your search, as there are plenty of great guys out there who do want children. I'm just not one of them.
So it was recently told to me that my profile doesn't really accurately portray the true depths of my character. (this was said by someone who read it first then got to know me in person.) I can draft patterns and design all sorts of different items from leather, wood, etc… and I can even write some decent short stories… yet apparently myself is the one thing I can't fully describe in words?
Being that I'm often quite blunt in my wording, it might be best not to take me ~too~ seriously... That being said... I've come to a hypothesis after my years on this site... basically consisting that no matter how much I write, erase, add in, etc... and no matter how much you do or don't read... you likely won't actually know much of anything about the true me until we've actually talked.
But here’s what I will tell you anyway to give you a basis to work with ^_^
I'm the kind of guy who will text you just to say goodnight and good morning. One of my favorite facial things is a sincere smile, though I also like eyes. I'm not a "bad boy" type, nor am I total saint... But I am an artistic healer who will delight in actually getting to know someone for who they are.
I’m a total sucker for long hair and pretty eyes, I admit it is one of my weaknesses.
To put into basic summary what "I'm looking for" in a relationship... honestly... I'd have to say intimate companionship. If you stop reading there, fine... if you've continued, then I shall explain briefly that I do not mean "I want lots of sex" when I say that. Then again, you may already have figured that out (which is definitely qualifying points) I want someone I can talk with, someone I can walk in the park with, or even just walk back to look over the garden with and help with weeding, someone who I can banter with while are at the store shopping. I'd much love to find someone to enjoy the large, small and in between medium things of life. I want a lover who is one of my best friends. Someone gentle enough to forgive me (or at the least bypass) for my mistakes and for not being a perfect being. But stern (and sassy) enough to give me a hard time when needed.
I prefer the natural beauty of women, from the cute just-woken-up, to the down-to-earth, to the "long day, don't care" look. If you're looking to be treated like a piece of meat or like crap, then look elsewhere. There are plenty of swagger losers on this site, but I'm not one of them. If you want to be appreciated for you, then let's talk.
It has been brought to my attention (probably because of my work) that I seem to have a knack for being able to up and talk to just about anyone.. so if I start talking in a familiar manner with you very quickly, it is, as my sister would say, “a feature, not a bug.”
Gifts - Love to give them, love to get them... but am a bit difficult to get them for sometimes.
On an interesting note, I own my own small business "Silverfox Massage & Crafts" which can be found on facebook and etsy. My work load varies a bit here and there... however, I will still find time for the right people in my life.
I have goals and ambitions, though sometimes I get a little lapsed in thought.
So things that I love:
Crystals, leather, silver and copper, wood, massage (giving, actually, I am an LMT), FOOD, tea of various types (loose leaf is my preference, I guess you could say I've taken my love of tea to an art?)
To name a few more things, I love to laugh, I love to cook (I can manage on the cleaning thing, not a favorite, but useful) and I absolutely love plants and gardening. I've really come in the recent years to reawaken and deepen my love of herbalism and the power of plants. I've also been looking into bow hunting as a source of food, and would like to eventually venture to a more off-grid lifestyle. More specifically… I need to refine my archery technique (I have 2 compounds now), and would much like to one day live in a tiny house trailer… with a small plot of land for a workshop and garden.
I am Pagan/eclectic/spiritual, and I don't really care what deity one follows as long as they do right by others and respect that different beliefs exist. This being said, I would much prefer a Pagan or Wiccan girl. Or a down to earth geek/nerd/otaku girl might be cool too, I'm a bit open to suggestions.
I'm myself, I won't apologize for being myself. I may apologize if I offend you in some way, but I will not apologize for being myself
I realize of course any relationship requires work, equally on both parts, to make it work... so I'm not expecting someone to be perfect from the start.