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Arabian_Horse

50 Alameda, CA Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 40–49
  • Located anywhere
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 2:51pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Smokes
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Buddhism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
Status
Single
Type
Offspring
Has a kid
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Ready for a beauty (inside and out) to discover an exciting, easy, powerful, new, intimate connection.

Described by a female friend as

"amazing, responsible, knows how to treat a woman like a real woman, opening doors for her, from a good, loving family with values and very open to intimacy and connection that serves both people. Creative, super-communicative, collaborative and very much a real man." (Thx, Cindy)

Would enjoy connecting if you're ready for:

-Easy connection with a grounded, powerful man
-Feeling absolute permission to be yourself
-Fun & adventure
-Enjoyable banter that's friendly with potential for some depth
-Discovering your best & having it brought out of you
-Being open to the emotionally dangerous
-Something that might get hot
-Discovering healthy balance of the sacred & profane

Would love you to understand that real sharing does NOT mean waiting for -- or expecting -- the other person to go first
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Raising an exquisite young woman. and building a dream business slowly and deliberately, maybe 30 hours a week -- keeping a schedule filled with connecting with friends, daily Daddy-daughter time, traveling, and adventure.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
communicating deeply & openly -- and very generously

Creating a shame-free and fun/magical way to relate in ways we always SAY we want to but usually don't

being grateful

Enjoying life's pleasures & creating more intimacy -- who knows how long we have so gather ye rosebuds...
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My warmth and putting people at ease
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
books: East of Eden, Fear & Loathing in Las Vegas, Catch-22, The Wisdom of Insecurity
flix: 2001, The Station Agent, Wings of Desire, Raising Arizona
music: African & jazz -- still on a Mechelle Ndegeocello jag
food: Thai (OK, Italian -- wait, Mexican!)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
meditation
exercise (hoops & hiking)
nature
connection
travel
my 4-yr-old daughter's smiling face
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
ways to live in the tropics part of each year while fulfilling a mission to create a very cool business -- and remain relatively detached so my real priorities always come first
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having dinner then seeing a film or ballgame with friends
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Guilty pleasure: Hall & Oates
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Show off your female intuition & win some Bonus Points with "Two truths & a fib"! (Which one of these is NOT true):

1) Bestowed the honorary title of "Liboni" to a Massai tribe after being "married" in a mock ceremony to 3 Tanzanian women

2) had 3 tryouts with the Cincinnati Reds

3) was shot at 5x by a crackhead while jump-starting my car at 3am in Oakland circa 1992

BTW, I'm not Arab but I DO ride horses.