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50 Alameda, CA Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 38–49
  • Located anywhere
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:08pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Not at all
Buddhism, but not too serious about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Has a kid
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Ready for a great connection and discover an exciting, easy, intimate connection.

Described by a female friend as

"amazing, responsible, knows how to treat a woman like a real woman, opening doors for her, from a good, loving family with values and very open to intimacy and connection that serves both people. Creative, super-communicative, collaborative and very much a real man." (Thx, Cindy)

Would enjoy connecting if you're ready for:

-Easy connection with a grounded man
-Enjoyable banter that's friendly with long periods of actual depth
-Discovering your best & having it brought out of you
-Being open to the possibly-emotionally dangerous
-Something that could get really hot
-Hanging out in a healthy balance of the sacred & profane

Would love you to understand that real sharing does NOT mean waiting for -- or expecting -- the other person to go first
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Raising an exquisite young woman and building a dream business slowly and deliberately, maybe 30 hours a week -- keeping a schedule filled with connecting with friends, daily Daddy-daughter time, traveling, fun and adventure.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
communicating deeply, openly and very generously

Creating a shame-free and fun/magical way to relate in ways we always SAY we want to but usually don't

being grateful

Enjoying life's pleasures & creating intimacy
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My warmth and putting people at ease
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
books: East of Eden, Fear & Loathing in Las Vegas, Catch-22, The Wisdom of Insecurity
flix: 2001, The Station Agent, Wings of Desire, Raising Arizona
music: African & jazz -- moved on from Mechelle Ndegeocello to Habib Koite and Roy Hargrove
food: Thai (OK, Italian -- wait, no, MEXICAN!) Still searching for the Perfect Burrito
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
exercise (hoops & hiking)
my 5-yr-old daughter's smiling face
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
ways to live in the tropics part of each year while fulfilling a mission to create a very cool business -- and remain relatively detached so my real priorities always come first
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having dinner with friends then seeing a film or game
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Guilty pleasure: Hall & Oates (Say It Isn't So!)
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
Show off your female intuition & win Bonus Points with "Two truths & a fib"! (Which one of these is NOT true):

1) Bestowed the honorary title of "Liboni" to a Massai tribe after being "married" in a mock ceremony to 3 Tanzanian women

2) had 3 tryouts with the Cincinnati Reds

3) was shot at 5x by a crackhead while jump-starting my car at 3am in Oakland circa 1992 (Fortunately, he had terrible aim)

BTW, I'm not Arab but I DO ride horses.