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49 M Alameda, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 12:22pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Not at all
Buddhism, but not too serious about it
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, and might want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Ready for a beauty (inside and out) to discover an exciting, easy, powerful, new, intimate connection. You must KNOW there's a more appealing experience that's huge and intriguing awaiting you.

Described by a female friend as

"amazing, responsible, knows how to treat a woman like a real woman, opening doors for her, from a good, loving family with values and very open to intimacy and connection that serves both people. Creative, super-communicative, collaborative and very much a real man." (Thx, Cindy) 

 Would enjoy connecting if you're ready for:

- Easy connection with a grounded, powerful  man
- Feeling absolute permission to be yourself 
- Fun with possibilities for something more
- Enjoyable banter that may or may not go anywhere 
- Discovering your best & having it brought out of you
- being open to the emotionally dangerous
- Something that might get red-hot

Would love you to be ready to discover and start playing your "A" game. And You understand that real sharing does NOT mean waiting for -- or expecting -- the other person to share first
What I’m doing with my life
Fathering an exquisite young woman. And building a dream business slowly and deliberately, maybe 30 hours a week -- keeping a schedule filled with connecting with friends, daily Daddy-daughter time, traveling, and adventure.
I’m really good at
communicating deeply & openly -- and very generously

Creating a shame-free and fun/magical way to relate in ways we always SAY we want to but usually don't

pleasure & intimacy

being grateful
The first things people usually notice about me
My warmth and putting people at ease
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
books: East of Eden, Fear & Loathing in Las Vegas, Catch-22, The Wisdom of Insecurity
flix: 2001, The Station Agent, Wings of Desire, Raising Arizona
music: African & jazz -- still on a Mechelle Ndegeocello jag
food: Thai (OK, Italian -- wait, Mexican!)
The six things I could never do without
exercise (hoops & hiking)
my 4-yr-old daughter's smiling face
I spend a lot of time thinking about
ways to live in the tropics part of each year while fulfilling a mission to create a very cool business -- and remain relatively detached so my real priorities always come first
On a typical Friday night I am
Having dinner then seeing a film or ballgame with friends
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My guilty pleasure: Hall & Oates
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 36–49
  • Located anywhere
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You want to go for the Bonus Points:

Two of these are true; show off your female intuition and tell me which one of these is NOT true:

1) I enjoy the honorary title of "Liboni" to a Massai tribe after being "married" in a mock ceremony to 3 Tanzanian women

2) had 3 tryouts with the Cincinnati Reds

3) was shot at 5x by a crackhead while jump-starting my car at 3am in Oakland circa 1992.

BTW, I'm not Arab and I ride horses. Best of luck, Goddess...