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44 Norman, OK Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

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6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from high school
Strictly monogamous
Has a kid, and might want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Have to open with one of my newer favorite quotes from "Love is Evol" by Christopher Titus. It somewhat applies, but maybe not totally!
"I know who I am. I am just a very thin layer of charming, with some funny sprinkles, wrapped around a huge creamy center of raging arrogant A-HOLE!!!"

Just your average all around guy really. I have my beliefs, I have my good points, my not so good points, and my redeeming qualities.

Basics matter of fact style about me.
1) I am a believer in God, a Southern Baptist by choice and upbringing. Do not fear, I am not a "bible thumper". It's simple, if you want to know about my faith, ask and I am happy to tell you, if you don't, odds are you will only see what I believe in the way that I live!
2) I am single father to the most amazing girl I could imagine. I am always saying how she deserves better than me, and it makes me thankful every day she is in my life. I have her on the weekends where I am able to get to Tulsa and pick her up.
3) I work in the I/T field, a tech by trade.
4) I am a cut up, a spot of a geek, and a very serious individual all at the same time. I know when it's appropriate to joke, and when to take things more seriously.
5) I can be affectionate person. It all depends on who I am with as to how affectionate.
6) Yes, I did select most, if not all, of the "looking for" section. This is just the way that I view things. Debate it or not, casual sex as well is a relationship of a sort. Just say that I am open to what is on the table. My goal is a long term relationship, leading hopefully to marriage. Until then, just say what happens, happens. But I refuse to lie or deceive anyone in those regards, always up front about where things are at!
7) I have been described as stubborn and hard headed. And I will admit, once my mind is made up, it is not often changed. But it IS possible. You had better have strong facts to back it up though!
8) I am utterly fierce when devoted to something or someone. This would include family, friends, and dearly loved ones. Think of "Bryan Mills"(Liam Neeson from "Taken"), meets "John Wick", meets " Jack Reacher", meets "Agent 47"(Timothy Olyphant from "Hitman") type of ferocity and determination!
9) English is actually my second language, sarcasm is my first now, I took it as my native language some time ago. Avid partaker of the pun, and can be very dry on the humor. Ex wife hated that, because she could never tell when I was really joking!

Not sure what else I want to put here, will update and edit as they come to mind!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Same as anyone, I am living it as best as I can see fit. Huge on the golden rule thing. I treat others as I wish them to treat me.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Fixing things. I resolve issues for a living. I am highly technical, good with my hands. Capable of doing majority of my own household, computer, and auto repair/maintenance! So, guess I am good at being a guy/man!?!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Never really asked.....I would imagine my face. Recently told that I have distracting blue eyes though. With me, it's not what you notice first that wins you over. It is what you discover as you get to know me for who I am.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Movies, I am all over the board. Almost any comedy by Mel Brooks, Most action movies, suspense lover here. Generally go for period correct history stuff too, big fan of the "based on a true story". Television, really big fan of "Almost Human", was a huge Burn Notice fan(thank you NetFlix, all seven seasons now available!!!), and enjoy some documentaries! HUGE fan of the series Babylon 5, plan on getting the DVD collection soon!
Net Flix has become my friend!
Musically, I favor anything that I can identify with, anything I can relate to. I just like things that speak to me personally. Radio surfer. Stations I jump to most are the KATT, KJ103, KJKE(JAKE FM), and 101.9(The Twister). The song I jump to most on my mp3's right now, Jerrod Niemann - Only God Could Love You More. Awesome song!!!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My God in Heaven above!
My daughter of course, she is my world!
My niece, who was almost like a daughter to me until I had one.
My great niece, the lil spitfire that she is
My very good friends, who keep me grounded, and offer good council.
And Zio's Chicken Parm....I swear, it is a gift from God!!!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Women, trying to understand the thinking process. And I believe I am ALMOST there, I just need a thousand more years or so!!!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either hanging with my kiddo having a blast doing whatever, or have started to hang out and karaoke some again lately!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am afraid of female pattern baldness!!! We all have at least one fear.... Just sayin'!
Okay, so maybe not so much afraid, just really weirded out!
You should message me if
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If you believe that I am worth the risk.
If you have looked at the numbers(match % and all). Match% somewhat important, but the 12 year old, she focuses mainly on the Enemy%, she favors 15% or less, me, I live on the edge!!! I say 20% or less. But hey, if you think you can beat statistics and the two of us make a go of it, I say let's try. Worst case, make a new friend!