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44 Norman, OK Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 30–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
A little extra
Mostly anything
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from high school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, and might want more
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Have to open with one of my newer favorite quotes from "Love is Evol" by Christopher Titus. It somewhat applies, but maybe not totally!
"I know who I am. I am just a very thin layer of charming, with some funny sprinkles, wrapped around a huge creamy center of raging arrogant A-HOLE!!!"

So, I am thinking edit time again, and this will be my last edit, as OKCupid has not worked for me as I had hoped, but those are the breaks. I do not like these summaries because I have to sum myself up as completely as possible, without going to the extent of boring my intended audience. So, I am going to pattern copy another profile that I have, where I have been complimented for my blatant honesty.
It’s like this, all personal information is a “need to know” basis. So here is what you need to know about me.
1) I am a child of the one true God, who sent his son Jesus to atone for my sins. I believe this, and rely on it for my journey to Heaven eventually. I am Southern Baptist by doctrine, just what the convention refers to as “backsliding” currently. Not delving into a life of sin or anything, my core beliefs and fundamentals are there, and are still, as they will always be, part of the driving force behind why I do things the way that I do. My witness is in the way that I live daily, and in the way that I treat others. I am very golden rule, which comes from my maternal grandmother, the sainted woman that she was.I do not judge, nor expect to be judged by others, as none of us live up to that perfect example. I know the bible, can quote context, just not always scriptures verbatim. But do know that I know it, and am versed more than well enough to hold my own in a debate over it.
2) I am a divorced white male, 43 years of age, 6’0” tall, 240-ish pounds with reddish-brown hair(that I have decided to let grow out a little), blue eyes(glasses and contacts), and a red goatee that is a full beard from Thanksgiving to Valentine’s Day.
3) I am a father to the most amazing young lady that I could possibly hope for. She is my world, always has, and always will come first. This is for a very simple and self-serving reason. She’s the only child I have, and thus the only one that will be selecting and paying for the retirement home that I wind up in!!!
4) I am a very devoted friend. If and when I get to that point with someone, where I call them friend, I do not take this lightly. Those that I call friends, are more precisely the family that I got the privilege to choose, and I value them greatly.
5) I am honest, almost to a fault. Do not ask me a question you do not want the absolute truth on. My opinion, though some consider invaluable, is completely impartial. I have this uncanny ability to mentally and emotionally remove myself from a given topic or situation, and view it from a neutral perspective. I am so honest about things, I am frequently caught at a loss when someone asks me how things are going at work. It’s a polite thing I know, but I do not want to be one of those that says simply, “fine” and goes along with my day, when I knew all along, things were going more like a derailed locomotive!!!
6) I am a "compartmentalized" person. Call it a "safety feature" that I have, we all have our defenses. Basically, I have all of these boxes/compartments that I keep life in, and people are allowed into the boxes or compartments that I choose to allow them into. No, this does not mean I hide who I am or what I am about, I am typically very clear on that, it means that things in my life that I value are kept safe(such as my daughter) and out of any relationship I may find myself in that is unhealthy. For me, it is a way of protecting myself and everyone else, just trust me, it is better. If you knew the things my daughter has had to endure and overcome in her young life, you would understand why I can be and often come off as an over-protective father. Now, this does not mean that I have no space in my life for anyone, quite the contrary, I have a great deal of love to offer, which is as God intended, unconditional!
7) I am, let’s say “negotiable” on the relationship. This is because I see it like this, ANY relationship, takes two people! Whether it be a marriage, a blossoming committed relationship, just friends, friends with benefits, a buck fuddy, and yes, even a one night stand! Side note for one thing, yes, a one night stand is a relationship. It is just a relationship that one of the two parties decided either before or after the fact, to no longer pursue! Suffice to say, my goal, my wish, my desire, and my intent is a long term relationship, hopefully leading to marriage with the RIGHT person this go around. Now, I am not a pushy type guy, I generally like to start, get to know one another, and see what develops and where it progresses to. Been in those situations where one or both tried to force the emotion, and it just did not end well. Yes, I have casual sex listed that "I'm looking for" section. Does that mean it is my ONLY intention, no. It simply means that I am open to that possibility as well as the rest. Chalk it up to "chemistry", sometimes it is there, and sometimes it is not! Again, it takes two people to make/build a relationship, only one to demolish it!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Same as anyone, I am living it as best as I can see fit. Huge on the golden rule thing. I treat others as I wish them to treat me.
I work in the IT Dept. for a medical billing company.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Fixing things. I resolve issues for a living. I am highly technical, good with my hands. Capable of doing majority of my own household, computer, and auto repair/maintenance! So, guess I am good at being a guy/man!?!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Never really asked.....I would imagine my face. Recently told that I have distracting blue eyes though. With me, it's not what you notice first that wins you over. It is what you discover as you get to know me for who I am.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Movies, I am all over the board. Almost any comedy by Mel Brooks, Most action movies, suspense lover here. Generally go for period correct history stuff too, big fan of the "based on a true story". Television, really big fan of "Almost Human", was a huge Burn Notice fan(thank you NetFlix, all seven seasons now available!!!), and enjoy some documentaries!
Net Flix has become my friend!
Musically, I favor anything that I can identify with, anything I can relate to. I just like things that speak to me personally. Radio surfer. Stations I jump to most are the KATT, KJ103, KJKE(JAKE FM), and 101.9(The Twister). The song I jump to most on my mp3's right now, Jerrod Niemann - Only God Could Love You More. Awesome song!!!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My God in Heaven above!
My daughter of course, she is my world!
My niece, who was almost like a daughter to me until I had one.
My great niece, the lil spitfire that she is
My very good friends, who keep me grounded, and offer good council.
And Zio's Chicken Parm....I swear, it is a gift from God!!!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Women, trying to understand the thinking process. And I believe I am ALMOST there, I just need a thousand more years!!!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either hanging with my kiddo having a blast doing whatever, or have started to hang out and karaoke some again lately! Summer time hits, I think the kiddo and I will start catching some of the summer concert series in Bricktown, if they do that this coming year.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am afraid of female pattern baldness!!! We all have at least one fear.... Just sayin'!
Okay, so maybe not so much afraid, just really weirded out!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you believe that I am worth the risk.
If you have looked at the numbers(match % and all). Match% somewhat important, but the 11 year old, she focuses mainly on the Enemy%, she favors 15% or less, me, I live on the edge!!! I say 20% or less. But hey, if you think you can beat statistics and the two of us make a go of it, I say let's try. Worst case, make a new friend!