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43 East Hartford, CT Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 3:31am
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body type
Graduated from masters program
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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So not happy to be internet dating! But since I'm here...
Eagerly anticipating out of doors. I feel like I've been in hibernation.
I enjoy the outdoors (camping, fires, walking/hiking,swimming, etc.), wooden roller coasters and animals. I don't like to stand around in the cold and since I am 100% Irish I'm not laying around in the sun in the summer. I don't really cook, but I can grill and I prefer yard work over housework any day :) I have been described at outdoorsy with a sci-fi/fantasy twist.
I am looking for a man comfortable with himself hopefully with diverse interests. Would prefer someone who lives nearby. You should be able to enjoy dressing up for the theater, getting muddy while hiking, walking through a city or getting lost on long drives. I would like to meet my significant other, someone to have good times and grow old with.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am ready to focus more on myself instead of work. Getting out more is the plan. I have a hard time doing things alone. Haven't taken a vacation in a while. I would like to use my passport and go snorkeling, soon.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Building backyard fires.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have green eyes and I fit in with all kinds of groups.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like to read science fiction and fantasy or historical fiction. Currently into the fantastic. I am on a "comic book" kick and saw the movies and spin-offs based off them; Avengers, Superman, X-Men, etc. I like all kinds of TV and music.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Forests and rainy nights, freshly made bed, pets, water, air
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Living in the future, traveling to different planets or being in medieval Europe. How the population and knowledge increases exponentially. How is all the stuff I put in the recycle bin really separated?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Life is never typical! I spend some of them with my 13 year-old nephew, others relaxing from the work week and still others...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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This is up for a later discussion....
You should message me if
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You are looking for someone to talk to and hang out with and I sound intriguing. You should be looking for the possibility of a serious relationship. NO games, be real.