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ArborApe

33 / M / Straight / Single

Ann Arbor, Michigan

His Details

Last Online
Sep 7, 2012
Ethnicity
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m).
Body Type
Thin
Diet
Smokes
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Cancer
Education
Graduated from med school
Job
Medicine / Health
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Recovering bookworm looking for female lead in his novel. Most likely a comedy. Might be a romance...

My parents brought me from Beijing to Buffalo and I brought my damn self to Ann Arbor. And then an arbitrary algorithm brought you to me...

I am a hopeful romantic. I am not a big drinker. I am a doctor, and if you guess my specialty I will psychoanalyze you for free. I dabble in trivia, harmonica, and modern art. I spend 2% of my pre-tax annual income on overdue library book fees. Another 8% is spent on coffee and tea, but you will never know my coffee shop of choice. And even if you find out, you will never know if I am talking about the Main Street or Kerrytown one! So HA!

I am a bit too humble to mention my keen wit, musical alacrity, and genuine integrity here. Why don't I just come clean and mention my faults before we get too far. I am not big into fashion (but can throw on a blazer if we are getting dinner or dessert). I have a poor sense of direction (but know how to operate my GPS). I am not the best at small talk (but I do not shy away from the stuff that really matters).

I guess, in the end, I am just another guy. Unless, of course, I end up being something more than that...
What I’m doing with my life
Occupationally, I split my time between seeing private patients, working in a reduced-fee clinic, and doing extended assessments at a facility that I am not at liberty to discuss at this time.

Socially, I enjoy going to movies and concerts and hosting theme parties with friends. The people I have met in Ann Arbor are why I am still here.

I like to play music and sing (either in a falsetto or Oscar the Grouch voice). If you have a name for my one man band, let me know.
I’m really good at
Singing and driving (but only alone and with the windows rolled up). According to my friends, I also happen to make the best brownies in the world.
The first things people usually notice about me
my height and esoteric band t-shirts.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
recent experiences in an order that not even I can't understand: Dirty Projectors, Beasts of the Southern Wild, Zingerman's Pop-In, The Art Institute of Chicago, Moonrise Kingdom, The Lumineers, Age of Insight, Metric, Take This Waltz, Are You My Mother? Radiohead concert at the palace, Safety Not Guaranteed, Stockyard Oatmeal Stout (after carefully sampling every beer stocked by Trader Joe's)
The six things I could never do without
Comfortable running shoes
Infiniti (car)
Infinity (number)
New Yorker cartoons
Michigan Theater Gold membership (it's like all-you-can-eat for movies)
Seasons
I spend a lot of time thinking about
whatever I am doing or just did. Right now I'm immersed in Where the Heart Beats about John Cage and Zen. Check out his 4'33; you have not heard anything else like it. Promise.
On a typical Friday night I am
sleeping. This is because I realized that it is much more interesting to go out on Mondays or Wednesdays or Sundays. Also, I usually have clinic on Saturday morning.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
is that I have a Nintento Wii and 50+ games.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you are fun and curious and want to meet someone new.