Okay lets start with the easy stuff. I am a 37 year old white male. I live in a house with a wife who is a saint for putting up with my crazy, our 2 kids, 4 cats, and 2 dogs. My marriage is an open marriage and I keep my wife informed of the people I see and very broadly the things that we do. I don't keep secrets from her and I'm not terribly interested in being someone's "dirty little secret" (besides while I'm dirty, I'm sure not little) I think successful relationships are based in trust and if I know you are violating someone trust with me, how can I trust you not to do the same?
I am not a small man. I am about 6 feet tall, fairly broad in the shoulders and too broad in the middle.Its something that I tell myself I need to work on, but I still eat like I'm 25 and don't get enough exercise. I drink some and smoke cigarettes, though I hope to transition to vaping soon.
I enjoy both the indoors and the outdoors though I don't have much time for a lot of outdoorsy stuff. I read voraciously and I often reread books that i enjoy. I prefer music playing over a quiet room. My current tastes are eclectic at best and I will go off on musical kicks for months at a time. My current kick is dubstep and glitch, but the only thing I won't listen to is 'new country'. I love working on my house, or anyone's house, I've done 75% of the repairs and improvements on my home myself.
I am an active member of my local kink and poly communities. In terms of kink I normally prefer to either service top or take on the role of sadist. I am sexually dominant and do not react well to a submissive role. My fetishes are varied and tend towards somewhat edgy practices. If you want details just ask.
Politically I am Liberal, in terms of religion I am an agnostic deist/anti-theist. I don't mind discussing politics but I don't like arguing about politics or religion. I am practicing attorney, trying to get/keep a solo family practice off the ground. I enjoy theatre (my undergraduate degree are in classics and theatre), modern dance, and live music. The visual arts leave me somewhat cold, and I am not a fan of any poetry that is less than 3 hundred years old.
I self identify as a gamer, including paper games, board games, card games and video games. I enjoy pool, but don't like darts. If I go to a new place the first place that I want to visit is the zoo, the next places are any non-art museums. I dislike snakes and clowns.
I am at a stage in my life where I frankly have no interest in emotionally chasing someone. Conversely I am at a stage in my life where I do enjoy physically chasing someone
I like to think that i am smarter than average. I like to think I am funny. I am quite possibly the weirdest person I know. My favorite color is slightly darker black, and my favorite flavor is butterscotch.
Hopefully, that at least starts to give you an idea, but I welcome questions, even inane ones.