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39 Tallahassee, FL Man


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  • Ages 24-45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 29
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
A little extra
Agnosticism and it’s important
Post grad
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
Has dogs and Has cats
English (Fluently), Latin (Somewhat), Ancient Greek (Somewhat), German (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
:tap tap: Is this thing on?

Okay lets start with the easy stuff. I am a 38 year old white male. I live in a house with a wife who is a saint for putting up with my crazy, our 2 kids, 4 cats, and 2 dogs. My marriage is an open marriage and I keep my wife informed of the people I see and very broadly the things that we do. I don't keep secrets from her and I'm not terribly interested in being someone's "dirty little secret" (besides while I'm dirty, I'm sure not little) I think successful relationships are based in trust and if I know you are violating someone trust with me, how can I trust you not to do the same?

I am not a small man. I am about 6 feet tall, fairly broad in the shoulders and too broad in the middle.Its something that I tell myself I need to work on, but I still eat like I'm 25 and don't get enough exercise. I drink some but I am trying my best to stop smoking cigarettes. I am currently using an e-cigarette pretty heavily, but its working.

I enjoy both the indoors and the outdoors though I don't have much time for a lot of outdoorsy stuff. I read voraciously and I often reread books that I enjoy. I prefer music playing over a quiet room. My current tastes are eclectic at best and I will go off on musical kicks for months at a time. My current kick is dubstep and glitch, but the only thing I won't listen to is 'new country'. I love working on my house, or anyone's house, I've done 75% of the repairs and improvements on my home myself.

I am an active member of my local kink and poly communities. In terms of kink I normally prefer to either service top or take on the role of sadist. I am sexually dominant and do not react well to a submissive role. My fetishes are varied and tend towards somewhat edgy practices. If you want details just ask.

Politically I am Liberal, in terms of religion I am an agnostic deist/anti-theist. I don't mind discussing politics but I don't like arguing about politics or religion. I am practicing attorney, trying to get/keep a solo family practice off the ground. I enjoy theatre (my undergraduate degree are in classics and theatre), modern dance, and live music. The visual arts leave me somewhat cold, and I am not a fan of any poetry that is less than three hundred years old.

I self identify as a gamer, including paper games, board games, card games and video games. I enjoy pool, but don't like darts. If I go to a new place the first place that I want to visit is the zoo, the next places are any non-art museums. I dislike snakes and clowns.

I am at a stage in my life where I frankly have no interest in emotionally chasing someone. Conversely I am at a stage in my life where I do enjoy physically chasing someone

I like to think that I am smarter than average. I like to think I am funny. I am also not too proud to admit that I may be neither as funny nor as smart as I like to think that I am. I am quite possibly the weirdest person I know. My favorite color is slightly darker black, and my favorite flavor is butterscotch.

Hopefully, that at least starts to give you an idea, but I welcome questions, even inane ones.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Well, mostly I'm trying to keep moving forward. I am trying to make it through the first few years of getting a business off the ground. I am trying to be as good a parent as I can be. I am trying to break some old habits and maybe form some new ones and get myself in better physical shape than I am in now.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Putting my foot directly in my mouth
Figuring out solutions to tangible problems
Following interesting recipes
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I wish I could think of something witty to say here, but what I imagine people notice first is that I am big. I am tall, broad, and heavier than I should be. After that its probably either the beard (brown going gray) or the hair (also brown going gray.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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1. The Rise and Fall of the Lord of the Rings
2. Anything by Jim Butcher
3. Anything by David Weber
4. The Riverside Shakespeare
5. Anything relating to Mythologies

1. Rollerball (the remake)
2. Dodgeball
3. The first 3 Star Wars Movies
4. The Jungle Book
5. The original Die Hard

1. Mythbusters
2. Phineas and Ferb
3. Archer
4. Bones
5. Scrubs

1. Obsidia
2. Arion
3. Modestep
4. The Crystal Method
5. The Chemical Brothers

1. Sushi
2. Tex-Mex
3. Indian
4. American Southern
5. German
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My Partner
2. My Kids
3. At least 1 cat
4. Music
5. A bit of adventure
6. My tools
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
I spend most of my brain time on fairly normal things; family, work, etc. In the remaining time currently I have been thinking a lot about how I define my flavor of poly, how to be more artistic with rope, and what I really want to do to enhance my life.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Generally hanging out with friends, playing some sort of game, and most likely having a couple of drinks.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a fascination with electricity. The smell, the feel (there are ways to do it safely), the taste (once again safety third), it just does things for and to me. I also play with fire, and while enjoyable, its just not the same. I will also almost compulsively take internet tests...
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