Okay lets start with the easy stuff. I am a 40 year old white male. I live in a house with a wife who is a saint for putting up with my crazy, our 2 kids, 4 cats, and 2 dogs. My marriage is an open marriage and I keep my wife informed of the people I see and very broadly the things that we do. I don't keep secrets from her and I'm not terribly interested in being someone's "dirty little secret" (besides while I'm dirty, I'm sure not little) I think successful relationships are based in trust and if I know you are violating someone trust with me, how can I trust you not to do the same?
I am not a small man. I am about 6 feet tall, fairly broad in the shoulders and too broad in the middle.Its something that I tell myself I need to work on, but I still eat like I'm 25 and don't get enough exercise. I drink some but I was finally successful in quitting nicotine and have been smoke free for a year.
I enjoy both the indoors and the outdoors though I don't have much time for a lot of outdoorsy stuff. I read voraciously and I often reread books that I enjoy. I prefer music playing over a quiet room. My current tastes are eclectic at best and I will go off on musical kicks for months at a time. My current kick is dubstep and glitch, but the only thing I won't listen to is 'new country'. I love working on my house, or anyone's house, I've done 75% of the repairs and improvements on my home myself.
I am an active member of my local kink and poly communities. I identify as a top and my interests varied and tend towards somewhat edgy practices. If you want details just ask.
Politically I am Liberal, in terms of religion I am an agnostic deist/anti-theist. I don't mind discussing politics but I don't like arguing about politics or religion. I am practicing attorney, trying to get/keep a solo family practice off the ground. I enjoy theatre (my undergraduate degree are in classics and theatre), modern dance, and live music. The visual arts leave me somewhat cold, and I am not a fan of any poetry that is less than three hundred years old.
I self identify as a gamer, including paper games, board games, card games and video games. I enjoy pool, but don't like darts. If I go to a new place the first place that I want to visit is the zoo, the next places are any non-art museums. I dislike snakes and clowns.
I am at a stage in my life where I frankly have no interest in emotionally chasing someone. Conversely I am at a stage in my life where I do enjoy physically chasing someone
I like to think that I am smarter than average. I like to think I am funny. I am also not too proud to admit that I may be neither as funny nor as smart as I like to think that I am. I am quite possibly the weirdest person I know. My favorite color is slightly darker black, and my favorite flavor is butterscotch.
Hopefully, that at least starts to give you an idea, but I welcome questions, even inane ones.
Figuring out solutions to tangible problems
Following interesting recipes
1. The Rise and Fall of the Lord of the Rings
2. Anything by Jim Butcher
3. Anything by David Weber
4. The Riverside Shakespeare
5. Anything relating to Mythologies
1. Rollerball (the remake)
3. The first 3 Star Wars Movies
4. The Jungle Book
5. The original Die Hard
2. Phineas and Ferb
4. The Crystal Method
5. The Chemical Brothers
4. American Southern
2. My Kids
3. At least 1 cat
5. A bit of adventure
6. My tools