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29 M Berkeley, CA

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Black, Hispanic / Latin
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
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Mostly vegetarian
Working on masters program
Science / Engineering
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English, Spanish (Okay), French (Poorly)

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My self-summary
"A detached, observant, and indifferent man. I am constantly under scrutiny by the society that surrounds me...that is okay....Don't walk behind me; I may not lead. Don't walk in front of me; I may not follow" -- TBD (if you know the author please share so i can give proper credit)

I am not one to commonly use a quote for personal introduction, but this one aptly illustrates my persona as an artist, an architectural designer, and an engineer. Thus, translating into an imaginative, intransigent, and introspective individual.

I am an extrovertible introvert who has a insatiable drive toward pushing boundaries - ha, bs right? My actions prove it; my profession substantiates it; my profile provides the inference.

And I do have faults: I delve too much into detail, think too much, and sometimes the big pictures escapes me.
What I’m doing with my life
I am a graduate student in architecture and structural engineering at UC-Berkeley (M.Arch|MS program). In other words, I don't sleep much for 9 months of the year. As of now, I've completed the M.Arch (5|2014) and will finish the MS in a year.

This summer I'll be working in SF for an A|E firm doing design| material research| structural analysis on prefab, modular prototypes. In other words, the dyson|ikea of architecture: putting the product in the ark of design one damn component at a time....."from the feet up".

For shits and gigs, I do contract work. At the moment, I work with an architect in Oakland on two projects: one is in San Pablo; the other is in Mt Shasta.
I’m really good at
Design: anything

Controlling emotion

Self awareness and social environs: I need to as to not draw too much attention to my indifferent ways.

Being an aberration

Reading people: especially while engaged in conversation.

Public speaking, engaging crowds, and all that business..
The first things people usually notice about me
- I am always - I MEAN ALWAYS - listening to music. Feel free to send me new bands and/or songs that align with my preferences.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Fountainhead*; We The Living; The Giver; Anything related to Engineering-n-Architecture; Mother Night; Player Piano; Hocus Pocus; Bathroom Reader volumes; gibberish

Movies: Too many to name...Anything Horror, Thriller, Sci-Fi, Documentary, Animation, Mind-bending, Cerebral, Dark (Clearly, I am into Netflix) and/or combo of all the aforementioned. But if you must know a few: Drive, The Machinist, The Fountain, Old boy, I Saw the Devil, Bronson, Zenith, etc..

Musicians: Fools Gold; LCD sound system; The Clash; Depeche Mode; Phil Collins; Foreigner; George Michael; Aruna; Marc Etson; Passive progressive; Delphic; Black keys; MGMT; Temper Trap; STP; Alice n Chains; Armin Van Buuren; Nic Chagall; Arcade Fire; PJ Harvey; Beirut; Cave singers; Tears for fears; Pet shop boys; Santigold; Deadmau5; Mike Snow; Radiohead; William Fitzsimmons; 16 Bit Lolitas; Yeasayers; Matisyahu (possibly misspelled); Cosmic Gate; Matt Zo; Ferry Corsten; Lady Gaga; The Xx; Massive Attack; Muse; The Knife; Interpol; Graffiti6, Placebo, My Morning Jacket, Canibus, Above&Beyond, Cut Copy, Other Lives, Empire of the sun, Washed out, College, NASA, NERO, M83, Chromatic, Junkie XL, Tanlines, Geographer, Twin Shadow, Florence + the Machine, Empire of the Sun, Enya, Classical, and many be cont'd

Shows: TEDtalks; Parks & Recreation; Curb your enthusiasm; Fringe, BSG, Dexter, X Files, Supernatural, Revolution...

I also like to observe people in a subtle manner..
The six things I could never do without
The obvious: water, sunlight, and food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
my portfolio and skillset (75% of the time); the real meaning of life; philosophy; music; books that are conducive to enhancing one's quality of being, intelligence, passion, etc; computational/parametric design; BIM; the realization that society is at the precipice of a dramatic change due to tech, and how this affects my personal endeavors...

All the aforementioned can be, and most often is, coalesced into one paradoxical mindset regarding my existence in the design industry: to differentiate, optimize, and develop a niche, yet continually adapt, evolve, and maintain general awareness to avoid being lost in specialization.

The inventions, designs, and technological breakthroughs presented in TEDTalks, and how I can reach that level in my profession.

A small portion of my mind focuses on the inevitable...

On whether I have any intention on pursuing someone on this site or do I just like to look at profiles. I am inquisitive.

What is the fixation of sociopathic behavior these days, when I feel everyone in some way contains traits associated to the condition. Just another fact that society as a whole is illogical and ridiculous with one exception, of course.
On a typical Friday night I am
Everywhere and nowhere - the paradox of life.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
A small piece of me dies when a woman does not respond to one of my okc messages. Most of the time - emphasis on most - I try to start a dialogue with a charming and respectful introduction: I begin with an elegant depiction of my obsession, perhaps fetish, with the goosebumps collection, ayn rand, manson, and BDSM, then ease right into their thoughts on the advancements in dentistry, surgery, and psychiatry.

I know -- I am nonplussed by this as well.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you want....

I won't bite unless evoked.