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30 Berkeley, CA Man


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  • Ages 25–35
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  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

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Black, Hispanic / Latin
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Graduated from masters program
Science / Engineering
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English, Spanish (Okay), French (Poorly), C++ (Okay), Other (Okay)
My self-summary
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"A detached, observant, and indifferent man. I am constantly under scrutiny by the society that surrounds me...that is okay....Don't walk behind me; I may not lead. Don't walk in front of me; I may not follow" -- Influenced by Albert Camus|George Sand

The quote represents my identity as an artist, a designer, and an engineer, whichs translates into an imaginative, intransigent, and introspective individual.

As an extrovertible introvert, I prefer to observe, then act accordingly or not at all. I don't judge; I don't care enough. I am more than willing to help others in need, but nothing of humanity will leave me shocked or saddened. Admittedly, I'm hypersensitive but equally as stoic: I filter most things out, but it doesn't preclude the initial awareness. Experience and observation have somewhat desensitized my expectations toward society. You may think this is negative, but it's quite the opposite: the eyes of a sentient, yet quixotic realist.

I am very passionate towards a few things. You will find out as you read further.

Ok. I'll tell you one: MUSIC. I'll periodically post songs that I like:

||| Broods -- bridges.
|| MS MR -- hurricane.

I have faults....

I was born and raised in south jersey where "only the strong survive"....and eventually leave, ha.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work on R&D projects for an early-stage SF A|E|C firm doing design| material research| structural analysis on prefab, modular prototypes. In other words, the dyson|ikea of architecture. I can't say much more about it.

I co-teach two courses in structures for architecture grads and undergrads at CAL.

I do contract work. At the moment, I work with an architect in Oakland on two projects: one is in San Pablo; the other is in Mt Shasta.

If you didn't deduce from the info above my background is in compsci, architecture, and structural engineering from Cal and Lehigh university.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being incredibly good at everything, then messing it up, only to do it all again, with perfection effortlessly. It's a cycle, it's incessant; it's absurdly conducive to the stimulation of my cerebellum. It's also half truth/half joke to highlight the narcissistic perspective of this section.
The first things people usually notice about me
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- I am always - I MEAN ALWAYS - listening to music. Feel free to send me new bands and/or songs that align with my preferences
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Fountainhead*| We The Living| The Giver| Quiet: The Power of Introverts in a World That Can't Stop Talking| Engineering/Architecture/Industrial[Product] design material| Mother Night| Player Piano| Hocus Pocus| Bathroom Reader volumes| gibberish

I am looking for highly cerebral books on the human psyche and interaction coupled with a philosophical undertone. Now, this hybrid genre may not exist, ha, but I'm in pursuit. I need to venture out and diversify from my inundation of design and engineering literature. If you know of any, please share.

Movies: Too many to name...Anything Horror, Thriller, Sci-Fi, Documentary, Animation, Mind-bending, Cerebral, Dark (Clearly, I am into Netflix) and/or combo of all the aforementioned. But if you must know a few: Drive| The Machinist| The Fountain| Old boy| I Saw the Devil| Bronson| Zenith| Coherence | The signal.

Musicians: Fools Gold; LCD sound system| The Clash| Depeche Mode| Phil Collins| Foreigner| George Michael| Aruna| Marc Etson| Passive progressive| Delphic| Black keys| MGMT| Temper Trap| STP| Alice n Chains| Armin Van Buuren| Nic Chagall|Arcade Fire| PJ Harvey| Beirut| Cave singers| Tears for fears| Pet shop boys| Santigold| Deadmau5| Mike Snow| Radiohead| William Fitzsimmons| 16 Bit Lolitas| Yeasayers| Matisyahu (possibly misspelled)| Cosmic Gate| Matt Zo| Ferry Corsten| The Xx| Massive Attack| Muse| The Knife| Interpol| Graffiti6| Placebo| My Morning Jacket| Canibus| Above&Beyond| Empire of the sun| Washed out| College| NASA| NERO| M83| Chromatic| Junkie XL| Tanlines| Geographer| Twin Shadow| Florence + the Machine| Empire of the Sun| Enya| Classical| Claire| Brood| ODESZA| and many be cont'd

Shows: TEDtalks| Parks & Recreation| Curb your enthusiasm| Fringe| BSG| Dexter| X Files| Supernatural| Revolution | Reality: people watching...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
The obvious: water, sunlight, and food
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
my portfolio and skillset (75% of the time); the real meaning of life; philosophy; music; books that are conducive to enhancing one's quality of being, intelligence, passion, etc; computational/parametric design; BIM; the realization that society is at the precipice of a dramatic change due to tech, and how this affects my personal endeavors...

All the aforementioned can be, and most often is, coalesced into one paradoxical mindset regarding my existence in the design industry: to differentiate, optimize, and develop a niche, yet continually adapt, evolve, and maintain general awareness to avoid being lost in specialization.

The inventions, designs, and technological breakthroughs presented in TEDTalks, and how I can reach that level in my profession.

A small portion of my mind focuses on the inevitable...

On whether I have any intention on pursuing someone on this site or do I just like to look at profiles.

From corporate financier or attorney, socialite, surgeon, criminal, cop to social worker, doctor, nurse, or teacher, regardless of the nature of one's character portrayed in their profile, priorities, and profession, one thing incessantly remains the same: all is fair in love and war.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Everywhere and nowhere - the paradox of life.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I was obsessed with MIB, conspiracies, majestic-12, and Area 51 as a kid. Surprisingly during that time I was adept at CSS, html, and JavaScript to create my own MIB headquarters with 50 followers. Hey, nowadays with Twitter, Instagram , etc that's not a big deal right, but this was the AOL period and I composed individual missions and storylines for all 50 members, giving orders, etc. It was awesome.

More likely than not, I'm surfing Okc during moments of inactivity.
You should message me if
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you want...I won't bite, unless evoked.

you have athletic, fit, and or jacked to describe your physique. It is obvious that personality, intelligence, and commonalities are the more salient qualities to any meaningful relationship, but that combination should evince a desire for perfection in all areas that are of interest to you. What is of more interest then your own body?