NOTE: I am Poly, and currently in an open relationship with nightsnowfall

Feminist. LGBTQ Ally & Member. Sherlock Fangirl. Tumblrite. RPGer. Smithie (hiatus). Hufflepuff/Slytherin. Fannibal. Whovian. People Person. Poly. Peace Keeper. Academic. Anglophile. Secular Humanist. BPAL enthusiast. Skeptic. Secret Southerner.

My virtue is Charity, and my vice is Sloth.
I'm a developed ENFP with a past history of being an ENFJ/INFJ.
I'm easy going, enthusiastic, and a herder of drama llamas.
I'm silly and sometimes a bit of a space cadet.
I'm cuddly and affectionate.
I'm very, very, very tactile. Add more very's at your own discretion.
I utilize the spoon theory.
I really enjoy science and maths, but I have recently discovered I'm more suited to humanities. Rather put a wrinkle in my plans to be an Astrophysicist, that. I dabble in everything and love most of it.
I love to listen to people talk about subjects they love.
I like to bake cookies when I'm angry, or run or dance.
I collect stones, small boxes, figurines, and plastic dinosaurs and arrange them very precisely on top of my bureau.
I like to build myself nests out of blankets and pillows and sit in them all day on the computer.
I love RPGs/LARP and have been a GM (Changeling: The Lost, Dark Heresy, Earth Dawn, and a funky home-brew version of Vampire: The Masquerade are the systems I am familiar with).
I'm a nerd and a geek and occasionally a dork.
I'm a Biromantic(?) Pansexual Polyamorous Switch.
I have a Fetlife Profile that can tell you a lot about me that isn't standard OKC material. (currently inactive awaiting edits)

Here's what I sound like! (video a little dated and I've moved around a bit since, but mostly still true!)

Studying Marketing and Computer Information Systems at Oakton Community College (because there needs to be more people who can translate between PR-speak and tech-speak!), spending time with the array of strange people I call friends, doing what I can to keep myself in a good place mentally and physically, doing freelance IT work, and generally wearing my Responsible Adult disguise more frequently than I used to. But don't worry, I still give myself plenty of breaks. ;)

Procrastinating, cleaning, listening to people, talking, being compassionate without babying people or putting up with wangsting, compromising with others, moderating disagreements, taking care of people, and enjoying being around people without necessarily doing anything.

Oh. I forgot cuddling. I'm very, very good at cuddling with my friends.

I don't really know, since I'm not other people. But people tend to comment on my abnormally tiny hands a lot.

Books: books by H.P. Lovecraft, Maria V. Snyder, Philip Pullman, Tamora Pierce, J.R.R. Tolkien, Shakespeare ; Harry Potter, The Devil's Right Hand, Dead Man Rising, Universe in a Nutshell, War of the Worlds, Night, Kaffir Boy, Hitch-Hiker's Guide to the Galaxy, The Giver, Everworld, Ender's Game, Dune.

Movies/Shows: Let Me In, Underworld, Run Lola Run, Fifth Element, Serenity/Firefly, Monty Python and the Holy Grail, Princess Bride, Much Ado About Nothing, Shakespeare in Love, Harry Potter and the Philosopher's Stone, Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets, Avatar, My Neighbor Totoro, Spirited Away, Howl's Moving Castle, Sherlock BBC, Hannibal (NBC), Mythbusters, NCIS, Ghost Hunters International, Good Eats, Diners, Drive-Ins & Dives, Music Core, Inkigayo, God's Quiz, Answer Me 1997, Joy of Painting (with Bob Ross), Doctor Who, Anything by Paula Deen, Soccer/Football of any kind, anything watched with My Best Friend in the Whole World.

Music: Linkin Park, Panic! At the Disco, Super Junior,System of a Down, Dead on Both Shoulders, 30 Seconds to Mars, Apocolyptica, Rammstein, Chet Baker, Maroon 5,Basshunter, Krishna Das, t.A.T.u, Ffynnon, Marina and the Diamonds, BIGBANG, B.A.P, F(x), 2Yoon, SISTAR19, Super Junior, SHINee, M-flo, Faun, Celtic Women, O-zone, Iron Maiden, Vibrasphere, Shelia Chandra, Native American Flute, Renaissance music, most Ethnic and Classical, General top 40s, most things not in English.

Food: Simple, homey foods done well; Most any kind of noodles; Strawberries, but really most fruits in general; Coffee Krisps; Twizzlers; Chocolate covered potato chips; Marzipan; Hob Nobs; Shortbread cookies; Gelato; Pad Thai; Potstickers; Strawberry bubble tea; Garlic Bread; Corn on the Cob; Avocado BLTs; Indian; Ethiopian; Spicy anything; Baci (it's an Italian chocolate); My mum's cranberry sauce; Stuffing and gravy; sweet tea.

Music, the internet, cuddle-friendly people, debate and discussion, hoodies, and tea.

Ethics. Academics. Popular culture, social dynamics and how those affect our lives. Relationships between people and the affection gradient, i.e. whether or not there is and where is the location of the divide between friends and more than friends. Romance, and whether it's realistic. My friends. Music and how it shapes things. RPGs/LARPs and the people involved. Fanfiction and Fandom. Sex and sensuality. The BDSM Scene and the beauty of the experiences explored therein. Dominance and Submission. Why expressing friendly affection physically is strange for most people. What I want out of my education and my life in general. My Cello. How to get my dream job of working for Google. Korean Fancy Dancing Boys (and Girls).

Spending time with a few good friends, or watching one of my favourite shows on my computer. Or reading scandalous, ultra-nerdy things on the internet. (i.e., fanfiction. Anyone want to talk Johnlock, Snarry or Doctor/Rose Tyler with me? Let us squee together about our OTPs!)

I'm rather Rubenesque and self-conscious about it, but I'm trying really hard to accept my body the way it is.

I struggle with mental illness. I have it well in control and I am overall a happy functioning person. However, there can be days when I'm too depressed to move, and my ADHD means I can be a space cadet and/or flake. Also, if restless legs drive you batty, we probably won't get along.

I have ridiculously high-standards (in spite of being short, round, and rather strange)

I want to be part of a relationship with a person or people who love me and support me as I strive to accomplish my goals in life.

You are part of a Female/Male or Male/Male couple and would like to add a third person to your relationship as a ROMANTIC PARTNER. No casual sex/swingers offers please.

^note on above: Does not mean I don't want messages from single folks as well! If you're interested and think we'd be a good match, go for it!

You're equally content to just sit and talk and to go on adventures. I don't really enjoy going out on strictly traditional dates, actually. I want to spend time with you and get to see different parts of your personality, not go and sit in a dark room at a movie theatre and not interact with each other.

We have 80% or greater match.

You can type and speak in complete, grammatically correct sentences and can get the right spelling at least most of the time.

You have something intelligent, interesting, and participatory to ask or discuss with me. Let me know you've actually looked at my profile.

You are The Doctor and want to take me to see the universe in your TARDIS.

You are okay with the fact that sometimes I'm polyamorous, and either understand why or are at least willing to try and learn/understand. (Note: does not mean our relationship has to be poly. I can and have done monogamous too. I just need a partner who understands that poly isn't morally inferior)

You are open-minded about and possibly interested in BDSM and/or kink.

You like your women intelligent and Rubenesque.

You're at home with the geeky, the nerdy, and the unusual.