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22 F Evanston, IL

My Details

Last Online
Apr 14
5′ 3″ (1.61m)
Body Type
Full figured
Mostly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Okay), Sign Language (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Feminist. LGBTQIA Ally & Member. Sherlock Fangirl. Tumblrite. RPGer. Hufflepuff/Slytherin. Fannibal. Whovian. Introverted People Person. Disabled. Neurodiverse. Poly. Peace Keeper. Academic. Anglophile. BPAL enthusiast. Skeptic. Secret Southerner.

My virtue is Charity, and my vice is Sloth.
I'm an INFJ.
I'm silly and sometimes a bit of a space cadet.
I'm cuddly and affectionate.
I'm very, very, very tactile. Add more very's at your own discretion.
I utilize the spoon theory.
I love to learn things. I dabble in everything and love most of it.
I love to listen to people talk about subjects they love.
I like to bake cookies when I'm angry, or run or dance.
I collect stones, small boxes, figurines, and plastic dinosaurs and arrange them very precisely on top of my bureau.
I like to build myself nests out of blankets and pillows and sit in them all day on the computer.
I love RPGs/LARP and have been a GM (Changeling: The Lost, Dark Heresy, Earth Dawn, and a funky home-brew version of Vampire: The Masquerade are the systems I am familiar with).
I'm a nerd and a geek and occasionally a dork.
I'm a panromantic hetroflexible/grey-asexual polyamorous switch.
What I’m doing with my life
Spending time with the array of strange people I call friends, doing what I can to keep myself in a good place mentally and physically, doing freelance IT work, and spending an excessive amount of time on tumblr/the internets in general.
I’m really good at
Procrastinating, not answering my phone, cleaning, listening to people, talking, being compassionate without babying people or putting up with wangsting, compromising with others, moderating disagreements, taking care of people, and enjoying being around people without necessarily doing anything.

Oh. I forgot cuddling. I'm very, very good at cuddling with my friends.
The first things people usually notice about me
I don't really know, since I'm not other people. But people tend to comment on my abnormally tiny hands a lot.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: books by H.P. Lovecraft, Maria V. Snyder, Philip Pullman, Tamora Pierce, J.R.R. Tolkien, Shakespeare ; Harry Potter, The Devil's Right Hand, Dead Man Rising, Universe in a Nutshell, War of the Worlds, Night, Kaffir Boy, Hitch-Hiker's Guide to the Galaxy, The Giver, Everworld, Ender's Game, Dune.

Movies/Shows: Let Me In, Contact, Underworld, Run Lola Run, Fifth Element, Serenity/Firefly, Monty Python and the Holy Grail, Princess Bride, Much Ado About Nothing, Shakespeare in Love, Harry Potter and the Philosopher's Stone, Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets, Avatar, My Neighbor Totoro, Spirited Away, Howl's Moving Castle, Sherlock BBC, Hannibal (NBC), Elementary, Sleepy Hollow, Mythbusters, NCIS, Ghost Hunters International, Good Eats, Diners, Drive-Ins & Dives, Music Core, Inkigayo, God's Quiz, Answer Me 1997, Joy of Painting (with Bob Ross), Doctor Who, Soccer/Football of any kind.
Music: Linkin Park, Panic! At the Disco, Super Junior,System of a Down, Dead on Both Shoulders, 30 Seconds to Mars, Apocolyptica, Orla Gartland, Chet Baker, Maroon 5,Basshunter, Krishna Das, t.A.T.u, Ffynnon, Marina and the Diamonds, BIGBANG, B.A.P, F(x), 2Yoon, SISTAR19, Super Junior, SHINee, M-flo, Faun, Celtic Women, O-zone, Iron Maiden, Vibrasphere, Shelia Chandra, Native American Flute, Renaissance music, most Ethnic and Classical, General top 40s, most things not in English.

Food: Simple, homey foods done well; Most any kind of noodles; Strawberries, but really most fruits in general; Coffee Krisps; Twizzlers; Chocolate covered potato chips; Marzipan; Hob Nobs; Shortbread cookies; Gelato; Pad Thai; Potstickers; Strawberry bubble tea; Garlic Bread; Corn on the Cob; Avocado BLTs; Indian; Ethiopian; Spicy anything; Baci (it's an Italian chocolate); My mum's cranberry sauce; Stuffing and gravy; sweet tea.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Languages. Ethics. Academics. Popular culture, social dynamics and how those affect our lives. Relationships between people and my tendancy towards Queerplatonic friendships. Romance, and whether it's realistic. My friends. Music and how it shapes things. RPGs/LARPs and the people involved. Fanfiction and Fandom. Tumblr. The BDSM Scene and the beauty of the experiences explored therein. Dominance and Submission. What I want out of my education and my life in general. My Cello.
On a typical Friday night I am
At my friend's apartment having fun and reclaiming it from bachelor-levels of squalor. If not that, then tumbling, watching one of my favourite shows on my computer, or reading scandalous, ultra-nerdy things on the internet. (i.e., fanfiction. Anyone want to talk Johnlock, Snarry, Hannigram, or Doctor/Rose Tyler with me? Let us squee together about our OTPs!)

((It's a very exciting, extroverted life I lead, obviously.))
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm rather Rubenesque and self-conscious about it, but I'm trying really hard to accept my body the way it is.

I struggle with mental illness. There can be days when I'm too depressed to move, and my ADHD means I can be a space cadet and/or flake. Also, if restless legs drive you batty, we probably won't get along.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 20–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends
You should message me if
You're equally content to just sit and talk and to go on adventures. I don't really enjoy going out on strictly traditional dates, actually. I want to spend time with you and get to see different parts of your personality, not go and sit in a dark room at a movie theatre and not interact with each other.

We have 80% or greater match.

You can type and speak in complete, grammatically correct sentences and can get the right spelling at least most of the time. If you message me using chat speak, I won't answer.

You have something intelligent, interesting, and participatory to ask or discuss with me. Let me know you've actually looked at my profile.

You are The Doctor and want to take me to see the universe in your TARDIS.

You are okay with the fact that sometimes I'm polyamorous, and either understand why or are at least willing to try and learn/understand. (Note: does not mean our relationship has to be poly. I can and have done monogamous too. I just need a partner who understands that poly isn't morally inferior)

You are experienced with BDSM and/or kink and are looking for a switch-leaning-towards-submissive.

You like your women intelligent and Rubenesque.

You're at home with the geeky, the nerdy, and the unusual.