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23 Evanston, IL Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 20–40
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 4:25pm
5′ 3″ (1.61m)
Body Type
Full figured
Mostly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Libra, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Okay), Sign Language (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Feminist. Grey-ace Kinsey 2 panromantic person*. Hufflepuff/Slytherin. Whovian. Fannibal. Mythbuster. Ms. Frizzle Wanna-Be. People Person. Kinky. Resident Know-it-All. Skeptic. Insomniac. Secret Southerner. Second Alto. BPAL enthusiast. A person who spends way too much time on the internet.

*translation: only sexually attracted to people every once in a while, mostly but not entirely heterosexual, experiences romantic feelings towards people without regard to their genders.

My virtue is Charity, and my vice is Sloth.
I'm an INFJ.
I'm silly and serious and a bit of a space cadet.
I'm cuddly and affectionate.
I love to learn things, any things. And then tell you all about them.
I love to listen to people talk about subjects they love, and then have long debates and discussions about it.
I like to watch movies and TV as an activity, and babble about camera angles and microexpressions.
I like to build myself nests out of blankets and pillows and sit in them all day on the computer.
I'm a nerd and a geek and occasionally a dork.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to watch a lifetime's worth of culturally significant films and TV shows, and lots of sci-fi/fantasy series and crime procedural dramas. Spending time with my partners bortar_lesarb and Catharsiscomes. Cuddling my five kitties and walking pups for a part-time living. Collecting beautiful squishes. Having passionate discussions about accepting and understanding the complexity of our universe.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Procrastinating, not answering my phone, cleaning (but not my own bedroom), listening to people, being a know-it-all, talking, being compassionate without babying people or putting up with wangsting, compromising with others, moderating disagreements, calling people out, taking care of people, and enjoying being around people without necessarily doing anything.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I don't really know, since I'm not other people. But people tend to comment on my abnormally tiny hands a lot.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: books by H.P. Lovecraft, Maria V. Snyder, Philip Pullman, Tamora Pierce, J.R.R. Tolkien, Shakespeare ; Harry Potter, The Devil's Right Hand, Dead Man Rising, Universe in a Nutshell, War of the Worlds, Night, Kaffir Boy, Hitch-Hiker's Guide to the Galaxy, The Giver, Everworld, Ender's Game, Dune.

Movies/Shows: Let Me In, Contact, Underworld, Run Lola Run, Fifth Element, Serenity/Firefly, Monty Python and the Holy Grail, Princess Bride, Much Ado About Nothing, Shakespeare in Love, Harry Potter and the Philosopher's Stone, Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets, Avatar, My Neighbor Totoro, Spirited Away, Howl's Moving Castle, Sherlock BBC, Hannibal (NBC), Elementary, Sleepy Hollow, Mythbusters, NCIS, Ghost Hunters International, Good Eats, Jamie Oliver (any of his shows), Music Core, Inkigayo, God's Quiz, Answer Me 1997, Joy of Painting (with Bob Ross), Doctor Who, Soccer/Football of any kind.
Music: Linkin Park, Panic! At the Disco, System of a Down, Dead on Both Shoulders, 30 Seconds to Mars, Apocolyptica, Orla Gartland, Chet Baker, Maroon 5,Basshunter, Krishna Das, t.A.T.u, Ffynnon, Marina and the Diamonds, BIGBANG, B.A.P, F(x), 2Yoon, SISTAR19, Super Junior, SHINee, M-flo, Faun, Celtic Women, O-zone, Iron Maiden, Vibrasphere, Shelia Chandra, Native American Flute, Renaissance music, most Ethnic and Classical, General top 40s, most things not in English.

Food: Simple, homey foods done well; Most any kind of noodles; Strawberries, but really most fruits in general; Coffee Krisps; Twizzlers; Chocolate covered potato chips; Marzipan; Hob Nobs; Shortbread cookies; Gelato; Pad Thai; Potstickers; Strawberry bubble tea; Garlic Bread; Corn on the Cob; Avocado BLTs; Indian; Ethiopian; Spicy anything; Baci (it's an Italian chocolate); My mum's cranberry sauce; Stuffing and gravy; sweet tea.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Languages. Ethics. Academics. Popular culture, social dynamics and how those affect our lives. Sociolinguistics. Music and how it shapes things. Fanfiction and Fandom. Tumblr. Kink and its infinite possibilities. What I want out of my education and my life in general. All the awesome books I need to read. How fucking awesome science is. Abusing parentheses (because making snarky and/or informative asides is my favourite). My cello, choir, music, and the other passions I've let atrophy over the course of my personal eons.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Sometimes I'm spending time bickering good-naturedly with my friends. Otherwise, watching one of my favourite shows on my computer (and screaming about the subtleties of characterization and cinematography on tumblr), playing neopets, or reading scandalous, ultra-nerdy things on the internet. (i.e., fanfiction. Anyone want to talk Johnlock, Snarry, Hannigram, or Doctor/Rose Tyler with me? Let us squee together about our OTPs!). Usually this includes snuggling with one of my--no, I'm not exaggerating or joking--five cats.

((It's a very exciting, extroverted life I lead, obviously.))
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I get really nervous about messaging people. I'll usually "like" someone and then look at their profile twenty times plus before figuring out what to say to such an obviously cool person.

ADHD, Depression, and Anxiety are the arch-enemies that invade my brain and require me to fight brain wars occasionally.
You should message me if
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You want to get together to drink wine/tea/coffee and get excited about substantive topics.

We have 80% or greater match.

You want to cuddle on the couch while watching Metropolis or a Hitchcock marathon.

You'd like to take me to the zoo, a museum, a music concert (of most any genre, but I have a special fondness for classical, ethnic, and jazz), or theatre (especially of the shakespearean variety, and/or involving puppetry).

You have something intelligent, interesting, and participatory to ask or discuss with me. Let me know you've actually looked at my profile.

You are The Doctor and want to take me to see the universe in your TARDIS. I am an astronomy geek, no way I'm missing out on that.

You're at home with the geeky, the nerdy, and the unusual.