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Are_We_Afraid

37 / M / Straight / Seeing someone

Portland, Oregon

His Details

Last Online
Feb 9
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m).
Body Type
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Virgo but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Income
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
I just moved to Portland last summer to be with my girlfriend. I'm a bit of a bookworm who likes to jump off cliffs and play in water (liquid or frozen), go hiking, camping and backpacking. I love to dance to 80's, goth and industrial. I'd like to take some ballroom and swing classes, tube down the clackamas and go snowboarding in the near future. I'm also looking for swimming holes and places to go cliff jumping.

(It has come to my attention that some people are not familiar with cliff jumping. For enlightenment click here.)

I am Amazing, Wonderful, and Humble

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What I’m doing with my life
I may be getting older but they can't make me be a grownup dammit!

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I’m really good at
Sardines.

Pointing out the obvious.

Procrastinating.

Yet still getting things done.

I rock the cowbell.

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The first things people usually notice about me
My smile... how cliché. And apparently I keep on smiling even when the idiot in front of me makes me want to stab myself in the head with a fork.

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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
John Ringo, Lois McMaster Bujold, Kim Harrison, David Weber, Niel Gaiman, Terry Pratchett, Steven Brust and Laurell K Hamilton are among my current favorite authors.

Boondock Saints, Donnie Darko, Better Off Dead, Fido, Shawn Of the Dead, The Breakfast Club, Amélie, Sixteen Candles, So I Married An Axe Murderer, Strictly Ballroom, The Princess Bride, The Nightmare Before Christmas, The Life of Brian and Love in the Afternoon are among my favorite movies.

My tastes in music are pretty eclectic, Okkervil River, Cary Brothers, The Smiths, The Stone Roses, Magnetic Fields, Led Zepplin, The Cure, John Denver, ABBA, Vampire Weekend, White Zombie, Massive Attack, Belle and Sebastion, NIN, The Beatles, Glen Miller, The Clash, Social Distortion, G. Love, The Cruxshadows, Death Cab For Cutie, Prince Buster , Siouxie and the Banshees, Red House Painters, Flogging Molly, Nick Drake, Shiny Toy Guns, Lacuna Coil, Radiohead, Queen, Me First and the Gimme Gimme's, and Yellowman are just a sample... click here if you need more detail.

Food wise I like pretty much anything Spicy, Cheesy, and/or Meaty.
I make some damn good chili, enchiladas and my famous Baked Chicken Nachos.

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The six things I could never do without
A sense of adventure
Dreams
Hope
Cynicism
My inner child
and cheese...

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I spend a lot of time thinking about
What would happen if time travel actualy was possible?
Where do I want to go camping next?
Why don't more people my age want to play tag or hide and seek?
When are you going to stop denying how incredibly attracted to me you are?

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On a typical Friday night I am
Working sadly. I'm always up for an adventure though. If you decide at midnight that you really want to go on a road trip to Baker Hot Springs I'm there! Or anywhere else for that matter...

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The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Making a snow angel in the nude is rather chilly.

I cried at the end of the manga of Hana Kimi.

The last two women I was in a relationship with both wore the same size shoes as me and kept trying to steal my Doc Martins.

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I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 25-38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, activity partners, long-distance penpals
You should message me if
You aren't afraid of bugs, water or the sun, you're at least a little bit of a geek and you have an IQ higher than the average carrot.
I've got a girlfriend i love but we don't get out very much. I'd like to make some friends watch movies and spend time outdoors with.

If there's something you'd like to try, ask me, I won't say no. How could I?

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