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33 Collinsville, IL Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21–33
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 4:25pm
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Mostly vegetarian
Atheism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm a person just like you, flawed, looking for new friends and companionship.

I'm a Kansas native and I'm quite saddened by what's being done to it by the Kochs' bible-thumping surrogate.

I'm a designer, but that's not what pays my bills right now. Soon I'll jump back into the fray. I recently bought my first DSLR after years of using a compact point and shoot like a
manual. So, I'm trying to get some use out of that.
What I’m doing with my life
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Besides plotting my escape from the metro east…

Working, making stuff, watching movies on Netflix or listening to podcasts, dining out with friends, attending art events in STL, working on my car (just repair and maintenance, I'm not a gearhead), running a few times a week, trying to become a better version of myself.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I'm not, in fact, a woman but a gentleman with exceptionally long hair. I'm probably one of the more polished examples of a guy with long hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I own many design books (mostly pictures). I like science fiction that says something other than, "Hey, wouldn't it be neat to live in space?" I need allegory: A Clockwork Orange, The Moon is a Harsh Mistress. Occasionally, I'll pick up some classic American or English lit (Johnny Got His Gun). Alain de Botton.

I don't really care about sports. Some days the fans make me downright hate them. I feel the same about Sublime (the band, not the adjective).

Movies: Critically-acclaimed, Award-winning dramas and offbeat, indie comedies (I sometimes enjoy "coms" of the "rom" variety) as well as mid-to-high profile Netflix documentaries.

TV: Girls, Louie, Mad Men, Maron, Portlandia, Silicon Valley & South Park

Music: Apocalyptica, The Beatles, Beastie Boys, Black Sabbath, Danzig, David Bowie, Kavinsky, Lazerhawk, Metallica, Mr. Oizo, Nine Inch Nails, Nirvana, Rammstein, Rob Zombie, Rodrigo y Gabriela

Podcasts/Radio: Nerdist, WTF, Freakonomics, Smodcast, 99% Invisible, Radiolab, This American Life, Snap Judgement, The Moth Radio Hour, A Prairie Home Companion

Food: Indian and Mediterranean are favorites. At home, it's usually some variant on rice and beans with different vegetables and spices. I try to avoid processed foods and sugar. I like dark beers, but my cheap fall-backs are Stag and High Life. Dewar's & water, no ice. Merlot.
You should message me if
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You want to chat with, and later meet, an open-minded guy who's never uttered a catcall or sent a dick pic. Real talk.

You're a designer or artist of some stripe and want to talk shop or maybe collaborate.

You know something about local bands and want somebody to drag along to shows now and again.

I don't have a great deal of free time, so I tend to focus on high percentage matches, barring that, there's gotta be something in your profile that resonates with me.