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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 18-40
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:14am
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
6' 0" (1.83m)
Body Type
Average build
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Working on University
Has kid(s)
Has cats
English (Fluently), Japanese (Somewhat), Korean (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm not that good at putting my quirks and cool and crazy bits into text. I'm me, I'll happy explain me to those who want to know it.
Though, apparently I'm an INTJ "Mastermind", less than 2% of the population... yay?

Want to know me? Inquire within...

To put it plainly, I'm a Goth and not a hipster, emo, scene or whatever else is currently 'trending'. I have nothing against said people, the misidentification just gets a little.. old.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm currently a Security Guard (yeah, doesn't make sense, but it's working out) and looking to get into better work. I'm also trained in engineering, wood and metalwork, making leather goods and various other little skills that come in handy at randomly useful times.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Jack of all trades really. Wood, Metal, Electrical, Design, Computers, even Cooking. I'll do it if I can.

I'm a gamer, yes, I admit, and am proud of it.

I make chainmail, leather and related items. Armor, clothing, sexy items, stuff for, "other" uses. I'm told I do good work, but I still have alot to learn. Hoping to make more for people, take on new projects. If you wanna see, ask, I'll show you.

I'm told i'm verrry good at other things, but, who beleives what they're told? Better to find out for yourself I say.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My duality with my appearance, I can masterfully go from Business, casual, and pull a clark kent and go full leather-and-chains goth the same day. I am Hannibal Smith.. minus any furry costumes or cigars...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Action/Mystery, but i prefer Fantasy.

Movies: Comedy, Action, Fantasy / TV: Anime, Sci-fi, you know, good stuff.

Music: Metallica (the old-school times) 106.3 KZZE, Some techno, bit of a mix.

Food: Italian, Japanese especially (I can make sushi too), Chinese too.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) My daughter.
2) Communication (in whatever form)
3) A healthy supply of 0.5mm and paper.
4) Electricity (I'll hook a bicycle up to an alternator if it comes to it.)
5) Those repositories of knowledge before flash drives...
6) ...Do I need 6?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
If I can drive down the street without getting hit by some dumbass, as they seem to have multiplied recently.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Gaming, TV, working on a project, DDing a drunk friend home or.. um, what else do other humans do? Yeah, that too.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Ask and ye shall receive yon info. I'm rather open.

Seriously, if you ask me something i'll tell you, often bluntly, honest.

Yes, I'm in a poly relationship, I have 1 companion who is female, GracieTheGrei . We also have a wonderful daughter together. No I don't sleep around with strangers, Yes she'd know if anything ever happened. ..Yes, getting to know me would qualify you to the Non-stranger category. and no, I'm not in your head, well, I might be >.> been told I can do that too.
But, we seem to be one of the few who've broken the old poly stigmas and problems, and are happy. And willing to talk to others.
if you're comfortable with that, awesome.
if not... talking's not a bad thing.

If you wish to know more, or want to know what "poly" is, feel free to ask.
You should message me if
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If you find me interesting, or wish to chat or ask a question. send me a message ^^

...Or if you're stalking me, that'd be super..