Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a guy who can clean up, put on a smile, and work a crowd with
the best of them; but that's not my natural element and I find it
extremely tiring. (INTJ)
I'm from Brooklyn, NY. Augusta looks like it will be home for a
while though, as much as it pains me to admit it, and I'm still
working on adjusting.
I'm not the most active on here, and I've grown increasingly
skeptical of the whole online dating thing, but I must admit my
recent bar romances have lacked depth and I need to try something
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Transitioning, after eight years of service in the Army I will soon
(as of May) be hanging up my boots permanently.
I'm not getting to far from government, I will be working as an
analyst once I separate, but looking at what else is out
Trying to decorate a new apartment by myself.
(Apparently shower curtains aren't just optional)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
How about things I'm not good at.
Paying attention to details, I'm a big picture kinda guy.
Spelling - see above about attention to details.
Apparently bad grammer is the online dating equivalent of having
spinach in your teeth. They can see your lips moving but it's kind
of hard to focus on anything else, so I'm working on it.
lying - I can speak my way out of anything, but can't lie to save
Ummmm I guess my dance moves could use some work, but after a few
drinks I can never tell.
(I would actually like to step my dancing skills up, so if you
happen to be especially skilled (and extremely patient) I may be
The first things people usually notice about me
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That I'm big. Once we get past the body guard jokes, I think I'm
seen as someone who's genuwine, and respectful.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Society, institutions, the concept of equality, injustice, blah
blah blah blah...
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Occasionally partying. But more likely hanging out at home,
watching SVU reruns in between espn binging. (I need to get out
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I wonder how much of the person I was I can hold on to, without it
holding me back from becoming the man I'm trying to be.
You should message me if
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You're also new to the area.
You're intellectually curious.
You rather not shoot at things.
If you don't care to see how your car would look caked in
You don't blame Obama when you stub your toe, or Obamacare for all
the future intentional toe stubers getting ready to raise our
Or if you do, and can explain yourself rationally. (I don't care to
surround my people with people who always agree with me)
Social inequalities aren't just "stuff people whine about" to
You believe that taking the time to have one conversation, teach
one person, change one mind, is worth the effort if it means we
might make the world a bit of a better place.
Who are you looking for?
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