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ArsGratiaArtis0

37 Brooklyn, NY Man

Man

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Nov 19
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
Other
Height
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Sign
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Technology
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Dislikes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English, Spanish (Poorly), Russian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
My best friend introduced me to her MFA cohort as an "über dyke-y Daria Morgendorffer."
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I coax cooperation from curmudgeonly technology by day; nights and weekends, I struggle--at a glacial pace--to cobble together ideas, words and pictures into something devastatingly beautiful.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
•building IKEA furniture (seriously, you have no idea),
cooking vegetarian entrees people swear aren't,
•illustrating abstract concepts with concrete examples
•organizing information,
•subway platform pre-walking.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'd guess 'beard' or 'lazy eye' but most folks think I'm gay.

Color me quizzical (and super flattered).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: I'm an unrepentant bookworm so it's probably better if I just stick to recent stuff: Lauren Beukes' Broken Monsters was just fucking fabulous.

Movies: I essentially haven't stopped thinking about Whiplash since I saw it.

TV: I am over-the-moon about Orphan Black--pacing flaws, plot contrivances and all.

Music: If it were possible I could pull up stakes and move into the textures of Godspeed You Black Emperor!’s Lift Your Skinny Fists like Antennas to Heaven.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
cold brew coffee
• space/quiet (Briggs-Myers: INTJ)
• Internet access
• curiosity
feminism
craft beer
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
analog technologies, anarchists collectives (in general, starting one), Art, Cinema, entheogens, fine art photography, free speech, gender theory, Iceland identity-as-performance, intimacy, morality (how arbitrary it is), narratology (good stories, their grammar), pornography (feminist produced, intersections with Art), public vs. private, synesthesia and travel
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Unless there’s something great opening at IFC, I am probably Netflix-ing or reading in an effort to recover from whatever debauchery (imagined or otherwise) transpired the previous evening.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
To steal a line from Ani DiFranco: "if there's something you wanna know, just ask."
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
...you are curious.