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51 Oakland, CA Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 40–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

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6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Hi everyone. I'm a professional graphic artist/illustrator with more interests than a politician has fleas--from movies to art to taking great walks in nature to enjoying all genres of music to discovering awesome antique shops in distant towns, etc...So I wouldn't mind finding someone to share the burden of all these interests with. I was born and raised in the Bay Area during the funky 1970s. I went to Berkeley High and a few years after graduation I attended and graduated from the SF Academy of Art. I've had an exciting and VERY fulfilling career in art ever since.

I'm a romanticist who doesn't really have the time or interest in pursuing multiple women just for quick, cheap thrills. If I meet someone great, why would I not want to get to know that person much better? A compatible connection is harder to find than most people realize. I'm looking to meet someone who's as excited to see my name pop up on their smart phone as I hope to be when I see theirs. I'm not cool, casual and aloof. I'm warm, fun and cozy--and I'm the antithesis of a closed book. I'm also a lunatic for kissing.

And did I mention I like movies?
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a professional graphic artist/illustrator and I'd loooove to do something massive with my true passion--oil painting. I've had quite a few individual pieces in gallery showings as well as in magazines (two issues of Juxtapoz!) but after four years I've finally created one heck of an eye-boggling collection of paintings. And I think the subject matter would go over big in Japan. :-)
I’m really good at
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Gardening, conversing, painting, drawing, kissing, making people giggle, eating sushi, making cats purr and discussing the movie we've just seen.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My smile and eyes--or so I've heard. Oh, and my curly hair.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite movies: Waaaay too many. From "Grapes of Wrath" to "East of Eden" to "A Clockwork Orange" to "Taxi Driver" to "The Artist"--and so much more in-between.

Favorite TV shows: Breaking Bad, Parks & Recreations, Columbo, Seinfeld. And I'm liking a few new things like "House of Cards". But, believe it or not, I don't watch much TV.

Favorite books: "Catch 22", "Without Feathers", "Under The Skin", "Crackpot", "Ragtime", "Breakfast of Champions".

Favorite music: The Clash, Bob Marley, 1960s Girl Groups, Parliament/Funkadelic, Nina Simone, Sex Pistols, The Temptations, Led Zeppelin. Are you seeing a pattern here? If you are, please clue me in because I'd like to know too!

Favorite foods: Sushi, Mexican food, salad (with blue cheese dressing), Key-lime pie. Not much I DON'T like. Finnicky eater is not one of my descriptors.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A cat in my life, long walks, creating art, music, movies, laughing, kissing.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
French-fried potatoes.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Cooking a nice dinner and watching a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a fun collection of vintage toys. :)
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