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51 Oakland, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 40–52
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 11:29pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Has cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Hi everyone. I was told by a close female friend of mine I give too much away in my profile as it's wiser and more inticing to leave a bit of mystery. So I've done some Condensing. :-)

I have more interests than a politician has fleas--from movies to art to taking great walks in nature.

I was born and raised in the Bay Area during the funky 1970s. I've had a VERY fulfilling and rewarding career in commercial art since graduating from the SF Academy of Art in the early 1990s.

I'm a romanticist who doesn't really have the time or interest in pursuing multiple women just for quick, cheap thrills. A compatible connection is harder to find than most people realize. I'm looking to meet someone who's as excited to see my name pop up on their smart phone as I hope to be when I see theirs. I'm not cool, casual and aloof. I'm warm, fun and cozy. I'm also a lunatic for kissing.
What I’m doing with my life
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When I'm not slaving away at the drawing board over some new assignment I'm in the back room pursuing my true passion--oil painting. I also get a kick from turning my back yard into a seriously nifty garden. Flowers inspire the hell out of my work.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Gardening, conversing, painting, drawing, kissing, making people giggle, eating sushi, making cats purr and discussing the movie we've just seen.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I've been told my smile and eyes aren't too repulsive. :-)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Favorite movies: Waaaay too many. From "Grapes of Wrath" to "A Clockwork Orange" to "The Artist"--and so much more in-between.

Favorite TV Shows: Columbo, Game of Thrones, Seinfeld, House of Cards. But, believe it or not, I don't watch much TV.

Favorite Books: "Catch 22", "Under The Skin", "Crackpot", "Breakfast of Champions", etc...

Favorite music: The Clash, early ska, Parliament/Funkadelic, Nina Simone, Led Zeppelin. etc...

Favorite foods: Sushi, Mexican food, salad (with blue cheese dressing), Key-lime pie. Not much I DON'T like. Finnicky eater is not one of my descriptors.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A cat in my life, long walks, creating art, music, movies, laughing, kissing.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Learning how to dance really good. Or just good.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Cooking a nice dinner and watching a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a small but fun collection of vintage toys. :)
You should message me if
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You like what you see and read.