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  • Ages 34-43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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Today – 5:13pm
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5' 8" (1.73m)
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Special Diet
Judaism but it’s not important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
My self-summary
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Mid-westerner who ended up on the East Coast. I enjoy learning about music, art, film, literature, and human nature. Music is the thing that makes me happiest in life.
I am often described as calm, even-keeled, caring, with a dry sense of humor. I work hard to establish a balance in life between what needs to be done and having time for creativity, fun, and travel.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working professional but also writing and recording music, falling behind in reading the New Yorker, looking for treasures at the thrift store, going to the gym, art museums. Learning about Buddhism and meditation. Just returned from Italy. Iceland, Peru, and New Orleans are next.
I’m really good at
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listening to NPR, playing the guitar, riding my bike, listening when people talk, dancing around the house to old soul records, paying bills on time.
The first things people usually notice about me
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That my eyes are an unusual color.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Creative sushi, pumpkin miso soup, red pepper infused sake, I am basically a vegetarian who sometimes eats fish.

Favorite Movies Include: Donnie Darko, Ghost World,The Last Picture Show,Moon, Mulholland Drive, Rushmoore, Pee Wee’s Big Adventure, Unforgivable Blackness: The Rise and Fall of Jack Johnson, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind,
Down by Law, Henry Fool, Party Girl, The Daytrippers, A Hard Day’s Night, I Heart Huckabees, The Wicker Man (original 1973), The Bicycle Theif, Spinal Tap, Barton Fink, Exit Through The Gift Shop, Twin Peaks, Film Noir, Annie Hall, Brief Encounter

Music- Beach House, Beatles, Pixies ,The Velvet Underground, Hank Williams, Miles Davis, Belle and Sebastian, Motown, Gang Starr, The Smiths, Elvis Costello and the Attractions, James Brown, The Incredible Jimmy Smith, Sonny Rollins, Monk, Bach, My Bloody Valentine, The Cocteau Twins, Mazzy Star, God Speed You Black Emperor, Neko Case, Mono, Portishead, De La Soul, David Bowie, Tribe Called Quest, Air, Yo La Tengo, Phillip Glass, Erik Satie, Deerhunter, Bob Wills and His Texas Playboys,

Books and Writers:
Jeffrey Eugenides
Raymond Carver
Lorrie Moore
Amy Bloom
Scott Heim
David Sedaris
Malcolm Gladwell
Michael Pollan
Oscar Wilde
Victor Frankle
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
good friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
the process of how people create whatever it is that they do.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
out to dinner with friends, playing music, or at home watching a movie, recording an orchestra
You should message me if
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You can accept someone caring for you and share some caring as well, are smart, confident, competent, and understand that life is far too important to be taken seriously and will remind me of that ever so often. You admire that I have my shirt on in all my photos.