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39 San Diego, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 27–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 6:15pm
Hispanic / Latin
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Writer, music nut, editor, fledgling freelancer and promoter, quick with a joke, not one to smoke. I've sung with a punk band, thrown out a first pitch, I look like The Baxter, but behave like The Doctor. Don't worry, I'll explain in a bit!

I am quick-witted, progressive, and multifaceted
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Specifically, I'm the managing editor for, an editor at Raw and an occasional contributor to Alternet, among other outlets. No two days are similar anymore, which can be exciting, humbling and scary - sometimes all at once - but I get to be creative, which is paramount for me.

I've also started parlaying my yen for music into some DJ gigs around town. I've played some local goth clubs, and been the music man for the Geek Girls' Network at the 2010 and 2011 Comic-Cons.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Talking. If I'm comfortable with you, it means a joke, a story or a suggestion of the "Hey, let's do this!" variety is coming at any point. I write almost as actively as I converse, with comparable levels of diction and spelling. I'm also fluent in Spanish and Jive.

Mixtapes. I've been known to give these out to friends as tokens of thanks, or just to recommend stuff.

Writing. It's defined me personally and professionally, and I'm looking to get back on that horse, on journals here and other blogs.

Other talents:

* Swing-dancing
* Trip-planning
* Cleaning up well (however, not a neat freak)
* Acting a fool to get a laugh
* Karaoke, with a live band and otherwise
The first things people usually notice about me
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My lack of pretense and abundance of quips. Usually people are surprised that my mouth is that smart - even for a guy with glasses.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'm horrible about recent books and movies, but overall my tastes run toward lit covering musical and pop culture history and the films you'll see at the Ken or the Landmark.

TV: Here my tastes have definitely drifted more toward BBC/ITV offerings: Doctor Who, Being Human, Ashes To Ashes, Misfits, Coupling, Spaced and No Heroics have piqued my interest the most over the past few years. On the U.S. side, I follow Leverage, Psych and Burn Notice, and was a big fan of Dollhouse when it was on. I suppose I should just get this out of the way: I do not follow or particularly enjoy 90% of reality television.

Music: As you might have guessed from the previous sections, this is also a big part of my life, for a variety of reasons. And my ears are always open. Currently I'm listening to selections from a collection of nearly 2,800 mash-ups. Who knew Lyrics Born and AC/DC blended so well?
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My mind, hope, pen, paper, music, my friends
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What to do next, and what to set up for whatever comes next.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
It varies now -- sometimes I'll hit up karaoke, other times check out a local show. I'm lucky enough to live in a part of town where there's a bunch of options within walking distance any given weekend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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This one I'll answer face-to-face. But, it'll be an honest answer.
You should message me if
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You want to have fun; you want to dance; you want to trade musical discoveries; you want to trade music/movie/geek talk; you want a companion; you want to laugh.