I'd love to make and wear a T-shirt - "not straight, not gay, and not the least bit confused". (If you make this T-shirt, let me know and I'll buy one =) I'm as 50/50 bi as can be. I've dated the same number of men and women (not because I was trying to, it's just worked out that way).
Through all of my other dating history, I've been with one man, my best friend, my deepest love, my husband Gabriel_Night.
We are a polyfidelous couple - ideally, sometime in the future, we're hoping to find another 2 or 3 people who would want to join us in a life-long committed relationship, all living in one big household and raising lots of kids. But, we've had enough experiences that we know poly relationships can be difficult - both to find the right people and then to maintain the right balance of time, communication, priorities, etc.
So, these days, we're mostly just hoping to meet and become friends with some intelligent, empathetic people who care deeply, with a sense of humor who laugh easily, and who like to learn constantly and try new things (new foods, new books, new movies, new random adventures). If overtime, we all really hit it off and friendship deepens into something more - great!