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49 Austin, TX Woman


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 42–59
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly other
Other, and very serious about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has a kid, but doesn’t want more
Has dogs
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Dutch (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Some Interesting Things About Me:

1) I am excellent at 55 mph plant identification

2) I keep a pitchfork in my car at all times

3) I daydream about the end of the Automotive Era, where I-35 is a huge open market and we are all riding our bicycles.

4) My daughter and I like to run around outside in the rain.

5) I learned how to cook in France when I was 19. I make a kick ass ratatouille.

6) I believe in reincarnation.

7) If I didn't live in Austin, I would live somewhere with lots of wild mushrooms, where the trees were so old and tall you felt like you were in a cathedral when you walked in the forest.

8) I appreciate sensual pleasures:
--goat cheese ripened to gooey deliciousness smeared on a warm baguette
--the smell of the desert when it rains
--the feel of cool cotton sheets
--the shock of plunging into cold Texas water on a sizzling hot day
--making love in a tent with the stars above
--the sound of squirrels' claws on bark as they chase each other all over the pecan trees
--the squishy surprise of stepping into a swamp by mistake
--the sound of babbling water
--the perfume of huisache blooms wafting in the breeze
--light touch on skin
--looking into the eyes of a kindred spirit

If you like my list, message me your own list :-)

I am simultaneously lighthearted, intelligent, and deep.

I appreciate Peak Experiences. Sweet prolonged moments of intimacy. Being vulnerable while looking in someone's eyes. Magical losing-myself moments in nature. A wave of ecstasy riding my bike. Laughing uproariously with friends. Goofing around with my daughter.
What I’m doing with my life
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studying about nature, plants, & higher modes of consciousness; parenting, decluttering, creating, building, cultivating, teaching herbal medicine, cultivating and listening to my intuition; learning about life
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
seeing the bigger picture, seeing the humanity in other people, forgiving the humanity in myself, taking responsibility for my errors, loving my daughter, being kind to her dad, envisioning and doing my part to create the world I want her to inherit, always striving to find a solution to a conflict or impasse, listening to my intuition.

"If you think of the collective consciousness on this planet as very agitated water, muddied with lots of waves, lots of motion, currents, eddies, forces, and tides of desire and resistance, and now every time that you create an Avatar or that you seek inner peace and come to the present, you create a stillness in this muddied consciousness, and it begins to settle out.
When there are enough of us and we’re sufficiently still, every being, every aspect of the collective consciousness will see with clarity what we’re evolving toward. The Tao will be apparent to all."
Harry Palmer, creator of the Avatar Materials

I can tell my sister by the flowers in her eyes
On the road to Shambala
I can tell my brother by the flowers in his eyes
On the road to Shambala
-- Three Dog Night
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile. And that I am a natural person. I kind of forget that because it's just so much a part of who I am.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Current favorite song (it's an oldie!): Shambala by Three Dog Night
I listen to a lot of Indian devotional music.
I have also been known to teach a full John Denver repertoire to a car full of 13 year old girls on a road trip to Colorado :-)

Seeking a Friend for the End of the World
Monsoon Wedding
The Secret of Roan Inish
Lone Star
Whale Rider

Books / Authors:
Anything by Stephen Harrod Buhner: am currently engrossed in The Lost Language of Plants

Food: I'm a foodie and a bit of a food snob. I have been eating organic and in season since before it was cool. I grew up in NJ on Italian food which I love, but can't really handle the bread and pasta anymore. Now if I'm eating out I love Indian, Thai, French, and anywhere that they are thoughtfully using "clean" ingredients. That said, sometimes a highlight of a road trip for me is the excuse to indulge in a Big Mac.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
wild plants
natural wild water
my bicycle and/or my ability to walk wherever I want to go
interesting conversations, talks, teachers
organic vegetables
cheese (DAMN I already gave that up)
my daughter
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how to be in the present moment (although as someone pointed out, I probably shouldn't be *thinking* about it…!)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
doing lots of things
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
yoo hoo, this is the internet!
You should message me if
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You are both intelligent and deep. You like being an active participant in a relationship. You feel we could have a connection...

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