48 New York, NY
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My self-summary
I am a creative, open-minded and kind person, who feels a kinship with those that question the meaning of life and how best to live their life.
I'm emotionally mature and grounded, yet also playful with a penchant for adventure.
As a humble person (too humble I'm told), it's challenging to summarize myself here.
I am an urban type who also loves to be in nature.
Hiking and overnighting on the Appalachian trail and going to a cultural event are of equal interest and importance to me.
The company that joins me on such outings is the most important aspect. To that end, I am here looking for a kindred spiirt to share in life's wonders.
What I’m doing with my life
Teaching art (in as much as one can "teach" Art), raising my beautiful son, spending time as a family with my son, my man, and extended family too. I so much enjoyi time with friends, both friends with kids and those without. I am trying to find more time for my studio art, and beginning a new venture as an illustrator. However, the reality is that I spend too much time at the sink doing dishes.
I’m really good at
Making oatmeal, pancakes and capuccino in the morning.
Making drawings from life and my imagination.
Visual problem-solving.
Keeping secrets - this is important and unique about me. I have
found over the years that most people, not matter how well
intentioned and kind, cannot contain that which should be kept
private. Despite their best intentions, they leak information. I
know how to stay contained.
The first things people usually notice about me
My thick, curly locks.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
All of Barbara Kingsolver, James Baldwin, Melville and Dr. Seuss!
I crave a mixture of fiction and non-fiction.
Recently finished "The Secret Life of Lobsters." Currently reading a book on the relationship between Zen and Christianity.

We harvest much of what we eat, from the veggies to the meat!
I aopreciate cuisines from all around the globe
I love to cook tagines, paella, soups. J
The six things I could never do without
I am thinking about this question seriously. The reality is that some of us could without the things that we consider essential in our lives. So, I am not going to put down chocolate, good red wine, or my new Nook. Here is my attempt a deeper answer.

-a clear conscience
-moments of quiet
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Our faltering democracy and red/blue divide.
How I am going to carve out time for creative pursuits
My son
On a typical Friday night I am
I am not one for having a set routine (although have a young child has foisted some of that upon me) so Friday nights are not typical. I might be driving out of town with my family, home cooking a nice meal, or having dinner with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Hmmm...if I write it here it is not too private.
You should message me if
You are sincere, intelligent, cultured, and kind.