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30 Arlington, VA Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 26–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 10:26pm
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Mostly vegetarian
Judaism, and somewhat serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from law school
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay)
My self-summary
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I'm a stable, together, self-sufficient person. I'm fiercely loyal and I really enjoy deep, intense one-on-one time but I also value my independence. I have sophisticated taste and a goofy sense of humor. I love and crave intellectual, cultural and artistic stimulation. I enjoy hours of deep, fascinating conversation. I am completely unafraid to dance sober, to sing karaoke, or to state my opinion.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a lawyer and I run the legal program at a small non-profit organization that helps old people. I run an Etsy shop on the side, make perfume, sing in a Jewish a cappella group, attend a monthly tarot reading club, was doing a lot of yoga at one point and need to get back into it, and will look for pretty much any excuse to spend a weekend in Massachusetts. I watch a lot of sci-fi and am pretty passionate about Texas Hold'Em. I also run a small monthly dinner club for friends and am always looking for good restaurant recommendations.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making pretty things with my hands, singing, taking flattering photos of people and buying gifts for people. Also I love clothes and like to think I could be a pretty awesome personal shopper or stylist.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My perfume - I absolutely always wear perfume.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I like sci-fi and non-fiction - though I tend to read news articles, science reporting, and short essays more so than books. Recently getting into Asimov.

I prefer TV to movies because I like long-term character development, particularly sci-fi TV. My loves are Star Trek, Psych, Archer, Parks n Rec, Arrested Development, the X-Files, Jericho, Firefly, Stargate (even though SG-1 totally rips off Star Trek), Farscape, Chuck, It's Always Sunny, etc. etc.

I like blues, jazz, rock of all varieties, old school rap and a lot of modern world music. Pop, country and most current R&B make me sad.

My favorite song is Alice Coltrane's Journey in the Satchidananda: - it's a game changer

I'm also getting really into modern Jewish music, especially music emphasizing ethnic diversity within Judaism and music sung in the three big Jewish languages (Yiddish, Hebrew, Ladino) as a consequence of the fact that I perform in a Jewish music group- some examples: (Ladino) (Hebrew and a touch of Arabic) (Hebrew and Amharic) (Yiddish)

I don't eat land animals and I'm allergic to basil so that limits what I can eat, but other than that like everything except fennel, broccoli and endives. Particular loves are sriracha, hoisin sauce, goat cheese, cilantro, avocado, tofu banh mi sandwiches, bubble tea, Ethiopian food, farm fresh veggies, gourmet grilled cheese (ever done brie and farm fresh apple?), my own homemade ricotta, polenta, burrata, and chocolate.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Yoga pants
2. My cameras
3. The steady stream of Boston-related content in my Facebook news feed
4. Sriracha Sauce
5. Exquisite perfumes
6. Science Fiction

I was going to say the Oxford comma but then I realized I've done without it for much of my profile.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Social issues. And why the hell they ended Star Trek Nemesis like that those bastards.

Ways to monetize any of my massive repertoire of hobbies.

And why dudes my age are all growing big bushy beards when it makes them look like they throw poop in the woods.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Karaoke-ing (typically Sweet Child O'Mine), wine and cheese tasting and/or Netflix + knitting-ing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I think that 99% of white "social justice activists" are really just narcissists who want to pat themselves on the back for how superficially compassionate they are, and they'll gladly appropriate whatever cause is currently en vogue, and they throw around the word "racist" like it's a softball, and they judge moral value by who screams the loudest about the tiniest minutiae and wastes the most time griping on Tumblr. I'm a carless vegetarian who works for a non-profit. I don't need to go to your drum circle protest this weekend in order to prove myself as a liberal to you and your friends.

That userphoto of you posing with a bunch of African and/or Southeast Asian children is both unoriginal and exploitative.

I am mean in the Metro. Really, really mean. Especially to tourists. I hate tourists.

I buy underwear to avoid doing laundry.

If it is between you finding me attractive and me being able to eat carbs, carbs will win 100% of the time. Carbs > you. I repeat, carbs > you.
You should message me if
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You intend to actually meet me in person after a reasonable number of messages. I'm not interested in wasting my time chatting or texting indefinitely.

I don't send naked pictures. I don't respond to one-word or form messages. If you come to a first date with the expectation that I will sleep with you that evening, you either look like an Abercrombie model or are going to be severely disappointed.

-Must be intellectual
-Must care about art and culture
-Must support LGBT rights
-Must not hunt animals
-Must believe in climate change
-Must believe that men and women in a relationship are equal partners in everything, or gtfo