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27 Denver, CO Woman, Genderfluid, Androgynous

Woman, Genderfluid, Androgynous

I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:07pm
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body type
Buddhism, and somewhat serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Working on space camp
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and dislikes cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hi!! *waves* I'm Becca and... well, I'm here to meet awesome people.

Don't take yourself too seriously. You're not foolin' anyone.

Me in the nuthshell:
Homoflexible, genderfuild yet hard femme, kink-loving, sex positive, hard-working, non-smoking, active, introverted, walking contradiction... and I have a love/hate relationship with labels.
I think that about sums me up, but here are the details...

I'm curious
I love to learn and discover. Even though I long to be somewhat of a housewife, I could never do that 24/7. I would have to volunteer, have a job/career, or something in the real world. I need to contribute to and be a part of the world.

I'm poly-minded
What does that mean? I'm not anti-monogamy but I'm comfortable with open relationships/poly. I do prefer fewer quality people over many eh ones. For me, anything is possible in that area as long as all partners remain honest and ethical to each other and themselves. I have dated a few couples (M/F) but they mostly wanted Friday night only "poly" which is not my thing; I want the real deal. I want the depth and connection.

People who aren't poly always assume us poly folks are running around dating everybody with 50% of the effort... maybe for some but not most and certainly not for me. I won't speak for everybody but for me poly is the opposite of promiscuity: It's the fact that I genuinely get deeply connected with a wide range of people on many levels.

I'm a writer
I long to publish at least a novel or script. It's gives me great joy to create characters and giving them depth and an adventure that reflects the basics of human existence (Wow! That sounded way better than I thought it would)

I'm a family person
I want my own family, in good time. I love kids and want to become a mother to at least 2 with a loving companion beside me.

I'm kinky
There we go. It's out there. I go to fun "parties" every weekend with great friends. I'm usually tied up or being spanked. Oh yeah, I prefer to bottom more than anything. Too much? I'm not your girl then. Don't know what SSC or RACK means? Still not your girl.

I love adventure
This could mean a road trip or learning about another person's lifestyle or reading a new genre of books or anything. Life is meant to be explored and I am a curious person.

I love art
On a canvas, computer, written word, body, etc. You name it; I love it. I have 1 tattoo and working on my second. I have smaller gages in my ears and my belly button done. I love other people who turn their bodies into works of art as well :)

I'm a quality over quantity gal.
I love my friends and prefer quality over quantity by all means. This is same with a relationship. I don't settle nor compromise myself in that area, but that doesn't mean I'm unreasonable or shut off either.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Going to school full-time while working full-time, but I also make time for play.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making pizza... from scratch.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
How tiny and fierce I am... Like a puppeh!

I'm also really bad at doing the awkward first time meeting questions, I'd rather get down to the real deal.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Art of Racing in the Rain
Trans-sister Radio
Buddhism for Beginners
The Ethical Slut

G.I. Jane
Young Frunkensteen (LOVE Madeline Kahn!)
The Secretary
True Lies
The Fifth Element
Anything with Rachel McAdams
Anything with Drew Barrymore
in-her-prime Kathleen Turner (Romancing the Stone, V.I. Warshawski, Undercover Blues)

Modern Family

I love fajitas as long as they aren't spicy!
Working in the kitchen has made me want a big kitchen of my own to go crazy in!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Aside from the usual (friends, love, books, etc.)

A notebook (I love writing)
Good pair of running shoes
Yummy bottle of wine
The sun (I love a sunny day)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
If my life were a novel, what I would be writing/reading right now?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
A "typical Friday night"? That exists!?

With friends dancing the night away

Seeing a movie

Having me time.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I met a good friend through the internet, (not around anymore, sadly)

I once dated someone who was twice my age.

I miss when myspace was in for only one reason: Play music on your profile. Made my life feel like a movie! It was awwwwshum!

I guess that's more than one thing, isn't it?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You would love to sing "What Did the Fox Say?" with me. Out loud'n'proud. In public.

You are poly-minded or at least open-minded.

You don't pick out what's wrong with your body. Love yourself!

You know what FL means... and it's *not* Florida.