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37 East Weymouth, MA Man


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  • Ages 30–44
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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Last Online
Today – 9:10am
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Entertainment / Media
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Passionate, creative, and intense arts professional. I work full time in professional theatre in Cambridge. I live in Weymouth. I find blurred lines with my work and life interests. I consider myself an advocate and community organizer. I get to be part of the creation of culture.

I'm a sap. I'm sensitive. I'm half Swedish.

Immersing myself in that world has advantages. I have the opportunity to experience art on a day to day basis. I am surrounded by committed, passionate people who put everything into their work. True believers.

However, this doesn't mean that I am always in a dark room without windows. I grew up on a lake in NH. Growing up, vacations were to the city for museums and art. Now that I live in Boston, the lake house is my "house on the cape" and favorite vacations are to National Parks where I don't have cell service or internet.

I take living intensely to my work life as well. I'm open minded and find myself most at home on adventures and in deep, meaningful conversations. I've never been one to shy away from difficult conversations or taboo subjects. And, I don't judge or presume people's comfort or intentions as having some greater meaning of their character. I believe in giving people the benefit of the doubt and enjoying the ride.

Don't underestimate me and I won't underestimate you.
What I’m doing with my life
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See above. More detail: I am the Director of Marketing for a professional theater company.

I get to be part of something bigger than myself - as Vonnegut says "a very human way of making life more bearable."

Other things I do: live music, deep conversations, stay caffeinated, adventure.

I've also gotten into brewing my own kombucha.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Balancing signal versus noise.

Relieving tension and stress through finding humor in what seems to be the most bleak situations.

Being game, open, and willing for wonder, uncertainty, and fun.
Sharing silence comfortably.

I've been told I have a steel trap memory for details. Even what seems the most minute or in passing from a conversation.

Solving problems through abstract, creative, thinking.

Having fun.
The first things people usually notice about me
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This depends on your specific certain bias of what you notice about people. After some interactions, people notice I pay attention and have a memory for details and conversations. I listen with empathy and without judgement.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I've come to believe in a holistic view of my health which means I view cultural consumption which means I listen to music all the time. I used to be judged because I didn't listen to NPR in my car but instead I had music playing all the time. Now, I have more balance. I view being a cultural consumer as nourishment.

Books: Authors... Kurt Vonnegut, Joseph Heller, Shakespeare, Michael Chabon, poetry. Some titles... Crossing to Safety. This only scratches the surface.

There is something wonderful about hearing words read out loud. Clever wordplay can conjure the most exquisite imagery and to watch and listen to someone embody the words like an incantation is a marvelous experience. The theatre of everyday life.

Movies: The Last Station Stranger Than Fiction, Casablanca, Shakespeare in Love, The Last Waltz, The Big Lebowski.

Music: I go for lyrics, expression, passion, emotion. Bob Dylan, Greg Brown, Leonard Cohen, Ellis Paul, Lucinda Williams, Neil Young, Billie Holiday, Miles Davis. Ben Harper, Brian Webb, Josh Ritter, Session Americana, and Madeline Peyroux. Whatever the Genius function on iTunes spins to me. Many others that I discover at Club Passim, the Lizard Lounge, or other venues around town.

Food: In the summer I go for farm stands, grilling, and eating local. If I go out, it will likely be a greasy spoon or something divey. I do like to step out, on occasion but it has to have character and personality.

I recently discovered I am not sure how I had never seen this website before.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Song lyrics, emotional resonance, and remembrance.

How to maintain comfort with uncertainty and adventurous state of bliss, whimsy, and balance.

How to raise the societal visibility and value of arts and culture.

How we are tethered to the internet and our phones and miss out on natural beauty.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Unpredictable and inconsistent. I like being opportunistic and spontaneous.

Maybe the gym, at the theater (working or in the audience), live music, movie. Common denominator (hopefully) is good company and conversation.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I recently took an online test about whether I was a good person. Everyone needs validation right? Well, it told me in no uncertain terms that I was going to burn in hell. Join me?

But, really, there is more to me than meets the eye. We mask our private selves, wrapping them up and hiding things that we show in our most intimate moments when we allow ourselves to be vulnerable.
You should message me if
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You have a calm assertiveness about you. You break into smiles at the smallest observations of life. You're whimsical, spontaneous and, sometimes, you even find yourself laughing uncontrollably. You're kind to strangers, waiters and waitresses, and people you come across in your daily life.

You're intense, principled and passionate. You're curious. You enjoy experiencing art and culture and allow it to wash over you changing your emotional state of being and your vision of the world.

You're adventurous and fun.

Say hi, that's what we're here for, right?