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  • Ages 30-44
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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5' 6" (1.68m)
Body Type
Average build
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I'm a sentimentalist. An idealist. I like to believe in what is possible. Aspiration.

I work for a professional theater in Cambridge. I live on the South Shore. I spend my time all over Boston exploring and adventuring. My identity cannot be delineated to personal and professional since I proudly identify as someone who is passionate about the arts.

I grew up on a lake in New Hampshire. I escape back there, putting my cell phone down and enjoy sunny summer days and the breeze on the porch or going for a jog on the country roads.

The lake house is my "house on the cape" and favorite vacations are to National Parks where I don't have cell service or internet.

I live intensely. I have no expectations for this site. I'd like to meet some people who make me see the world through different eyes. New perspectives. Good humans.

Don't underestimate me and I won't underestimate you.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm the Director of Marketing for a professional theater company.

I get to be part of something bigger than myself. I am not selling widgets but helping connect people to transformative experiences - as Vonnegut says "a very human way of making life more bearable."
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Balancing signal versus noise.

Finding humor in unexpected places, burst the bubble of tension.

Being game, open, and willing for wonder, uncertainty, adventure and fun. Sharing silence comfortably.
Meandering, tangential conversations.

I've been told I have a steel trap memory for details. Even what seems the most minute or in passing from a conversation.

Solving problems through abstract, creative, thinking.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
We are more than what people notice about us at first glance.

I'm in a profession that desires to boil it down to a bumpersticker, creating slogans that attract people like flypaper.

I desire to be more than a first impressions. I try to give other people the benefit of the doubt.

If you can get past that, too, with me, we will get along well. And, you'll be surprised.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I've come to believe in a holistic view of my health which means I view cultural consumption which means I listen to music all the time. I used to be judged because I didn't listen to NPR in my car but instead I had music playing all the time. Now, I have more balance. I view being a cultural consumer as nourishment.

Books: Authors... Kurt Vonnegut, Joseph Heller, Shakespeare, Michael Chabon, poetry. Some titles... Crossing to Safety. This only scratches the surface.

There is something wonderful about hearing words read out loud. Clever wordplay can conjure the most exquisite imagery and to watch and listen to someone embody the words like an incantation is a marvelous experience. The theatre of everyday life.

Movies: The Last Station Stranger Than Fiction, Casablanca, Shakespeare in Love, The Last Waltz, The Big Lebowski.

Music: I go for lyrics, expression, passion, emotion. Bob Dylan, Greg Brown, Leonard Cohen, Ellis Paul, Lucinda Williams, Neil Young, Billie Holiday, Miles Davis. Ben Harper, Brian Webb, Josh Ritter, and Madeline Peyroux. Whatever the Genius function on iTunes spins to me. Many others that I discover at Club Passim, the Lizard Lounge, or other venues around town.

Food: In the summer I go for farm stands, grilling, and eating local. If I go out, it will likely be a greasy spoon or something divey. I do like to step out, on occasion but it has to have character and personality.

I recently discovered I am not sure how I had never seen this website before.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
If we were asked to succinctly articulate the reason being for our passion (in my case theatre) and why it is important in 300 words or less, could we do it?

'“No reason to get excited,” the thief, he kindly spoke
“There are many here among us who feel that life is but a joke
But you and I, we’ve been through that, and this is not our fate
So let us not talk falsely now, the hour is getting late”'

Also: How to maintain comfort with uncertainty and adventurous state of bliss, whimsy, and balance.

And: How we are tethered to the internet and our phones and miss out on natural beauty.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Unpredictable and inconsistent.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I used to think this question was useful because it was probing, but now I think it's ridiculous.

We're never willing to admit something really private that makes us vulnerable.

And, that's okay.
You should message me if
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You have a calm assertiveness about you. You break into smiles at the smallest observations of life. You're whimsical, spontaneous and, sometimes, you even find yourself laughing uncontrollably. You're kind to strangers, waiters and waitresses, and people you come across in your daily life.

You're intense, principled and passionate. You're curious. You enjoy experiencing art and culture and allow it to wash over you changing your emotional state of being and your vision of the world.

You're adventurous and fun.

Say hi, that's what we're here for, right?