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Arwen4CJ

31 F Fremont, OH

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 23–40
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Skinny
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, and very serious about it
Sign
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Student
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a Christian woman who is searching for a Christian man who would be my best friend and my partner in life.

I enjoy nature, going for walks, reading, and hanging out. I'm also not above playing computer games, especially old ones, and it would be fun to play them with someone every once in awhile. I also am content curling up on the couch and watching a good movie or TV show.

Bible study is important to me, and when I get married someday, I would like to study the Bible with my husband and family. I would like to pray with my husband and for him, and for our kids. I want Jesus Christ to be the center of the relationship.

I volunteer at my church, helping to teach the 5th and 6th grade class on Wednesday nights.

I have answered many questions on this site. If you are interested in dating me, please take a look at at least a couple pages of them before messaging me.

If you have a question about my particular answer or explanation to a question, feel free to ask.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm finishing up my counseling degree, and then plan on finding a job in a related field.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a good listener, am kind, and I am considerate.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Some of my Favorite books:
The Bible -- both the Old Testament and the New Testament (no preference for a particular translation), The Lord of the Rings series, The Scarlet Pimpernel, Pride and Prejudice, Whence Came a Prince, The Love Comes Softly series, The Black Cauldron (and the rest of the books in that series by Lloyd Alexander), The Kingdom of the Cults, The Kingdom of the Occult, The King James Only Controversy, Don't Waste Your Life, The Search For Significance, A Woman’s High Calling, Knowing God, A Cup of Hope, Choosing Forgiveness, The Invisible War,Instruments in the Redeemer’s Hands.

Movies:
The Lord of the Rings (all of them), Star Wars (The Phantom Menace, Attack of the Clones, Revenge of the Sith, A New Hope, The Empire Strikes Back, and Return of the Jedi), Emma, Pride and Prejudice, Love Comes Softly, Love's Long Journey, Love's Enduring Promise, Amazing Grace, Fireproof, The Man in the Iron Mask, Ever After, Monsters Inc., The Nativity, Clue, The Passion of the Christ, The Muppet Christmas Carol, Facing the Giants, Courageous, The Great Race, and others. This is not an exhaustive list.

Shows:
Doctor Who, Spellbinder (used to be on the Disney Channel -- has long since not been on, but I still like it), Masterpiece on PBS and most of what they show -- including the following: Downton Abbey, Inspector Lewis, Miss Marple, Wallander, Foyle's War, Poirot, Jeeves & Wooster. I also enjoy watching re-runs of older TV shows such as Get Smart, The Andy Griffith Show, etc. This is not an exhaustive list either.

Music:
Chris Tomlin, Matt Redman, Casting Crowns, Jeremy Camp, Tim Hughes, David Crowder Band, Jeff Deyo, Third Day, Delirious?, Kutless, Brenton Brown, Jars of Clay, Shane & Shane, Jeremy Riddle, MercyMe, Newsboys, Vineyard music, worship music in general, John Williams, Howard Shore, Gustav Holst
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Jesus Christ
Hope
Love (in the biblical sense, not in the secular sense)
Family
Friends
Trust
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Problems in the church, apolgetics, plots in books, movies, or TV shows that I like, fanfiction, God, the Bible, ways to help people, and important things that are going on in the my life or the lives of others that I know
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Relaxing at home or doing things with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
It really wouldn't be private if I disclosed it publicly on a dating site, now would it?
You should message me if
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Dating -- what I am looking for in a man:
1. You are a follower of Jesus Christ, as He is found in the Bible
(if you consider yourself to be Christian, a trinitarian, you believe that Jesus died on the cross for your sins, that He rose bodily from the dead, that He is returning some day in the future, and you believe that salvation is by grace through faith.

2. You do not adhere to the Prosperity Gospel/Word of Faith
teachings, or follow people such as: Joel Osteen, Rod Parsley, etc.
Basically, if you think that it's God's job to give you health
wealth, and prosperity in all things & that if you're not
prosperous in these things, you're sinning, than you and I have
different theology. I strongly oppose that belief system.

3. You do not admire the teachings of Bill Johnson of Bethel Church, Patricia King, Todd Bentley, John Crowder, Jim Goll, John Arnott, Bob Jones (different Bob Jones from the one who has a university named after him), Rick Joyner, Dutch Sheets, Graham Cooke, or anyone else who has a ministry link on The Elijah List.

4.) Besides being a strong Christian, and being theologically compatible, you need to be kind and treat others with respect. You and I need to share the same set of values/morals.

5.) I'm waiting until marriage to have sex, and I want you to do the same.

6.) I do want to have kids someday, so you need to want to have kids in the future.

7.) I want to find someone with whom I can have intelligent conversations with. While you do not have to be a genius by any means, I do want you to be intelligent. (If you're reading this, you probably qualify :) )

8.) You should be a leader -- and not be wimpy (and I'm not talking about physical strength. I don't care how physically strong you are). In other words, you should not be afraid to eventually become the spiritual leader of the relationship.

9.) I think I would do better with someone who is more relaxed than anxious, as I'd like you to make me feel comfortable.

10.) You must respect women.

11.) You should honor God in all that you do, and seek to glorify Him in everything.

12.) If you believe that religion, specifically Christianity, is more than just a lot of ethical and moral principles to follow.

If all of this resonates with you, then please message me. I will respond to you.