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20 Seattle, WA Woman, Cis Woman, Gender Nonconforming

Woman, Cis Woman, Gender Nonconforming

I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 19–26
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
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Pansexual, Queer, Sapiosexual
Hispanic / Latin, White, Other
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Working on two-year college
Sales / Marketing
Less than $20,000
Open relationship
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Italian (Poorly), Sign Language (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
First off, I'm poly! Secondly, I'm looking for either long-term or casual dating, preferably with someone who actively compliments my current relationship(s).

That being said, if you like talking about psychology, debating religion, or just goofing off and being silly, keep reading. :)

Let's see. How to summarize myself... I am a total geek and very proud of it! I spend a lot of time working on improving myself intellectually and emotionally. One of my highest priorities is improving the gentleness and clarity of my communication. I sing pretty much constantly, and I love to sit around and play music with people, both casually and with either of the two bands I'm in. I'm also a huge fan of filking, instafilking about pretty much anything, and hosting filk circles.

I spend most of my time smiling, and the plethora of smileys used in this summary and throughout my profile actually pretty accurately represents how much I smiled while writing these. :)

I'm polyamorous. :P I consider myself sapiosexual, and pansexual, so keep that in mind when deciding whether to message me or not. :) I'm kinky and queer and probably other fun things that I can't think of off the top of my head. :)

I love to share knowledge, but if people get into an argument about something where both sides are correct, or worse, both sides are -wrong-, I am liable to jump in with actual facts that diffuse the situation yet make a solid point in regards to whatever they were talking about.

I am dedicated, loving, and enthusiastic.
(Alternate three words, for those who get the reference: Billionaire, Playboy, Philanthropist)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working on becoming the best version of myself that I can be. I choose to live Kaizen, which translates to "continuous improvement."
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Counseling, being compassionate, singing, playing guitar, being passionate about other people's passions, learning and growing, babysitting, cutting hair, appreciating people.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Judging by the catcalls and stares, probably the size of my breasts. Other than that, likely the fact that I am singing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Oh man, this is always one of the more difficult ones. Let's see...

Books: Hello, Cruel World by Kate Bornstein, Anything written by Tamora Pierce, anything written by Laura Ingalls Wilder, anything written by L. M. Montgomary, anything by Terry Pratchett, Anne McCaffrey's books, Neil Gaiman's Sandman, Heinlein, Libba Bray, Asimov, The Fire Within (and it's sequels) by Chris D'Lacey, and many many others.

Movies: The AVENGERS(!!!!!!), Tangled, Kiki's Delivery Service, Howl's Moving Castle, My Neighbor Totoro, Escaflowne, the BBC Pride and Prejudice with Colin Firth, Scott Pilgrim VS. The World, Better Than Chocolate, Labyrinth, The Dark Crystal, Bride and Prejudice, Bend It Like Beckham, WALL-E, The Lion King 1 and 2, Mulan, Hot Fuzz, The World's End, Shaun of the Dead, Paul, The Little Mermaid, and many more I can't think of right now. :) And yeah, I do have a thing for kids movies. ^.^

Webcomics: El Goonish Shive, XKCD, Questionable Content, DMFA, Go Get A Roomie, Gunnerkrigg Court, Sorcery 101, Pictures Of You, Ozzie and Millie, Sandra and Woo...

Shows: Buffy, Dr. Horrible's Sing-Along-Blog, Firefly, Bones, Dr. Who, Torchwood, Phineas and Ferb, Once Upon A Time, Malcolm in the Middle, Tokyo Mew Mew, Danisnotonfire, Psych, New Girl, Bob's Burgers, Blacklist, How I Met Your Mother, Supernatural...

Music: This is the worst one. I have a very eclectic taste in music, and I always find it really hard to list it off. This would be one of those things people should ask me about if they are curious. Since I have to make a partial list, here are some of my top favorites: Rise Against, Suzanne Vega, Radiohead, ABBA, Bob Kanefsky, Heather Alexander, Julia Ecklar, Emilie Autumn, Evanescence, Vixy and Tony, Tim Minchin, Amanda Fucking Palmer, Dresden Dolls, Leonard Cohen, Ani DiFranco, Tori Amos, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Frank Hayes, Rammstein, Eisbrecher, Pink Floyd, Mickey Phoenix, Doubleclicks, The Offspring, Seether, Alexander James Adams (who I have now had the pleasure of performing with), Pentatonix, Dessa, Watsky, Barenaked Ladies, Matchbox 20, Weezer...

Musicals (because this thing doesn't have enough categories): Into The Woods, Phantom Of The Opera, Seussical, Les Miserables, Chasing Nicolette, RENT, Rogers and Hammersteins Cinderella....

Food: Tomatoes, raspberries, bagels with cream cheese and locs, salmon sashimi...
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music, compassion, my loved ones, people to love me, hope, and the belief that everyone can be helped to grow into themselves and thus have a better quality of life. :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why life is the way it is, my own psychology, how to help my friends in life, how to better myself in useful ways, the people I love, ways to improve the world, music, beauty, and hope.

...oh. And sex. Lots of thinking about sex. xD
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Most Friday nights I work until 8 and don't get home until around 9, so I usually just flop in bed and read or peruse tumblr for a while.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
The most private thing I will admit here is that I am diagnosed with multiple mental illnesses. I have Major Depressive Disorder with Psychotic Episodes (I sometimea hallucinate or have delusions about my value in the world when I am in a depressive episode), ADD, chronic anxiety, and an eating disorder. These things make my life a lot harder, but I'm working on not letting them define me. Right now life is mostly a matter of staying alive day to day, but even that is worth it.

Also bonobos have the right idea. That is all.
You should message me if
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a) You are higher than an 85% match with me.

b) You are prepared to have read my profile and followed these guidelines (if I get a message from someone who obviously just glanced at my picture and decided to message me, I simply won't respond.)

c) You are interested in actually having conversations, as opposed to simply telling me we should fuck without knowing me at all.