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19 Seattle, WA Woman


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  • Ages 18–23
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  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Hispanic / Latin, White, Other
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, but not too serious about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Working on two-year college
Sales / Marketing
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Italian (Poorly), Sign Language (Okay)

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My self-summary
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First off, I'm poly! Secondly, I'm looking for either long-term or casual dating, preferably with someone who actively compliments my current relationship(s).

That being said, if you like talking about psychology, debating religion, or just goofing off and being silly, you might want to message me. :)

Let's see. How to summarize myself... I am a total geek and very proud of it! I spend a lot of time working on improving myself intellectually and emotionally. One of my highest priorities is improving the gentleness and clarity of my communication, which ties into the fact that I plan to go to college to get my Doctorate in Psychology. I sing pretty much constantly, and I love to sit around and play music with people. I recently started a band known as "Bards Of A Feather" with my father. I'm also a huge fan of filking, instafilking about pretty much anything, and hosting filk circles.

I spend most of my time smiling, and the plethora of smileys used in this summary and throughout my profile actually pretty accurately represents how much I smiled while writing these. :)

I'm polyamorous. :P I consider myself sapiosexual, and pansexual, so keep that in mind when deciding whether to message me or not. :) I'm kinky and queer and probably other fun things that I can't think of off the top of my head. :)

I love to rant, mostly in educational ways, but if people get into an argument about something where both sides are correct, or worse, both sides are -wrong-, I am liable to jump in with actual facts that diffuse the situation yet make a solid point in regards to whatever they were talking about.

I am dedicated, loving, and enthusiastic.
(Alternate three words, for those who get the reference: Billionaire, Playboy, Philanthropist)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working on becoming the best version of myself that I can be. I choose to live Kaizen, which translates to "continuous improvement." I'm relishing the opportunities for growth that are offered by the normal trials and tribulations of teenage-hood (well, relishing them except for when they cause me pain....but mostly I'm grateful for them). I'd rather make my mistakes now instead of waiting to make all of them when I'm out in the real world. At least now I have people to help me learn to make effective reparations.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Counseling, being compassionate, singing, playing guitar, being passionate about other people's passions, learning and growing. Oh, and taking care of small children. :P
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm not at all sure, anymore. I've changed so much in the past....well, not months or, I guess. I've changed so much in my life that I have no idea what people notice about me first. I hope that they notice something like my smile or my excitement about life. :) I do theorize that people who meet me on the street most likely notice that I am singing at the top of my lungs, since that's what I do most of the time. :) That or they notice my extreme confidence.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Oh man, this is always one of the more difficult ones. Let's see...

Books: Hello, Cruel World by Kate Bornstein, Anything written by Tamora Pierce, anything written by Laura Ingalls Wilder, anything written by L. M. Montgomary, anything by Terry Pratchett, Anne McCaffrey's books, Neil Gaiman's Sandman, Heinlein, Libba Bray, Asimov, The Fire Within (and it's sequels) by Chris D'Lacey, and many many others.

Movies: The AVENGERS(!!!!!!), Tangled, Kiki's Delivery Service, Howl's Moving Castle, My Neighbor Totoro, Escaflowne, the BBC Pride and Prejudice with Colin Firth, Scott Pilgrim VS. The World, Better Than Chocolate, Labyrinth, The Dark Crystal, Bride and Prejudice, Bend It Like Beckham, WALL-E, The Lion King 1 and 2, Mulan, Hot Fuzz, The World's End, Shaun of the Dead, Paul, The Little Mermaid, and many more I can't think of right now. :) And yeah, I do have a thing for kids movies. ^.^

Webcomics: El Goonish Shive, XKCD, Questionable Content, DMFA, Go Get A Roomie, Gunnerkrigg Court, Sorcery 101, Pictures Of You, and many many others.

Shows: Buffy, Dr. Horrible's Sing-Along-Blog, Firefly, Bones, Dr. Who, Torchwood, Phineas and Ferb, Once Upon A Time, Malcolm in the Middle, Tokyo Mew Mew, Danisnotonfire(!!), Psych, New Girl, It's a Big Big World....

Music: *UPDATE* I just discovered Pentatonix and oh my god I am so in love with this band and Avi in particular it is a little bit ridiculous. >.>

This is the worst one. I have a very eclectic taste in music, and I always find it really hard to list it off. This would be one of those things people should ask me about if they are curious. Since I have to make a partial list, here are some of my top favorites: Rise Against(!), Suzanne Vega, Radiohead, ABBA, Bob Kanefsky, Heather Alexander, Julia Ecklar, Emilie Autumn, Evanescence, Vixy and Tony, Tim Minchin(!), Amanda Fucking Palmer, Dresden Dolls, Leonard Cohen, Ani DiFranco, Tori Amos, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Frank Hayes, Rammstein, Eisbrecher, Pink Floyd, Mickey Phoenix, Doubleclicks, The Offspring, Seether, Alexander James Adams (who I have now had the pleasure of performing with), and a lot more that I can't list here. :P

Musicals (Because this thing doesn't have enough categories. :P): Into The Woods, Phantom Of The Opera, Seussical, Les Miserables, and just about anything else because I have seen a LOT of musicals. :P

Food: I like food. It's a fairly good thing in general. I love to cook and I love to share cooking and recipes with people. If I had to pick a favorite it would probably be strawberry shortcake or orange chocolate chip cookies.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music, compassion, my loved ones, people to love me, hope, and the belief that everyone can be helped to grow into themselves and thus have a better quality of life. :)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why life is the way it is, my own psychology, how to help my friends in life, how to better myself in useful ways, the people I love, ways to improve the world, music, beauty, and happiness.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Generally messing about on the internet, catching up on webcomics or schoolwork, spending time with my partner, and thinking about where my dice and character sheet are for the next day's Pathfinder game. :P
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I want someone who will take me out on romantic dates. I want someone who will wow me with their intelligence, who knows what they're talking about, and who has the eloquence to express it clearly. I want someone who knows that I love roses, and cares enough to get them for me. I want someone who says "I love you" and when they say it I can tell the really mean it. I want someone who will let me support them and wants to support me. I want someone who will geek out with me about everything from music to boardgames to television shows. I want someone who knows that when I cry, sometimes I want to be held and sometimes I want to feel the emotion. I want someone who understands me and lets me understand them. I want someone who wants to communicate with me about everything, who lets me know how they're really feeling, and who isn't afraid to just be silly or afraid to be mature. I want someone who can hold me in their arms and just be with me, but who also knows just how to tie me up, what kinds of pain can make me melt and what to avoid. I want someone who understands a safeword, and respects it no matter what the scenario is. I want someone who will be there for me as long as it is healthy for both of us, and who will then work with me to help us be healthy for each other again before giving up. I want to be able to dance under the stars with someone, to be able to pour my heart out, to write silly love songs and not have them be laughed at or shrugged aside, but to instead have them be valued for their true merit. I want to be able to look at someone and say "I'm theirs" and feel completely safe. I want to be with someone who looks at this list and instead of being turned off by how much I ask, finds themself enthused by how much they want to give to me. I want to be with someone who looks at this person I am, and this person I have the capacity to become, and wants all of me. THAT is what I want.

Update: I now have a Fetlife account. If you fulfill my "you should message me if" requirements and want to know my Fetlife info, go ahead and send me a message asking for it (preferably with some form of introduction as well) and I'll gladly share it. :)

Also....I kink for British accents. >.>
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